Dard bari dastan Raghvi !!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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We got to know pallu side of being unlucky one not having parents

Truly a sad one it’s really hard I know it personally because I have seen my mom not seen her dad and her mom bedridden and her sister took care of her but yet parents are parents at age my mom was treated indifferent and made a babysitter at age of 8 ..

Married in joint family with 9 members she used to find a family selflessly served them eventually got respect and my dad was her driving force ..

So I relate to pallu more ya sorry but it’s true I do

But it’s up to ppl who understand her selflessness if Bheja fry family doesn’t understand her it’s there low mentality because u need a heart o kehte hai na o jitni hai vaise uska soch jitna aukat unka soch bi niche.


Slap to Raghu she is afraid of the hard reality she hit him meaning she considered him as her punching bag as all hubby considered us wife as person punching bag tension outside come show on us ...

She knows it’s true that family never consider as her own from hajmola to mansi they just outside her ..

Only aai and nikhil are genuine but both couldn’t help her but became a burden to pallu in some way ( married Raghu but future is way different she will realize slowly a beast has other side of the coin )

Well that was pallu side she expressed it and gave clarity to Raghu now he knows to remove the cloth carefully which has fallen on thorny fence he has to be careful he needs to find a way to remove the cloth from the fence tactfully..



Broken trust broken relationships need time to heal patience is the key

This was pallu side ..


but Raghu side is more painful compared to pallu not having parents is painful but losing a dad and bro and blamed to top it his mom and sister disowning him for life it’s the worst nightmare ever

Whether Raghu was wrong not clear was he accused wrongly maybe he could not save the society trashing the family and death of 2 loved ones is next level hell for him


The day pallu really understand that more than her Raghu pain is bigger and worse she will understand the real Raghu and bring out the real person out of the beast called RR

The wall needs to be broken first only pallu can break the shell to realize jo dikhta hai o hota nahi

Then she will see the other side of this idiot

Yes I call him idiot because he is impulsive doesn’t understand thanks to his one more idiotic Amma of his who let the khula sandh wonder around without no lagaam


I seriously don’t understand this Amma she claims to love her son because he made her a mom

But has she ever seen and understand his pain I would say never so is kirti they both are in there own zone he killed father and small member of the family did they reason it out what really happened did they even understand what pain this man is going through never


well for Raghu in future he doesn’t need these materialistic ppl when he will have his soulmate

He too will get it if they need me they will have me if not it’s there call

He too is unlucky like pallu having a parent he lived his half his life as orphan at least pallu brother showers her with love but pallu doesn’t realize ..



Eventually what I feel is reality check for raghvi they will realize that we have done our karma ( work ) it’s up to the opposite ppl to take it or leave it ..

I want them to just build a strong castle for themselves were they feel safe and secured being in each others arms safe and sound with strong bond unbreakable with loads of happiness and understanding..



I live with a beautiful song for raghvi


https://youtu.be/J3ZMc8iCoR4

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Great post shailu

Only thing i personally dont agree with RR being pallus punching bag Thats so unhealthy. Plus i think she hit him cause she had enough of him and got defensive over his statements attacking the only good memories shr has with d family also. But i already spoke so much yesterday about this. I feel like broken casette 🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: RosyRosh

Great post shailu

Only thing i personally dont agree with RR being pallus punching bag Thats so unhealthy. Plus i think she hit him cause she had enough of him and got defensive over his statements attacking the only good memories shr has with d family also. But i already spoke so much yesterday about this. I feel like broken casette 🤣


arey couple mai chalta hai ..

jo fight nahi karte to perfect nahi hai

punching bag sab hote hai ...its hard truthi am my hubby 's punching bag frustration on us..

raghu seemed rude so she hit ..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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superb analysis........


looking at pallavi's breakdown i felt bad and feeling bad for raghav as well......his journey towards redemption has just started and he has a long way to go....he needs a little support which he isnt getting....


he is hurting looking at pallavi....the way he sat with her, was sign of care and sorrow too...he is ashamed of himself......


i am angry at jaya coz again she threatened him saying she will leave ......she told him to rectify his mistake......thats what he tried to do....its not working and he is understanding the gravity of the issue gradually......sink in hone ko time to do.....


she told him not cry and do something......are pagal aurat he has understood and trying to do the same....zyada gyan mat do....these people are not supporting him, rather pushing him further......


aai's taunts to bada bindi was spot on......they tried to harm pallavi but eventually its good for her.....


pallavi is leaving ......if she does den it will give time to everyone to introspect and work further......

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: maanmeet1

superb analysis........


looking at pallavi's breakdown i felt bad and feeling bad for raghav as well......his journey towards redemption has just started and he has a long way to go....he needs a little support which he isnt getting....


he is hurting looking at pallavi....the way he sat with her, was sign of care and sorrow too...he is ashamed of himself......


i am angry at jaya coz again she threatened him saying she will leave ......she told him to rectify his mistake......thats what he tried to do....its not working and he is understanding the gravity of the issue gradually......sink in hone ko time to do.....


she told him not cry and do something......are pagal aurat he has understood and trying to do the same....zyada gyan mat do....these people are not supporting him, rather pushing him further......


aai's taunts to bada bindi was spot on......they tried to harm pallavi but eventually its good for her.....


pallavi is leaving ......if she does den it will give time to everyone to introspect and work further......

So now that everyone has pretty much told Raghav he needs to fix this and is on his own, will Aai be the person to guide him? I really hope she calls him so he sees that his rant yesterday wasn't totally wasted and that he has someone supporting him.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: inlieu

So now that everyone has pretty much told Raghav he needs to fix this and is on his own, will Aai be the person to guide him? I really hope she calls him so he sees that his rant yesterday wasn't totally wasted and that he has someone supporting him.

Wish that happens

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: inlieu

So now that everyone has pretty much told Raghav he needs to fix this and is on his own, will Aai be the person to guide him? I really hope she calls him so he sees that his rant yesterday wasn't totally wasted and that he has someone supporting him.

oh wow.......i never thought about this....

this would be amazing

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: inlieu

So now that everyone has pretty much told Raghav he needs to fix this and is on his own, will Aai be the person to guide him? I really hope she calls him so he sees that his rant yesterday wasn't totally wasted and that he has someone supporting him.

I am 100% sure ayi will help Raghav to mend his relationship with Pallavi. Raghav needs someone to guide him to fix the mess he created. Farhad and Amma won't be able to do it. Yesterday i was sceptical about ayi helping Raghav but today i am sure about it

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Wilddreams

I am 100% sure ayi will help Raghav to mend his relationship with Pallavi. Raghav needs someone to guide him to fix the mess he created. Farhad and Amma won't be able to do it. Yesterday i was sceptical about ayi helping Raghav but today i am sure about it

That would be interesting because he will not only have an ally, it will help relieve some of Pallavi's pain knowing at least she has Ayi with her. If it goes well, she will start to consider Raghav as her son. Over time, just as Pallavi will get to see what a real family is, he will in turn get to see motherly affection in a very different form than he sees with Amma. It's all a learning experience for him. The real test of Ayi's mamta will come when Mandaar is back and she will be caught between the two 'sons'.


Also, if indeed Ayi is going to be his source of moral support, she will eventually be the one to help him or guide Pallavi to help him with his panic attacks. There's a reason why they showed Pallavi calling her to ask for some remedies for his condition.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Beautiful analysis of the characters and their growth depending upon situation.

Both are flawed and made their own kind of mistakes but trying to owning up to them is also a big deal.

And the arguments and scolding will remain for long time as it's part of marriage.

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