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Posted: 4 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: maahi11

honestly I am so done with this virakhi chapter that I have no strength left to think about it, I might agree with what u saying but I still think sai doesn’t know the reason behind such obligations, like when devkit came we got to know the intention behind sai’s action,


I still feel she might think what u said but she far from the intentions of Virat, not that coz he is in love with sai but there is something else,

@green I knew she did it for Virat and she suggested it as soon as he said adhura parivar. I could only guess that she thought he missed Devi after returning from hospital but didn’t think it to be so that she could reduce his guilt


@bold matlab? I didn’t catch that.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion


Still lakes me laugh... two days and this mature man thought it was love. 🤣

Socha toh socha.. Gave lambe lambe bhashans also on that.. Tum nahi samjhogi Sai.. Abba dabba jabba..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saichintalli

Aur nahi tho Kya hai, ithna bada vadha koun kartha hai hai, and somewhere sai is right also, pakhi openly shows her love, virat even don't show her love openly to even sai🤣

Exactly, Pakhi showing her love, the confidence in Pakhi is conveying a lot to Sai 😒 and Virat mujhe kuch samajh mein nahi aa raha hai gaana ga raha hai 🤣🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I dont really think she knows the span of the love story.. Vaada boy has propagated his love as something only two mature people can understand ...so she presumed it was too deep.



Virat got that right...even I’m not mature enough to understand this deep 2 day love 🤣


Titanic pyaar sounds about right...it was always going to sink🙈


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

What does she know? That they met at yoga resort and he fell in love with her before Samrat got married to Pakhi. The commitment that Virat spoke to Sai before marriage was Pakhi. The person whose place Virat said that he cannot give to any other girl is Pakhi. The girl to whom he had given promise that he wouldn’t let any other girl come in his life is Pakhi. The girl for whom he refused to accept to be Sai’s husband during the wedding is Pakhi.

The girl whom he lost because he had got posted to GC was Pakhi. Virat had to get married to Sai out of force and thereby lost someone precious, who she has understood is none other than Pakhi. Pakhi was that girl without whom he got restless, whom he somehow wanted to bring home from her parent’s place. Pakhi was the girl Virat chose as a mentor for Sai. Hence as per Sai, Pakhi is someone too big, with whom he his highly impressed that he wanted Sai to learn things from her, that he wanted Sai to also develop the qualities as that of Pakhi.

Pakhi is a girl whom he has feelings for, and is a person who he calls his friend, that friend who can walk in to their room for anything, who has rights to question him, whom he has given so much power that she can question him on all his actions, decisions of his life. So much power that she can criticise his wife, steer the decisions of his life.

But at the same time with whom he has clearly communicated that Sai is his wife, will be his responsibility and that Pakhi shouldn’t come in between him and his responsibility. Sai understands that he has some expectations from Pakhi like she has to accept that Sai is his wife. I think she sees that he is respecting their marital relationship and wants Pakhi too to respect it probably until his responsibility is over. Sai thinks that Virat’s heart belongs to Pakhi.


What does Sai feel?

Virat loves/loved Pakhi so much that he had promised to Pakhi that her place/position won’t be given to any other girl.

He loves/loved Pakhi so much that in his heart, he only has place for Pakhi and no one else.

He loves Pakhi so much that even his legally wedded is not supposed to have any expectations from him as a husband.

He loves Pakhi so much or that his love for Pakhi is so deep that he doesn’t think that he can get married to any other girl.

He loves Pakhi so much that he had decided not to get married in his life hence he doesn’t consider their marriage to be a real one and hence made a deal with Sai that she can walk out once he fulfills his responsibilities.

He loves Pakhi so much that he chose to be single in her thoughts/love, preferred to be single than to get married.

Pakhi is the only girl Virat wanted to spend the life with, the only girl whom he can fall for, only girl whom he is impressed with, the girl whom he thinks is matured and understanding, the girl whom he thinks is well behaved, the girl whom he desired to be his wife and not Sai.

I think how much ever Virat gets close to Sai, all the above thoughts, the mere thought that Virat had decided to never get married because of the feelings he had for Pakhi, the thought that Virat preferred to stay single than get married is blocking her vision, making her refuse to accept his growing fondness for her (Sai), refuse to accept that he could be interested in her.

Him staying silent during their confrontation only spoilt the chances he had. Any other advances made towards Sai by him I guess could be seen as his attraction towards a girl he is living with, but she believes, has decided that he is probably getting carried away, doesn’t really realise what he is doing and when Pakhi actually comes in front of him, reality hits him and he walks away (not literally), he then acts committed towards his promise he had made to Pakhi.

