~New beginnings! 🥰 - Page 14

Originally posted by: libran90

You bet. Sahi ka vanmaanush hai ye aadmi🤪. Abhi to itna 'don't care' zone me chal raha hai, ki widow truth ka impact bhi kitna hoga pata nahi chal raha. Phir jab 'care' zone me aayega, to woh bhi extreme hi hoga. Seeing his behavior, it reconfirms everyday, how extreme he is on behavior, and how extreme he will go when he is on the opposite side of the spectrum. Huh!!!

I really want Monday's epi to have a scene where Raghav ponders over the vidhwa truth. Today it was clear it had affected him, he even called and asked Farhad about it. But exactly what affected him and how he feels about it... I'd like to see a monologue on that.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

What has Raghav done exactly for Pallavi to fall in love with him? She has had tragedies too in her life, orphaned and widowed is not any less tragic than what Raghav has to face and for no fault of her own.. Just because she appears calm and sorted on the surface doesnt mean she doesnt have complexities..Infact I find her more complex because she holds back a lot more than Raghav who has occasional outbursts usually when he is drunk.. Raghav falling in love with Pallavi first, is the only thing that makes sense to me..

Raghav has done everything to just screw up his chances with Pallavi actually.😆Everyone wants Pallavi to leave the Deshmukhs out of her life. But kisiko ye nahi dikhta that Raghav ki har ek soch, uske apni family se shuru aur khatm hoti hai. Till date, his only reason to engage with Pallavi was because he assumed she was hurting his clique, his family. It never was about Pallavi. It was always ki she isn't good for my ego or my family, hence she should go away. Pallavi did not raise a finger, and Raghav utilised all his might to destroy a small world she had built of her own, because he believes she is a threat to him overall. Except attraction, there is no emotion that can possibly bind Pallavi to Raghav, except hate.

We all like Raghav for sure, but that justifies nothing. He has witnessed a tragedy, agreed. But he has had a healthy and thriving childhood with loving parents and siblings. Doesn't that qualify to make him a better person. Pallavi has had no parents to rely on, except a brother. Who knows how much of trauma she has absorbed and lived with. She should have been like Raghav, but she chose better. Pallavi was widowed on her wedding day. She took it upon herself to be a caregiver to a family that lost a son, cause she understood loss. She chose to move on from that trauma and tend to others. Agreed, they are ungrateful wretches, but, come on, who does that today.

My city, my home, my family, my people - it's all about Raghav all the time. Fine, he is entitled to be whatever he wants. Who are we to judge. But, you have the resources to absolve Pallavi from an abortion, but cannot absolve her from the morphed pics or MMS. You live your life, but don't damage others and go on traipsing away in your life. Hell, I don't see any reason why Pallavi would go beyond sympathy for Raghav. Infact, I see reasons for Raghav to respect Pallavi to power ahead despite her trauma. But that is my POV. Raghav's POV is so screwed, don't expect him to think beyond certain things. But atleast, some insight would be welcome.

Originally posted by: Debasmitbha1234

Raghab is completely a baby but he is being a jerk.Behaving literally bad with Pallavi. Hope their misunderstanding clears soon and we get to see raghvi romance.

Romance to door door tak nazar nahi aa raha 😆 Ha, unintentional romance ho sakta hai 🤪 They'll be living in the same room after all

Abhi to misunderstandings clear ho jaaye itna hi kaafi hai 🙏🙏

Originally posted by: libran90

Behen, if this is the argument for Pallavi, then for argument sake, we can also say the same for Raghav. Raghav has no qualms about touching her, he always looks of ways to bully her, he builds invisible expectations out of a person who is clueless af as to what goes on in his mind and jumps to the worst conclusion about her. Itna to shayad Pallavi ne bhi bura assume nahi kiya uske baare me. Uss hisaab se to bande ka "Hate ka dusra naam Pallavi" only because she opposes him is even more ridiculous.

My issue is something else. We have had enough insight about what Pallavi sees and views Raghav as - it is a myriad of emotions. Raghav ka aaj tak samajh nahi aaya. Hum logo ko har baar guess karna padta hai. 70 plus episodes ke baad, we are still uncertain about Raghav and his emotions. We have more clarity on Pallavi instead.

You are forgetting this a egomaniac A***hole we are dealing it. Of course he will hate someone who will oppose him and that too a woman of all. We all know this man has a preconcieved notion of about women in his head and for last 10 years he only saw women who wanted to sleep with him for money and now he faced a woman who broke every stereotype of women he made in his mind so he doubled his effort to break her and prove she too is like other women. Also yes raghav touched her too but pallavi never said anything about it to raghav. I would never let a stranger touch me like raghav touched pallavi.

Raghav jaise egomaniac and self obssessed person se itni jaldi pallavi k liye feel karna is impossible. This guy is too obsessed with himself to feel about anyone else!! Dheere dheere sab hoga.

