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Originally posted by: MistyDawn

I know what you mean and I feel that way too.. that's how they have written his character.. everyone was like Raghav's character shows an arc a development. Ghanta development! As far as Pallavi goes, his feelings have only backtracked.. After the Ramaswamy incident, when he saw her feeding those oldies, was frankly the only time he thought about her as an individual..her compassion touched him..but since then, there have been so many incidents that just didnt impact him the way they should have- her saving his life being the most imp one.. Even now, when Sulu was barking on the day of their wedding, they should have focussed on him too.. coz now he knows what she kinda people she deals with on a daily basis and he is a big reason she has to listen to all that crap.. Kya karein? Sab cheeze hawa me filter ho jati hain. All depends on how cv's work on his character post marriage.. Ideay the clearing of MU's and blood donation should not be the sole reason for him to fall in love with her, ye to mene bohot pehle kaha tha.. I wanna see him fall in love with Pallavi, for the woman she is.. dekhte hain

Development na sahi, lekin shades bahut saare hai Raghav ke jo dekhne ko mile. But very very confusing shades. His twisted psyche pertaining to Pallavi irrespective of his bias against women maybe counted as something different he feels for the woman, but apart from that, I haven't seen anything else that confirms he feels anything. I guess now is Pallavi's time to shine as an individual, maybe basis seeing that Raghav may grow fond of her. Cause Pallavi is always Pallavi whenever the Deshmukhs aren't around. When it was Raghav's time to shine, he screwed his chances. Let's see, maybe later he develops into a better version of this Raghav Rao, like Pallavi is. I mean humanize him effectively without losing the RR charm.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Sorry but I will have to disagree on this.. Pallavi maybe more open to show her feelings, be it attraction or hatred compared to Raghav who is way more cryptic and hard to decipher. But Pallavi's attraction towards Raghav, was not something that I see as a handsome guy who walks into her her mundane life and sweeps her off her feet.. The attraction was more like an intrigue around a man who is so layered and conflicting in his words and actions.. The few instances where she was shown to be phyisically attracted or affected by him, were shown in Raghav's case too infact more explicit than Pallavi's.. the saree pin moment being the recent one.. Problem is writers have never extrapolated those moments into anything steady that has stayed with the character.. The focus has always been shifting to his family and MU's.. so we never get a clear picture of how he feels about her and the extent of it..

I would agree with Vish here, cause Pallavi is not the kind of woman to be swept away by any man. She is devoted to her dead husband and a promise she made to him. If anything, she has only seen men bother her because she is a woman and a widow, like Jagdish Anna. Raghav has successfully made his place among those kind of men who bother her for her gender and her being a lonely widow. Technically speaking, Raghav's misplaced ire on Pallavi stems from his bias against women.

But Pallavi has always seen Raghav as someone who has inspired her to work hard, to break outside the box, to fly. She herself has said this. She has disliked only his behavior and his methods. And technically being the "man of the Deshmukh family", she has defended her family, cause maybe Raghav was right, but from her POV, he was wrong, cause it cost Mansi her marriage. Apart from that, she hasn't been bothered by Raghav or his work. Infact, she has sympathized for his equation with his mother, she has displayed concern for his wellbeing. She has been curious with him pertaining to the layers he has as a man. Cause he flips quite often.

Makers have till now effectively shown and explained Pallavi's thoughts and actions regarding Raghav, the person. Raghav ka ab tak na aisa kuch dikha, na explain hua. We are all just assuming, but since we have no insights, monologues or thought flashes, we don't really know anything.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Sorry but I will have to disagree on this.. Pallavi maybe more open to show her feelings, be it attraction or hatred compared to Raghav who is way more cryptic and hard to decipher. But Pallavi's attraction towards Raghav, was not something that I see as a handsome guy who walks into her her mundane life and sweeps her off her feet.. The attraction was more like an intrigue around a man who is so layered and conflicting in his words and actions.. The few instances where she was shown to be phyisically attracted or affected by him, were shown in Raghav's case too infact more explicit than Pallavi's.. the saree pin moment being the recent one.. Problem is writers have never extrapolated those moments into anything steady that has stayed with the character.. The focus has always been shifting to his family and MU's.. so we never get a clear picture of how he feels about her and the extent of it..