Virat’s silence many a times can be perceived as him stuck between Sai and Pakhi. Virat’s nice/polite behaviour in contrary to his harsh/strict behaviour towards Sai makes it looks to her like he has soft corner for Pakhi and that he can never be too harsh with Pakhi.

His inability to protest Pakhi’s advances (like Ladakh trip packing, her wishes to go for sightseeing, feeding him food, showing care/ concern for him and so much more) at all times makes it look like he has issues in drawing a line with Pakhi, makes her feel as if he is hesitant to tell the love of his life to stay away, as if he is caught in between his feelings/obligation towards his love (Pakhi) and moral/ethical values. She feels that he knows to stay loyal to his wife because that is what is right but acts loyal to his lover too by not giving Sai the rights of a wife but instead considering her only as his responsibility.

The more and more she sees Pakhi showing love/care/concern for Virat which if he doesn’t strongly object saying he has a wife who can take care of all of his needs and that she should think only about her husband Samrat, Sai might only perceive that Virat is stuck in his past, unable to move on. She is probably made to think that he loves Pakhi so much, his feelings for Pakhi is so deep that he doesn’t want to tell anything to Pakhi that would hurt Pakhi, tell anything to Pakhi that would mean like he is trying to put an end to his commitment. Looks like these are making it look like he is being loyal to Pakhi.

I am not sure if I could answer your question 🙈. I might have missed some points too.

Tagging a few who could validate my understanding and who could also share their points/views.

The amar nakli prem katha, kambhakat sacche pyaar mein bhi yeh taakat nahi hai🤣

Waise, the thing is simple. She doesn't know the story like a complete film or so, but she admires this story a lot I guess. Why am I giving jalebis here? 🤣As in, Sai labels everything she is going through with this story and it's contents and with it's characters. Why shouldn't she behave like a wife? Flashback of story and characters. Why should she keep her walls up high? Premkatha and didi. Why should she keep her distance from Virat and not consider his advances seriously?Prem katha and didi.

It's another thing that not only Sai respects this story more than necessary, as in even if she fights with Pakhi, it is for her self respect most of the time, but she clearly considers this story no less than wifely rights which are given to Pakhi more compared to her. And no verbal confirmation, and as you said actions, lead her to admire this wonderful story more and more

She is also using this story to stop herself at every point and contemplate her actions as well her steps, a route of escape. This is creating hindrance to each and everyone to move forward. And didi showing off her ghar tod skills at every point, and Viru not realising it,atleast early, I guess has made Sai a big fan of this story 🤪🤪

Now I'm afraid of my own post, kahi iska agla mission kuch aur na ho🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: laksh

@green I knew she did it for Virat and she suggested it as soon as he said adhura parivar. I could only guess that she thought he missed Devi after returning from hospital but didn’t think it to be so that she could reduce his guilt


@bold matlab? I didn’t catch that.

there is more to Virat’s behavior towards Pakhi it’s more of sympathy, somehow I feel he thinks Pakhi dint get happiness coz of him, and sai isn’t aware of that,

Virat had long said what sai is thinking is wrong, I know he never cleared but he had denied on many occasions


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: maahi11

there is more to Virat’s behavior towards Pakhi it’s more of sympathy, somehow I feel he thinks Pakhi dint get happiness coz of him, and sai isn’t aware of that,

Virat had long said what sai is thinking is wrong, I know he never cleared but he had denied on many occasions

Yes, we know that but Sai doesn’t know or able to think that way 😒

Actually Sai has seen it as his care for her, knows that he empathises with her too, but has mentally blocked herself and Pakhi’s way of openly expressing her love is another issue. You remember how Sai has said on the day Pakhi scolded Virat telling how much Virat cares for her. She has doubts that he is respecting her as only Samrat’s wife, she has been able to sense it probably.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShipIsSailing

As deep as it can be.

I think when she thinks of them, the first thing that comes in her mind is a love like Jack and Rose's from Titanic. I am pretty sure she believes that if Virat have any grandchildren, he will tell them about his two day yoga love and how Pakhi saved him in every way a person can be saved

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

Exactly, Pakhi showing her love, the confidence in Pakhi is conveying a lot to Sai 😒 and Virat mujhe kuch samajh mein nahi aa raha hai gaana ga raha hai 🤣🤣

jab bhi vo kehtha hai ki , i don't understand what pakhi want,,, dil kartha hai virat ko washing machine mei dal kar wash kardhu..... idiot kahi ka, ithna openly she told she loves him phir bhi he is confused.😡😡

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

What does she know? That they met at yoga resort and he fell in love with her before Samrat got married to Pakhi. The commitment that Virat spoke to Sai before marriage was Pakhi. The person whose place Virat said that he cannot give to any other girl is Pakhi. The girl to whom he had given promise that he wouldn’t let any other girl come in his life is Pakhi. The girl for whom he refused to accept to be Sai’s husband during the wedding is Pakhi.