Originally posted by: libran90

Tujhe lagta ha behen kisi ke paas 140 tak jaane ka patience hai. I am not losing patience because the hate aspect is at the forefront. I just fail to see any range of emotions of the hero for the heroine. Like before this marriage, Pallavi felt so many things about Raghav - disgust, dislike, anger, fear, curiosity, pity, concern. And that was only for Raghav. It did not stem from a family aspect or an aspect to put him down and satisfy her ego. With Raghav, we don't have any insight apart from our assumptions. What have we seen till now - Pallavi is his punching bag, Pallavi is the villain in his story, Pallavi has hurt his family. It's either hate or ego. They haven't shown any other aspect to his thoughts about Pallavi from an individual perspective. Which is not very encouraging for a love story, to be honest. Itna bhi mota chamdi dikhana is like giving us a signal that we shouldn't look forward to anything from Raghav's behalf. Its is irritating now.

Maybe they want to show her falling for him first?

Originally posted by: SRKian

sure. But isn't 70+ epi more than enough to show us a single insight from his side given pallu has already done more than enough to get his attention in so many different ways?

I had somewhat similar issues with pallu as you during the lion track so I understand your pov but at the same time, I feel it's high time they show us something from raghav's side. Idk about others but I definitely have no patience to wait for 100+ epi to have that much needed insight from him.😆

Kanya dhairya rakho!! Ek self obsessed gadhe se itni jaldi kisj k liye feeling nahi ayega.

Originally posted by: meghumonu

You are forgetting this a egomaniac A***hole we are dealing it. Of course he will hate someone who will oppose him and that too a woman of all. We all know this man has a preconcieved notion of about women in his head and for last 10 years he only saw women who wanted to sleep with him for money and now he faced a woman who broke every stereotype of women he made in his mind so he doubled his effort to break her and prove she too is like other women. Also yes raghav touched her too but pallavi never said anything about it to raghav. I would never let a stranger touch me like raghav touched pallavi.

Raghav jaise egomaniac and self obssessed person se itni jaldi pallavi k liye feel karna is impossible. This guy is too obsessed with himself to feel about anyone else!! Dheere dheere sab hoga.

Behen, iss Vishwamitra ki tapasya bhang hone se rahi. Mujhko ab tak koi aasar nazar nahi aa rahe.😆

But I agree with the "obsessed with ego". Sometimes, I also feel, that if this guy falls in love also, it will be all about him, then as well. You know the typical, "How can she not love me, she has to love me" kind of a thing.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Maybe they want to show her falling for him first?

Babe, this is another topic for another day. Abhi mujhko Raghav related khunnas utarne de. Abhi ye reply karungi, to aur badh jayega.😆

Originally posted by: libran90

Raghav has done everything to just screw up his chances with Pallavi actually.😆Everyone wants Pallavi to leave the Deshmukhs out of her life. But kisiko ye nahi dikhta that Raghav ki har ek soch, uske apni family se shuru aur khatm hoti hai. Till date, his only reason to engage with Pallavi was because he assumed she was hurting his clique, his family. It never was about Pallavi. It was always ki she isn't good for my ego or my family, hence she should go away. Pallavi did not raise a finger, and Raghav utilised all his might to destroy a small world she had built of her own, because he believes she is a threat to him overall. Except attraction, there is no emotion that can possibly bind Pallavi to Raghav, except hate.

We all like Raghav for sure, but that justifies nothing. He has witnessed a tragedy, agreed. But he has had a healthy and thriving childhood with loving parents and siblings. Doesn't that qualify to make him a better person. Pallavi has had no parents to rely on, except a brother. Who knows how much of trauma she has absorbed and lived with. She should have been like Raghav, but she chose better. Pallavi was widowed on her wedding day. She took it upon herself to be a caregiver to a family that lost a son, cause she understood loss. She chose to move on from that trauma and tend to others. Agreed, they are ungrateful wretches, but, come on, who does that today.

My city, my home, my family, my people - it's all about Raghav all the time. Fine, he is entitled to be whatever he wants. Who are we to judge. But, you have the resources to absolve Pallavi from an abortion, but cannot absolve her from the morphed pics or MMS. You live your life, but don't damage others and go on traipsing away in your life. Hell, I don't see any reason why Pallavi would go beyond sympathy for Raghav. Infact, I see reasons for Raghav to respect Pallavi to power ahead despite her trauma. But that is my POV. Raghav's POV is so screwed, don't expect him to think beyond certain things. But atleast, some insight would be welcome.

This idiot killed his chances himself . Pallavi was attracted to him from beginning and was making expectations and started to care for him but this egomaniac destroyed everything. He will realise he loves her but never will accept because of his ego. His ego is biggest enemy and it will hurt him badly.

Originally posted by: libran90

Behen, iss Vishwamitra ki tapasya bhang hone se rahi. Mujhko ab tak koi aasar nazar nahi aa rahe.😆

But I agree with the "obsessed with ego". Sometimes, I also feel, that if this guy falls in love also, it will be all about him, then as well. You know the typical, "How can she not love me, she has to love me" kind of a thing.

My serial experience is only NBT and this one. But Mohan was not self obsessed idiot like this guy. I guess no ml is as jerk as this guy. Pallavi ka kismat duniya k sab se sweet ladki duniya k sabse khaross aur ghamandi admi k pyar mai parega. 😑😑 Tragedy.