Guilt Vs. Love

Hello Folks,

First of all, I am truly glad to see Raghav cry and genuinely repent. I would have hated to see him going into denial and throw tantrums like so many other egoistic ML I've witnessed in ITV life. He cries freely, and it's one of his qualities I really like. However, coming to the point, I hope Antar Aatma Rao makes an appearance once again to help Raghav differentiate between guilt, love stemming out of guilt and genuine love. Raghav needs to complete a journey, from hate to guilt, to forgiveness and love. I hope they just don't jump to intense love very soon because it's still going to be hard for them. (I don't mind the romance and flirting, it's very healthy - even for audience 😆) but I'd really like the makers to not package guilt as love. A complete track of him ACTUALLY falling in love will be so nice to watch

I am not sure of what to expect from Pallavi's side right now in terms of falling in love with Raghav, but of course she will, but she has no guilt as she's not done anything wrong. So for her, she will only be able to fall for him when she sees his real side, his softer and caring side and when he actually makes efforts to be a better person.

All in all - Antar Aatma Rao's second appearance is needed soon 😆

Yaa...hope this guilt track will cover only guilt track...not love..they should start by friendship first..like he said earlier they had shared friendship😆..

Love can take time...I didn't even expected this Raghav before 100 epi😆

..Raghav first should mend his ways first..looks like going by..Raghav will fall for her first..cause he's already..but has not realised..

Pallu can take her own time..but at least one person needs to fall😆

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Hello Folks,

First of all, I am truly glad to see Raghav cry and genuinely repent. I would have hated to see him going into denial and throw tantrums like so many other egoistic ML I've witnessed in ITV life. He cries freely, and it's one of his qualities I really like. However, coming to the point, I hope Antar Aatma Rao makes an appearance once again to help Raghav differentiate between guilt, love stemming out of guilt and genuine love. Raghav needs to complete a journey, from hate to guilt, to forgiveness and love. I hope they just don't jump to intense love very soon because it's still going to be hard for them. (I don't mind the romance and flirting, it's very healthy - even for audience 😆) but I'd really like the makers to not package guilt as love. A complete track of him ACTUALLY falling in love will be so nice to watch

I am not sure of what to expect from Pallavi's side right now in terms of falling in love with Raghav, but of course she will, but she has no guilt as she's not done anything wrong. So for her, she will only be able to fall for him when she sees his real side, his softer and caring side and when he actually makes efforts to be a better person.

All in all - Antar Aatma Rao's second appearance is needed soon 😆

Totally agree with you. If it goes straight from guilt to 'love' there might be doubts in Pallavi's mind later on if his caring is born out of pity or sympathy. We don't want that. I too, would want a track of him actually falling in love and experiencing the pangs.

Yes, Pallavi will fall for him when she sees his real nature and emotions, unmasked, unguarded.

I always knew he'd have a proper redemption arc because we've seen him crying and suffering in guilt about his past in the early episodes and also when Harish said that he didn't let innocents get punished, it was against his principles. We are getting all that now, and while I love seeing lighter moments and him trying to figure out how to navigate this phase of his life as a husband, I don't mind if he starts with just fulfilling his duties/responsibilities. He's basically a caring person and his guilt will make him overcompensate, which is fine because Pallavi deserves extra TLC.

I have always said that one of the best things about this character is it's challenge to stereotypical MLs and toxic masculinity. He proves that you can be an alpha male and still express your emotions (to both men and women). It doesn't make him any less of a man, in fact I respect him even more for that.

Originally posted by: samarp2

Yaa...hope this guilt track will cover only guilt track...not love..they should start by friendship first..like he said earlier they had shared friendship😆..

Love can take time...I didn't even expected this Raghav before 100 epi😆

..Raghav first should mend his ways first..looks like going by..Raghav will fall for her first..cause he's already..but has not realised..

Pallu can take her own time..but at least one person needs to fall😆

Well, Sai said there would be lots of ups and downs in their relationships.

It's too soon to fall in love. He's going to have to deal with the memories of his past (bloody hands) as part of this.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Well, Sai said there would be lots of ups and downs in their relationships.

It's too soon to fall in love. He's going to have to deal with the memories of his past (bloody hands) as part of this.

i expected grumpy Raghav till 90 epi atleast🤔.didnt expect him to change quick.he changed is good too, not bad

Originally posted by: samarp2

i expected grumpy Raghav till 90 epi atleast🤔.didnt expect him to change quick.he changed is good too, not bad

I think they had to rush because of the lockdown..

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think they had to rush because of the lockdown..

i felt same too

Yes, I want the inner self to come and remind him, your deal was to get married and you will leave her alone. Why now? you want to get her back..ask those genuine questions.

Very good topic. There shades to his feelings for Pallavi. Deep down I don't think he married Pallavi for his Amma..though that is his superficial excuse. Pallavi is his muse..she keeps his life interesting ..those exact qualities he cannot understand about her keep him curious. He is not in love yet..but when his mother asked him to marry his muse he jumped on it. And he married her without properly asking her because he knows , Pallavi will never say yes to him in a normal way.

Now..he is trying to fulfill husbandly duties, more out of guilt, but still he is yet in his outer shell. He has yet not explored what she really means to him beyond duty and guilt. Yes his first step is to bring her to normalcy which he will..either by caring or going back to his deals with her that she used to respond to. But beyond that..what does he want from her? He doesn't know. What after Deshmukhs forgive and accept her. Then what? What's his permanent equation with her...that both of them have not explored yet.

Yes guilt should not be misunderstood as love. Not sympathy too. The only way I see is if they slowly are able to respect and trust each other. No secrets. That's the only way to love. Lets hope CVS keep this point in mind.

Let's hope they read this.

Yes I too feel that he really jumped into the marriage because she intrigues him. He lies to himself and he has this knack of ignoring his inner callings. Amma is an excuse but these days Amma is really giving him good advice. He was raised without motherly affection and care hence never found his center. He is lacking in many things but it's a good start by making amends and apologizing.

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

Very good topic. There shades to his feelings for Pallavi. Deep down I don't think he married Pallavi for his Amma..though that is his superficial excuse. Pallavi is his muse..she keeps his life interesting ..those exact qualities he cannot understand about her keep him curious. He is not in love yet..but when his mother asked him to marry his muse he jumped on it. And he married her without properly asking her because he knows , Pallavi will never say yes to him in a normal way.

Now..he is trying to fulfill husbandly duties, more out of guilt, but still he is yet in his outer shell. He has yet not explored what she really means to him beyond duty and guilt. Yes his first step is to bring her to normalcy which he will..either by caring or going back to his deals with her that she used to respond to. But beyond that..what does he want from her? He doesn't know. What after Deshmukhs forgive and accept her. Then what? What's his permanent equation with her...that both of them have not explored yet.

Yes guilt should not be misunderstood as love. Not sympathy too. The only way I see is if they slowly are able to respect and trust each other. No secrets. That's the only way to love. Lets hope CVS keep this point in mind.