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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: AninditaB

Telling anything to Pakhi is telling anything to an amnesiac patient. So I guess Virat is really bored to repeat the same sentence to Pakhi everyday because he knew it's futile.


And secondly, about protecting Pakhi, he didn't protect Pakhi, he protected Sai. He knew CN gang will not say anything to Pakhi but will start blaming Sai. So he ensured Sai's protection not Pakhi's. That's my POV.

I would have agreed with it had it happened for first time. During trip drama when aai & sai questioned pakhi virat stopped them, when aai questioned pakhi at one incident during sai absence I don't exactly remember the scene he diverted the conversation. Ther many instances like this. Whenever someone talks to pakhi about virat with absolute truth he gives a look as if they r putting false allegations on pakhi.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Niti_21

Hey. initially I did not like it too.. but then i am happy that he did not react as that's what pp does... instigate and spoil the mood.. Ignorance is bliss.


And I am glad, Virat stopped Sai midway coz it would just go in cycle and pp was just seeking attention and at the end it would just come down to pp making herself bechari, which she is not. Had it dragged. it would again become all about pp for no reason.

Whereas today it was for DevKit and their issue, which was more important and let pp just bark..

There is a saying by Winston Churchill “You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks."

Hope what u r saying is true. But I still couldn't convince because of virat's past behavior.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Seriously. Isn't the same virat who involved in kitchen politics when sai made pakhi to grind mirchi. He went to kitchen to see how his bf is doing. Sai should keep quiet when her husband ex calls her caretaker, guest?. If she gives answers with TRUTH then her husband stops her to protect his ex. Isn't it difficult to live with a husband like virat who lets his ex to abuse his wife but stops his wife when she gives it back.

Just because he did something once doesn't mean he would be a party to Sai and Pakhi's everyday petty fights, sometimes they fight multiple times in a day, I would have thrown both out of my house or left the house, it is difficult to live with people who fight all the time

Sai doesn't stay quiet for Virat to feel like he has to defend her

Any sane person would ignore these two for their peace of mind

Edited by NoraSM - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

I would have agreed with it had it happened for first time. During trip drama when aai & sai questioned pakhi virat stopped them, when aai questioned pakhi at one incident during sai absence I don't exactly remember the scene he diverted the conversation. Ther many instances like this. Whenever someone talks to pakhi about virat with absolute truth he gives a look as if they r putting false allegations on pakhi.


As said by Siya, that Virat and this Virat is different. This Virat now finally can see what Pakhi wants. You can say to a person one day, two day, three day but not everyday. He has to repeat her the line that Sai is my wife, still she's not understanding. Not from now,for a long time he's setting the boundary. But she's not understanding. What can he do? Not everytime Pakhi deserves attention, there's a Bengali saying, "Pagole kina bole, Chagole kina khay" which means A mad person blabbers anything. Let them speak. Pakhi's blabbering is same, that doesn't deserve any attention from anyone.


May be in trip and in past he tried to protect Pakhi, but he's now clearly protecting Sai. Because he now knows his Dil Ke Acche Ghar wale is finding an excuse to blame Sai and question him. No one likes drama, especially a person who's not at the pink of his health. Cut some slack! And let's agree to disagree.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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But the day they came home from the hospital Virat told his dad not to speak badly to his wife. Imagine, our sanskari boy said that to his dad who is his idol.

SO WHY CANT HE SAY THE SAME THING TO DIDI???

“Pakhi tum meri patni se iss tarah se baat nahin karogi. Don’t talk to me if u want to call my wife names. “

Sorry I just can’t get over this!! I thought Virat sudhar gaya but his inability to tell Pakhi not to insult his wife in his presence is infuriating me.

I have no problem with his curbing Sai yest - I get that it is to protect & re-focus Sai, not to protect others.

Edited by Bana - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: janecastle

Why in the world should he say anything to Pakhi. Talking to her is like talking to a wall. She is not going to understand one thing and will keep on repeating her nonsense. So why waste his energy on someone delusional like Pakhi. Also, Sai and Pakhi's fights go on everyday. So it is better if Virat don't involve himself in such petty matters. He can take a stand when Pakhi tries something drastic. Till then, I am sure Sai can happily give it back to Pakhi without anyone's help.

Warning her to stop calling his wife names won't need much effort instead of remaining silent which will give pakhi leverage to sprew venom on sai. Had he warned her when she called sai caretaker she wouldn't have dared to call sai guest after that. Just because pakhi won't listen he will let her say anything to sai & react only when she reaches peak point in insulting sai🙄
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Svt611


That time was different..... and this time is different!

Virat clearly sees through pakhi better

For not saying anything to pakhi he did the right thing, it’s a never needing cycle that would go on forever...

for him asking Sai to concentrate on making food was a way of saying you promised not to get involved and so your own thing!


this was not that old Virat for sure.... a huge difference and we can agree to disagree here but it’s his progression that made him not get involved...

the upcoming devkit drama is going to be more and he knows that as well


May be u r right. But I don't think virat understood pakhi true colours or don't want to understand. Otherwise he wouldn't have said why pakhi doing all this, I don't understand why u left with angry from hospital knowing her feelings for him.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: NoraSM

Just because he did something once doesn't mean he would be a party to Sai and Pakhi's everyday petty fights, sometimes they fight multiple times in a day, I would have thrown both out of my house or left the house, it is difficult to live with people who fight all the time

Sai doesn't stay quiet for Virat to feel like he has to defend her

Any sane person would ignore these two for their peace of mind

Why should sai be quiet when someone insults her just because that someone is her husbands ex💁. How is it easy to blame the women by making men victim. It is virat who promised pakhi lifetime celibacy, it is virat who brought sai to that house by marrying her. Now pakhi is targetting sai because of HIM. He is the reason for fiction between two ladies. But at last he is the victim 🙄. Wow👏
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Warning her to stop calling his wife names won't need much effort instead of remaining silent which will give pakhi leverage to sprew venom on sai. Had he warned her when she called sai caretaker she wouldn't have dared to call sai guest after that. Just because pakhi won't listen he will let her say anything to sai & react only when she reaches peak point in insulting sai🙄

@bold- There is no way that is happening. Ulta she will start her rubbish like "Virat you did my beizzati" rant. No matter what Virat will say, Pakhi will only do what she wants. Had Virat interfered, then she would have simply started her victim drama and gone on and on about SaiRat insulting her. And then useless Chavans will latch on to it and start another round unwanted shouting and insulting. Talking to Pakhi is like fighting with a pig. It is a completely useless thing to do. So it is better to ignore her existence for the time being because SaiRat had other things to deal with.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bana

But the day they came home from the hospital Virat told his dad not to speak badly to his wife. Imagine, our sanskari boy said that to his dad who is his idol.

SO WHY CANT HE SAY THE SAME THING TO DIDI???

“Pakhi tum meri patni se iss tarah se baat nahin karogi. Don’t talk to me if u want to call my wife names. “

Sorry I just can’t get over this!! I thought Virat sudhar gaya but his inability to tell Pakhi not to insult his wife in his presence is infuriating me.

I have no problem with his curbing Sai yest - I get that it is to protect & re-focus Sai, not to protect others.

How long people(not u) gonna whitewash his inability to stop pakhi strongly from insulting sai. Sai never calls pakhi names still he stops sai when she says anything against pakhi. But pakhi calls sai opportunistic, gold digger, caretaker,guest, fake and he won't mind it🙄. He will react only when pakhi reaches peak stage of insulting sai. How protective 👏

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