Keechad mein phir bhi khilte Kamal - Page 8

Great post as always Anu ji!

Everyone has already echoed the kind of thoughts i had abt the epi but one thing that became clear to me i was kind of giving benefit of doubt till now is that Aparna and Radha kind of deserve a Bahu like Malini and a samdhan like Anu given they both are watered down versions of this lot only ussi thaali ke chatte batte types and I loved how Aditya not once but twice told Aparna off. How Badke Kaka remains to have sane thoughts in that Tripathi lot and hasnt swayed like a pendulum as yet is unbelievable!!!

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Oh yes, I am also awaiting with bated breath for their session with the lawyer. I want to know whether this marriage is even registered in the first place & even if it's registered is it valid at all because of Adi-Imlie marriage being the first valid one? I hope & pray that they show that Adi-Malini marriage is invalid only & then to see Dementor Didi ka face when she comes to know she is not even Adi's wife even on paper😆.

Lol that would be a real solid Kismat ki chaped 😆....but I don’t know if they will go that route yet ki the registration part comes into play.

To me, it still looks like the session with the lawyer will be more about Malini trying to gather info about the validity of Adi Imlie ki marriage vis a vis this intimacy level verification she’s done and then using that to question Adi further when he gets back. Every piece of info is always a cudgel for her. Yeh info also she hasn’t gathered Aise hi. Isko weaponize karegi at some point for sure to try to invalidate or dismiss Adi Imlie ka relationship in some form. But this will also likely backfire on her and only push Adi Imlie closer. lol

Originally posted by: MuteButton

When you center your identity and existence around another person instead of bringing in a balance, this is what happens. Her life for 7+ years revolved around keeping Aditya on a leash so much that she failed to see he is not someone you can control.

She heard his decision but I do not think she believes it. All her thought processes will end at Imlie being from the village - which in turn means that she cannot ever trump her where it matters. According to Malini , there cannot be someone more right for Aditya and definitely not Imlie. So now the onus is on her to rectify his wrongdoing - that of thinking ki Imlie is what he needs.

If she knew her real self-worth even an iota, she would have left gracefully.

+1. The fact that she keeps replaying the bit about him telling her he loves Imlie but then still keeps doing these lame taunts to diminish Imlie in his eyes as someone who ran away cuz she couldn’t see AM together...definitely shows where her mind really is.

She has always been incapable of processing truths that don’t elevate her personally. And she is doing the same with the truth of Adi informing her that he loves Imlie. Malini is still looking for loopholes to invalidate this truth and assert her own “rightness” for Adi. It’s definitely going to come down to her questioning the improbability of Adi Imlie managing to have a real/lasting bond....she will likely question their compatibility in various ways and set herself up for more beizzati as Adi-Imlie’s deep understanding and bonding with each other will continue to get reinforced regardless of what she tries to claim or insinuate 🤷‍♀️.....Adi ne jaise aaj har point pe iski chop ki, aage bhi karta rahega. Lol

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Adi was so brutal today to Dementor Didi in his jaise aapki marzi but she is so besharam that she doesn't even get the level to which Adi looks at her an outsider. He literally gives zero faraks to her baatein & harkatein unless she involves Imlie. Then he is ready to defend Imlie in a ziffy.

Oh yes, I am also awaiting with bated breath for their session with the lawyer. I want to know whether this marriage is even registered in the first place & even if it's registered is it valid at all because of Adi-Imlie marriage being the first valid one? I hope & pray that they show that Adi-Malini marriage is invalid only & then to see Dementor Didi ka face when she comes to know she is not even Adi's wife even on paper.

Regarding the legality of their marriage, it was all done on paper to showcase to the world. Filled with paper 📝 and tpday, didi said to end it in a jiffy. Validity means lets sign it on a piece of paper hence lack of trust for didi.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol that would be a real solid Kismat ki chaped 😆....but I don’t know if they will go that route yet ki the registration part comes into play.

To me, it still looks like the session with the lawyer will be more about Malini trying to gather info about the validity of Adi Imlie ki marriage vis a vis this intimacy level verification she’s done and then using that to question Adi further when he gets back. Every piece of info is always a cudgel for her. Yeh info also she hasn’t gathered Aise hi. Isko weaponize karegi at some point for sure to try to invalidate or dismiss Adi Imlie ka relationship in some form. But this will also likely backfire on her and only push Adi Imlie closer. lol

Oh yes.... Dementor Didi has not given up on Adi & will continue to find loopholes & ways to invalidate his marriage to Imlie😆.

But Adi has clearly declared to her that he loves Imlie which she conveniently forgets the next moment😆. That is why I was glad that Adi has done his due diligence in letting her know that first he loves Imlie & second that she is also his first wife😳.

Dementor Didi might feel that Adi is just mistaking pity or gratitude towards Imlie as love because how can he fall for Imlie when he has the perfect Malini as a choice?!😆 So much superiority complex she has🤣. So as you mentioned in your post to MB, she will definitely try to prove to Adi that Imlie is not a fit partner for him & she herself is his true match. But all her tricks are going to back fire only & she will be the one who will get to know how perfect Adi-Imlie are for each other😆.

Dementor Didi will get to know how Adi in love looks like- protective, possessive, indulgent- but all of this will be for Imlie & Didi will just burn in her own jealousy😆. I am looking forward to at least this part of Didi's story😛.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Oh wow for real? 😕

Dunno what to say, Srushti. I guess apna apna threshold hota hai. I don’t think being insecure gives anyone the right to question the intimate details of someone’s life. This is not about whether this was “in character” for Malini as an insecure person. What she asked Adi and the way she asked it was definitely crass in my eyes.

