Virat stressing on why he sent Pakhi home - bcs she was tired - Page 3

I have a problem with him giving explanations on why he asked pakhi to leave plus how can another woman stay with him at night or take care of him when his wife is there? And why did his family send his wife away when she came to meet him? virat needs to ask all these. Saying “I sent u home bc you were tired” sends wrong signals. He sent her home bc he is a married man with a wife he loves to look after him. Be clear, Virat.

I thought that initially but then I wondered if he was trying to protect Pakhi’s and his reputation in front of the family elders. I can’t imagine anybody admitting to the family elders the oldest dil was hitting on me in hospital 🤢

we know his family has no shame - but for some reason Virat thinks the family has a good reputation

Im not making excuses as Virat should have 🤬🤬 Pakhi but for some reason he is controlled mad at Pakhi but uncontrolled mad at Sai.

Is that because he feels he can say whatever to his wife(don’t agree with this mentality) but has to be careful about what he says to his brother’s wife.

just a thought and not meant as justification at all

Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

True! But between I was telling the family to give Virat a break. But did it came across like I was telling the reader of my post?

Because reading you reply I am feeling that way 🤔

I thought u said it for the reader. Nevermind. I got ur point. CN gang will never give him a break. Virat clearly said before going to mission that he wants Sai back in his life and will wait for her tab bhi they want answers for why did u bring Sai back🤦🤦🤦

Originally posted by: deepzz

I thought u said it for the reader. Nevermind. I got ur point. CN gang will never give him a break. Virat clearly said before going to mission that he wants Sai back in his life and will wait for her tab bhi they want answers for why did u bring Sai back🤦🤦🤦

Like few mentioned they have set a reset button and back to hating Sai episodes.

same old fights and taunts. I am seriously loosing patience 🤦🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: methebest

Very well said. In fact the topic of the argument should be one of the following by Virat questioning the chakrams, "Why Pakhi was staying there?", "Why was a different gender woman who is not his wife made to stay next to unconscious him when he could have been physically exposed and he wouldn't want it?", "Why didn't his father or brother stay?", "Why didn't his mother stay?", "is it Shahanukuli Sanskari thing to do to stay next to another married man when no need of extreme humanity here?"

But Virat goes on defending and giving wrong answer. He could have said, "my wife was there, so why would I let another woman stay and be uncomfortable." However, he goes on to stress he did it cause she was tired. This will make the delusional didi even more delusional. Even after him telling her clearly, she doesn't understand, she will take this weak stand and explanation as light end of the tunnel, so will continue her disgusting things!!

Exactly my point. This is only encouraging her to further abuse Sai because she will continue to believe she has some “right” over Virat. In a way virat is complicit.

I love Sai i want Sai but i can't speak again my family becoz they are older than me..Yeh chikhna chillana mere sanskar mein nehi hai per jab pe chillata hai to uske sanskar kaha gayab ho jate hain

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

TBH saying that it was bothering him wouldn't even have been her character assassination as it was him who felt uncomfy so it's his fault. He deosn't want her bhabhi to take care of him that's fine. But Virat is always such a jalebi. He will speak up but in such a way that you just want him to shut up. Bhai tu chup hi reh. 😆

No but then he has been speaking pretty much openly after he ousted Sai.. It just doesnt go with his character.. He was not talking to Kaku directly when he left for mission and now he did not say a word when she insulted Sai in such a manner.. Can he not politely ask her to call Sai by her name.. How will he assure Sai of security at CN as far as her self respect is concerned.. On what basis he promised her at GC...when even before entering the doors she is being called the buri nazar on the house by the woman whose husband was spared by him , when he punished Sai so severely..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

No but then he has been speaking pretty much openly after he ousted Sai.. It just doesnt go with his character.. He was not talking to Kaku directly when he left for mission and now he did not say a word when she insulted Sai in such a manner.. Can he not politely ask her to call Sai by her name.. How will he assure Sai of security at CN as far as her self respect is concerned.. On what basis he promised her at GC...when even before entering the doors she is being called the buri nazar on the house by the woman whose husband was spared by him , when he punished Sai so severely..

I feel it will take some time for him Asmi.

Cuz,this is a program in him, as staying in CN for years, he is learning now to speak. Silence for this long if needs to be broken, it will need time and the correct push.

Originally posted by: sam06

The only saving grace is that Virat has not made an obvious advances to pakhi after she got married . He was very clear from the start that dynamics have changed between them post Sairatfor marriage .

Though I’m irritated by the way the use the word dost for everything damn explainnation 😡

We all have to accept that Virat has a soft corner for pakhi at least his tone of concern to pakhi indicates that .

Idk if u noticed, but after her saccha pyar confession, virat set pakhi in her position and drew the line by stating she is his elder brother' s wife and dost.

But throughout the hospital scene, whenever virat addresses the issue of her being there, he refers her as elder brother's wife and stopped using the word "dost".

Idk if this is temporary but I hope he keeps referring her as elder brothers wife instead of the so called dost

I don't know but I found his dialogues appropriate. Time and again whenever he has shown concern for Sai, chakrams have scoffed at him and in a family where bhabhi-devar relation is considered more pious than a husband-wife relation, it would be suicidal to say I sent my bhabhi away coz I wanted to let the wife stay especially when the said wife is on everyone's hit list. Also, just the second before Sai was being accused of sending didi away so if Virat would have said that he wanted his wife to stay, chakrams would have thought that Sai instigated him and he is lying.

I feel he killed two birds with one stone. Pakhi was proved a liar and Sai was left out of everybody's radar

Originally posted by: Gayathrirau

Idk if u noticed, but after her saccha pyar confession, virat set pakhi in her position and drew the line by stating she is his elder brother' s wife and dost.

But throughout the hospital scene, whenever virat addresses the issue of her being there, he refers her as elder brother's wife and stopped using the word "dost".

Idk if this is temporary but I hope he keeps referring her as elder brothers wife instead of the so called dost