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Posted: 4 years ago
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Deal is sealed forever❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Blessy_

Deal is sealed forever❤️

Exactly 🥰

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: OceanicHeart.

Yes Raghu acted very immature and he is just a great character but it's true it's all Amma doing.

Even in yesterday episode dude she doesn't know how to handle RR. The only thing with Raghu she does is like I will leave the home. She keeps using his trauma against him. Like what kind of a mother she is !


Now a new journey starts for both of them. Finally the MUs are behind them. For Pallu it's gonna be longer but RR is gonna be full on Hubby mode

Exactly Amma is weird ya his trauma never bothered her strange really strange

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: OceanicHeart.

Definitely I'm glad it all happened. They can now actually start a new relationship. ❤️

So true

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yes Shailu...if I may call you by that name. Loved your analysis . Pallavi knows certain bitter truths but is in denial mode..she even confronted Aai when she came to stop the wedding saying that she won't go back to that house because Baba threw her out. But because she has a soft corner for Aai Baba she doesn't want to accept thier mistakes . Just like how Raghav has not been able to confront his mother on making him marry Pallavi.


Both Raghav and Pallavi are black sheep of thier families . They can uniquely understand each others pain. And the way they can express to each other, they cannot do that with own families because they both have taken up the role of being pillar of support to thier families . Both of them don't know how to ask for support. Now with conversations starting up between them, understanding will come and they can support each other. I particularly feel that Amma and kirti are worse to Raghav than Deshmuks to Pallavi. Amma does not seem to try and understand her own son much.

No matter how much Raghav tries to put blame on deshmukhs...the truth is that this whole cycle started from Raghav. And he also failed to clarify in from of Baba today that the wedding also happened under threat and Pallavi did not marry him just like that. Raghav in my opinion is still not ready to understand the full effects of what he has done.

Frankly I did not find his acceptance of Pallavi as his wife any sweet today. It sounded more power based rather than based on love and trust . Jabardasti ka rishta...how can marraige become true until she really wants to be with him. Yes the changes are going to be gradual and I like that. Both have a long way to go...in understanding the bitter truths. Neem leaves..bitter medicines.


Loved that now he knocks and asks for permission to enter her space..its a sign of respect. And thier conversations are now more heartfelt...soulful..lovely bgs btw.


Btw Shailu you or anyone felt that he stopped her from leaving because he wanted to rile her up enough to make her burst and talk..?I felt so because he wasn't surprised or offended with her slap...he was rather expecting it..and once she started talking about her life..he was listening very intently. He wants to hear her, know her ..he is curios..you know why? He is surprised by her love for a family that is not truly hers..and doesn't give back that love to her..but she still loves them..unconditionally.


Raghav has not experienced that unconditional love from anyone..not from his own mother and sister even. Everybody judges him. And here is woman who believes in unconditional love..just like he offers that unconditional love to his mother. I know a lot of people find Pallavis love for deshmukhs strange but for a woman who needs to belong somewhere...the little bit of love she got there was a lot for her. Not all of us believe in tit for tat. She is like that..pure loving soul. Raghav has found that diamond in Pallavi! And he will help her shine.

Edited by RainbowUnicorm - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

Yes Shailu...if I may call you by that name. Loved your analysis . Pallavi knows certain bitter truths but is in denial mode..she even confronted Aai when she came to stop the wedding saying that she won't go back to that house because Baba threw her out. But because she has a soft corner for Aai Baba she doesn't want to accept thier mistakes . Just like how Raghav has not been able to confront his mother on making him marry Pallavi.


Both Raghav and Pallavi are black sheep of thier families . They can uniquely understand each others pain. And the way they can express to each other, they cannot do that with own families because they both have taken up the role of being pillar of support to thier families . Both of them don't know how to ask for support. Now with conversations starting up between them, understanding will come and they can support each other. I particularly feel that Amma and kirti are worse to Raghav than Deshmuks to Pallavi. Amma does not seem to try and understand her own son much.

No matter how much Raghav tries to put blame on deshmukhs...the truth is that this whole cycle started from Raghav. And he also failed to clarify in from of Baba today that the wedding also happened under threat and Pallavi did not marry him just like that. Raghav in my opinion is still not ready to understand the full effects of what he has done.

Frankly I did not find his acceptance of Pallavi as his wife any sweet today. It sounded more power based rather than based on love and trust . Jabardasti ka rishta...how can marraige become true until she really wants to be with him. Yes the changes are going to be gradual and I like that. Both have a long way to go...in understanding the bitter truths. Neem leaves..bitter medicines.


Loved that now he knocks and asks for permission to enter her space..its a sign of respect. And thier conversations are now more heartfelt...soulful..lovely bgs btw.


Btw Shailu you or anyone felt that he stopped her from leaving because he wanted to rile her up enough to make her burst and talk..?I felt so because he wasn't surprised or offended with her slap...he was rather expecting it..and once she started talking about her life..he was listening very intently. He wants to hear her, know her ..he is curios..you know why? He is surprised by her love for a family that is not truly hers..and doesn't give back that love to her..but she still loves them..unconditionally.


Raghav has not experienced that unconditional love from anyone..not from his own mother and sister even. Everybody judges him. And here is woman who believes in unconditional love..just like he offers that unconditional love to his mother. I know a lot of people find Pallavis love for deshmukhs strange but for a woman who needs to belong somewhere...the little bit of love she got there was a lot for her. Not all of us believe in tit for tat. She is like that..pure loving soul. Raghav has found that diamond in Pallavi! And he will help her shine.

u can call me that

Ur bang on yes flaws are with both Raghu and pallu

Family is there weakness

Only difference is Raghu keeps it inside but pallu could open her heart out to him

Both are selfless in many ways but Raghu aggressive and hulk doesn’t think first and pallu naive and she too doesn’t think before sacrificing

Both are same

Both are orphans so they value family Raghu was forced to be orphan

Destiny brought them to be together and they will build there own life and they both will be enough to be happy they don’t need anyone

Amma is the reason Raghu is such a mother should never desert kids even though they made mistakes she should have guided him

But his wife will be guiding force in this life

Both will rise and make a wonderful life for themselves

Heal each other

The first thing Raghu needs to open up to his wife that will be first step first they need is friendship to grow and love will follow

Raghu needs is patience because pallu might take time to move on it’s not easy

He always said true love is unconditional if u see initially that why he acknowledged it now that she is perfect as wife for him

Reception day changed everything he got to know her past and he knows now that she is the perfect to be his wife that’s why he accepted in car scene

Till then he thought she is bad news because mu was big for him but cloud has gone so acceptance came out

Flaws both side but they need to accept each other’s move on

Edited by rs-shailu29 - 4 years ago

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