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Originally posted by: meghumonu

Raghav's character is too much complex than pallavi. Pallavi once she moves on from trashmukhs and mandar will easily love raghav but for raghav it is not easy . Especially that tragedy which destroyed his life and broke his family is because of a woman. It will take major time for him to trust and love a woman other than amma and keerthi.

What has Raghav done exactly for Pallavi to fall in love with him? She has had tragedies too in her life, orphaned and widowed is not any less tragic than what Raghav has to face and for no fault of her own.. Just because she appears calm and sorted on the surface doesnt mean she doesnt have complexities..Infact I find her more complex because she holds back a lot more than Raghav who has occasional outbursts usually when he is drunk.. Raghav falling in love with Pallavi first, is the only thing that makes sense to me..

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Raghav's character is too much complex than pallavi. Pallavi once she moves on from trashmukhs and mandar will easily love raghav but for raghav it is not easy . Especially that tragedy which destroyed his life and broke his family is because of a woman. It will take major time for him to trust and love a woman other than amma and keerthi.

sure. But isn't 70+ epi more than enough to show us a single insight from his side given pallu has already done more than enough to get his attention in so many different ways?

I had somewhat similar issues with pallu as you during the lion track so I understand your pov but at the same time, I feel it's high time they show us something from raghav's side. Idk about others but I definitely have no patience to wait for 100+ epi to have that much needed insight from him.😆

Originally posted by: Bee222

Wow... this is probably the first time that I'm hesitating to comment on my own thread for fear of interrupting others 🤪 Bohot hi intense convo chalu hai yaha 😆

Jump right in to lighten up the mood! 😆

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Mad house indeed. I can't believe the motivation for her is to avenge that family. Do it for yourself girl! He has wronged you the most. Ayi is the only one in that house who is worth her attention but lately her extreme trust on Pallavi makes me question her intent.. Is it out of her affection for Pallavi or she needs Pallavi for her own dependency on her. I feel in Pallavi she has found a companion more than anything, and she doesnt wanna lose her at any cost even if she has to jeopardize her own her married life.. its a weird toxic parastic relationship. Had Pallavi been happy in that house, it would have made sense but she's not and her husband's a regressive, judgemental guy.. he's never gonna change.. if she insisted on stopping Pallavi from marrying Raghav alone.. and not bringing her back to D house that would have still made sense.. Raghav's amma is also weird.. she thinks she knows her son in and out but in reality she is clueless about what he has become in all these years they remain estranged..

Pallavi falling unconscious in his arms and everything that followed was nice.. he instinctively took her to his bedroom.. all those hesitations and awkward moments.. wanna see more of those.. we all do!

Aai did accept that DM house was a bad place for Pallavi to be in, that's why she suggested that she and Pallu start living in a new house away from them all. She was ready to leave her husband in order to give Pallu the support she needed. I saw nothing except motherly love in that scene. Even now, the way she's worried about her marriage to a disastrous man... her love and care is visible even in her anger.

Originally posted by: SRKian

Rambo aatehi kharcha karva diya by breaking that radio😆 no wonder that fam is broke .

🤣 ye accha tha.

Mandar aneke baad bhi she should support pallu/raghvi toh aai will truly be remembered as a great character in itv history.

I'm not raising my hopes that high 🤪😆 Par abhi ke liye I'm loving her character, and I hope she stays like this as long as possible 😳❤️

True. They've ruined amma's character.

Did you see her today? She literally saw Raghav wiping his paseena... still didn't smell anything fishy Pehle wali amma hoti to pura waqt she would've kept glaring suspiciously at him 🤔

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Yes it was her baba's dream but there was other ways to fulfill that dream. If I dislike some I will not even care about that person thinks about me let alone prove myself in that person's eye. If I disliked someone I will never allow that person to touch me let touch that person casually. That is my definition of dislike I know. Par pallu k liye dislike shabd koi aur hi meaning rakhta hai shayad. 😂😂

Behen, if this is the argument for Pallavi, then for argument sake, we can also say the same for Raghav. Raghav has no qualms about touching her, he always looks of ways to bully her, he builds invisible expectations out of a person who is clueless af as to what goes on in his mind and jumps to the worst conclusion about her. Itna to shayad Pallavi ne bhi bura assume nahi kiya uske baare me. Uss hisaab se to bande ka "Hate ka dusra naam Pallavi" only because she opposes him is even more ridiculous.

My issue is something else. We have had enough insight about what Pallavi sees and views Raghav as - it is a myriad of emotions. Raghav ka aaj tak samajh nahi aaya. Hum logo ko har baar guess karna padta hai. 70 plus episodes ke baad, we are still uncertain about Raghav and his emotions. We have more clarity on Pallavi instead.

Originally posted by: SRKian

don't think so.I think off screen😆

Ekbaar uska casual look chahiye mujhe 😔

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

What has Raghav done exactly for Pallavi to fall in love with him? She has had tragedies too in her life, orphaned and widowed is not any less tragic than what Raghav has to face and for no fault of her own.. Just because she appears calm and sorted on the surface doesnt mean she doesnt have complexities..Infact I find her more complex because she holds back a lot more than Raghav who has occasional outbursts usually when he is drunk.. Raghav falling in love with Pallavi first, is the only thing that makes sense to me..

I never said she is in love but attracted. In future when she will start to understand this complex man she will slowly start to fall for him by that time raghav will also start to trust pallavi and will open up slowly to her. Pallavi is repressed not complex she has too much responsibilities on her shoulder at young age. She also suffered tragedy due but after her parents her dada and bhabhi was there for her and after mandar sanki rambo and ayi was there. She never had to feel lonely and broken with guilt like raghav everyday.

The guy has to see his father and younger brother lynched to death in front of him helplessly and then his mom and sister consider him culprit for it and left him alone and every attempt to reconciliation was rebuffed. Any other guy would be broken beyond repair but RR turned himself into a volcano and made himself successful with still a hope to get back what left of his family. So yeah in my opinion raghav is more complex than pallavi.

Originally posted by: inlieu

First of all a big 🤗 to you for this beautiful post. You have summed it up perfectly.

I also felt that Raghav couldn't help but admire her seeing her keep her end of the bargain, when in the past he himself has failed to do so a couple of times. This is a trait he will see over an over again and I hope it will plant seeds of doubt in his mind as to whether his assessment of Pallavi was correct.

Raghav's multiple layers will be explored in this journey, and I once again fell in love with his character. We see all these facets but they never seem to contradict one another. It is truly believable that a ruthless man like him can also have such tenderness within him and this makes for a wonderful combination. To Pallavi, though, this has always been confusing because she has struggled to reconcile these different aspects. With time, she will learn more about his nature and I think it will result in a change in her perspective not just about him, but about the fact that life isn't black or white. Her husband has traits that are on the spectrum and these traits may at times seem contradictory and at others complementary.

Thank you! 🤗

Exactly, I so want him to start doubting Pallu's involvement in the horrid things he has been blaming her for. And I don't want his belief to arrive after the proofs have landed on his lap I want him to go hunt the truth himself, because he starts believing in her.

@bold: I love what you said here ❤️