The girl whom he lost because he had got posted to GC was Pakhi. Virat had to get married to Sai out of force and thereby lost someone precious, who she has understood is none other than Pakhi. Pakhi was that girl without whom he got restless, whom he somehow wanted to bring home from her parent’s place. Pakhi was the girl Virat chose as a mentor for Sai. Hence as per Sai, Pakhi is someone too big, with whom he his highly impressed that he wanted Sai to learn things from her, that he wanted Sai to also develop the qualities as that of Pakhi.

Pakhi is a girl whom he has feelings for, and is a person who he calls his friend, that friend who can walk in to their room for anything, who has rights to question him, whom he has given so much power that she can question him on all his actions, decisions of his life. So much power that she can criticise his wife, steer the decisions of his life.

But at the same time with whom he has clearly communicated that Sai is his wife, will be his responsibility and that Pakhi shouldn’t come in between him and his responsibility. Sai understands that he has some expectations from Pakhi like she has to accept that Sai is his wife. I think she sees that he is respecting their marital relationship and wants Pakhi too to respect it probably until his responsibility is over. Sai thinks that Virat’s heart belongs to Pakhi.


What does Sai feel?

Virat loves/loved Pakhi so much that he had promised to Pakhi that her place/position won’t be given to any other girl.

He loves/loved Pakhi so much that in his heart, he only has place for Pakhi and no one else.

He loves Pakhi so much that even his legally wedded is not supposed to have any expectations from him as a husband.

He loves Pakhi so much or that his love for Pakhi is so deep that he doesn’t think that he can get married to any other girl.

He loves Pakhi so much that he had decided not to get married in his life hence he doesn’t consider their marriage to be a real one and hence made a deal with Sai that she can walk out once he fulfills his responsibilities.

He loves Pakhi so much that he chose to be single in her thoughts/love, preferred to be single than to get married.

Pakhi is the only girl Virat wanted to spend the life with, the only girl whom he can fall for, only girl whom he is impressed with, the girl whom he thinks is matured and understanding, the girl whom he thinks is well behaved, the girl whom he desired to be his wife and not Sai.

I think how much ever Virat gets close to Sai, all the above thoughts, the mere thought that Virat had decided to never get married because of the feelings he had for Pakhi, the thought that Virat preferred to stay single than get married is blocking her vision, making her refuse to accept his growing fondness for her (Sai), refuse to accept that he could be interested in her.

Him staying silent during their confrontation only spoilt the chances he had. Any other advances made towards Sai by him I guess could be seen as his attraction towards a girl he is living with, but she believes, has decided that he is probably getting carried away, doesn’t really realise what he is doing and when Pakhi actually comes in front of him, reality hits him and he walks away (not literally), he then acts committed towards his promise he had made to Pakhi.

Virat’s silence many a times can be perceived as him stuck between Sai and Pakhi. Virat’s nice/polite behaviour in contrary to his harsh/strict behaviour towards Sai makes it looks to her like he has soft corner for Pakhi and that he can never be too harsh with Pakhi.

His inability to protest Pakhi’s advances (like Ladakh trip packing, her wishes to go for sightseeing, feeding him food, showing care/ concern for him and so much more) at all times makes it look like he has issues in drawing a line with Pakhi, makes her feel as if he is hesitant to tell the love of his life to stay away, as if he is caught in between his feelings/obligation towards his love (Pakhi) and moral/ethical values. She feels that he knows to stay loyal to his wife because that is what is right but acts loyal to his lover too by not giving Sai the rights of a wife but instead considering her only as his responsibility.

The more and more she sees Pakhi showing love/care/concern for Virat which if he doesn’t strongly object saying he has a wife who can take care of all of his needs and that she should think only about her husband Samrat, Sai might only perceive that Virat is stuck in his past, unable to move on. She is probably made to think that he loves Pakhi so much, his feelings for Pakhi is so deep that he doesn’t want to tell anything to Pakhi that would hurt Pakhi, tell anything to Pakhi that would mean like he is trying to put an end to his commitment. Looks like these are making it look like he is being loyal to Pakhi.

I am not sure if I could answer your question 🙈. I might have missed some points too.

Tagging a few who could validate my understanding and who could also share their points/views.


You summarized so beautifully Lakshmi! No wonder she is hesitant. 😭

I agree to each and every point. If only she could know virat has these feelings only for her. Gadha kahinka. 😡


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