Frankly it revealed that for Malini, the marriage was mainly only about the conjugal side of it 🤷‍♀️....she doesn’t understand the dignity of the relationship as a whole and that is why she is only interested in the conjugal details of Adi Imlie’s marriage too. Being “insecure” doesn’t give you the right to demand every private detail of someone else’s marriage. Sorry but it just isn’t justifiable to me from any angle 🤷‍♀️.

Anyways, as she does with every piece of info she gets, she will find a way to use this to diminish or invalidate Adi Imlie’s marriage too.....by probably trying to say at some point that the marriage isn’t valid if it hasn’t been consummated yet 🙄. And that goes back to my basic point regarding the fact that some people really can’t fathom a relationship that isn’t dependent on physical gratification for validation.

My guess is this will come into play as she meets the divorce lawyer and then gets some ideas from there about questioning the validity of Adi Imlie’s marriage on the basis of this info.

@ bold... Nahi Yaar. I handle so many such cases these days, and this seems to be the core question.And sadly, Yes is the answer at the end of the day in most cases when any partner asks the other what Malini asked Adi.

Since we know the conception and the journey of Adilie, it becomes disgusting for us. But seeing the Malini Tirade on the deadly date, I actually thought this was scripted as an after thought. Because while alleging against Aditya, she had blamed him of everything anyone can think of. I expected this question, then....that's why it didn't feel that bad.

The fact that she thinks Aditya and Imlie can do it behind her back, is what makes this whole conversation disgusting.

You remember when she first heard Imlie's voice on the phone while talking to Adi during his first PD trip? She was insecure THEN. Ab ki to baat hi kya karni.

About the physical gratification...sadly that seems to be the sole basis of marriage these days. A healthy and good physical relationship actually makes for a good and solid marriage.

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

@ bold... Nahi Yaar. I handle so many such cases these days, and this seems to be the core question.And sadly, Yes is the answer at the end of the day in most cases when any partner asks the other what Malini asked Adi.

Since we know the conception and the journey of Adilie, it becomes disgusting for us. But seeing the Malini Tirade on the deadly date, I actually thought this was scripted as an after thought. Because while alleging against Aditya, she had blamed him of everything anyone can think of. I expected this question, then....that's why it didn't feel that bad.

The fact that she thinks Aditya and Imlie can do it behind her back, is what makes this whole conversation disgusting.

You remember when she first heard Imlie's voice on the phone while talking to Adi during his first PD trip? She was insecure THEN. Ab ki to baat hi kya karni.

About the physical gratification...sadly that seems to be the sole basis of marriage these days. A healthy and good physical relationship actually makes for a good and solid marriage.

I would still have to disagree 🤷‍♀️. The question was disgusting to me independent of what I know of Adi and Imlie’s history. And I still find this type of soch and entitlement to be cheap. Maybe it’s normal and common per your experience but I don’t have patience for aisi soch or such people.

Good for people who think that having sex is all there is to a successful marriage. Lol I can only pity the soch that feels marriage is a vehicle simply to find someone to sleep with. That seems to be how Malini’s mind works and as per what you are saying apparently this soch is common too. So I guess I’m happy that Adi Imlie remain uncommon in a world of superficial thinking 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: Myrah_2020

Lmao, so will that lawyer be Kunal chauhan?🤣

Regarding the legality of their marriage, it was all done on paper to showcase to the world. Filled with paper 📝 and tpday, didi said to end it in a jiffy. Validity means lets sign it on a piece of paper hence lack of trust for didi.

Ermm is Didi really going to turn her divorce lawyer into her imaginary lover boy? 😲🤣. Good god. 😆

I’m more curious to know if they will show Malini ever having changed her last name to Tripathi after marriage. Lol

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Adi was so brutal today to Dementor Didi in his jaise aapki marzi but she is so besharam that she doesn't even get the level to which Adi looks at her an outsider😆. He literally gives zero faraks to her baatein & harkatein unless she involves Imlie. Then he is ready to defend Imlie in a ziffy😆.

Oh yes, I am also awaiting with bated breath for their session with the lawyer. I want to know whether this marriage is even registered in the first place & even if it's registered is it valid at all because of Adi-Imlie marriage being the first valid one? I hope & pray that they show that Adi-Malini marriage is invalid only & then to see Dementor Didi ka face when she comes to know she is not even Adi's wife even on paper😆.

Non registration doesn't invalidate the marriage. They had performed every ritual. Just like that forced marriage is also not invalid till it is alleged as forced by either parties.

Adi and didi ka marriage is a bigamy that Adi committed. So either didi has to get it annuled and become Mahaan or she can go her mother's way and get all the FIRs registered against Adi

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

Non registration doesn't invalidate the marriage. They had performed every ritual. Just like that forced marriage is also not invalid till it is alleged as forced by either parties.

Adi and didi ka marriage is a bigamy that Adi committed. So either didi has to get it annuled and become Mahaan or she can go her mother's way and get all the FIRs registered against Adi

I have a doubt....yes it is a case of bigamy where Adi has done 2 marriages as per rituals. But doesn't him being married already makes his 2nd marriage invalid automatically & it gets nullified? Or both marriages are valid?🤓