Yeah raghav have those moments too!! But if we are talking from attraction point of view then it is pallavi obviously started showing it!! She was pertrubed when she saw him bare bodied lifting tyres not to mention she was visibly affected when their fingers touched unintentionally while checking saree designs and she was affected but not raghav!! Her taroing raghav during bharatnatyam practice where was she was visibly smitten and impressed not to mention when in restaurant when raghav chased gkk and got into accident she followed after him and took him away from the accident scene and took care of him and last but not the least her getting irritated with raghav not replying to her watsapp chat or raghav saying she is not my heroine!! Baby girl is heavily smitten but is gadhe ka harqat ne pallu ka attraction ko piche kar diya aur hate ko samne laya!!

Originally posted by: libran90

I would agree with Vish here, cause Pallavi is not the kind of woman to be swept away by any man. She is devoted to her dead husband and a promise she made to him. If anything, she has only seen men bother her because she is a woman and a widow, like Jagdish Anna. Raghav has successfully made his place among those kind of men who bother her for her gender and her being a lonely widow. Technically speaking, Raghav's misplaced ire on Pallavi stems from his bias against women.

But Pallavi has always seen Raghav as someone who has inspired her to work hard, to break outside the box, to fly. She herself has said this. She has disliked only his behavior and his methods. And technically being the "man of the Deshmukh family", she has defended her family, cause maybe Raghav was right, but from her POV, he was wrong, cause it cost Mansi her marriage. Apart from that, she hasn't been bothered by Raghav or his work. Infact, she has sympathized for his equation with his mother, she has displayed concern for his wellbeing. She has been curious with him pertaining to the layers he has as a man. Cause he flips quite often.

Makers have till now effectively shown and explained Pallavi's thoughts and actions regarding Raghav, the person. Raghav ka ab tak na aisa kuch dikha, na explain hua. We are all just assuming, but since we have no insights, monologues or thought flashes, we don't really know anything.

Why show concern for a person you hate on top of that if you are not so affected by raghav why always thinking of him and trying to prove herself in his eyes!! Why take the challenge seriously when raghav himself was casual about it. Why ?

She is intrugued and attracted to this guy.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

I know what you mean and I feel that way too.. that's how they have written his character.. everyone was like Raghav's character shows an arc a development. Ghanta development! As far as Pallavi goes, his feelings have only backtracked.. After the Ramaswamy incident, when he saw her feeding those oldies, was frankly the only time he thought about her as an individual..her compassion touched him..but since then, there have been so many incidents that just didnt impact him the way they should have- her saving his life being the most imp one.. Even now, when Sulu was barking on the day of their wedding, they should have focussed on him too.. coz now he knows what she kinda people she deals with on a daily basis and he is a big reason she has to listen to all that crap.. Kya karein? Sab cheeze hawa me filter ho jati hain. All depends on how cv's work on his character post marriage.. Ideay the clearing of MU's and blood donation should not be the sole reason for him to fall in love with her, ye to mene bohot pehle kaha tha.. I wanna see him fall in love with Pallavi, for the woman she is.. dekhte hain

@bold I remember we had a similar discussion in edt or some other thread when the show was fairly new...and we agreed on this.he should get to know about the donor truth, widow truth and all other mus after he has fallen for her. Since then so many things have changed yet nothing has changed from this guy and his emotions The lack of insight is still there🥱

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Why show concern for a person you hate on top of that if you are not so affected by raghav why always thinking of him and trying to prove herself in his eyes!! Why take the challenge seriously when raghav himself was casual about it. Why ?

She is intrugued and attracted to this guy.

She never hated him initially. She just disliked him. Hate has developed over time, thanks to Raghav and his need to be a jerk at all times. Pallavi took the challenge seriously because it was a joke for him, but for her it was her father's dreams and life. How could she let that go? Then, Raghav destroyed everything she held dear. Yes, I agree, she was intrigued by him, yes, attracted to him, maybe. But for Pallavi, the emotions matter equally. Just hope, she doesn't give in earlier. It will not look justified. I hate this wife being a rehab solution for men like Raghav. I don't want that to be shown.

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Why show concern for a person you hate on top of that if you are not so affected by raghav why always thinking of him and trying to prove herself in his eyes!! Why take the challenge seriously when raghav himself was casual about it. Why ?

She is intrugued and attracted to this guy.

That's part of the point Im making.. From a neutral point of view, there are far more reasons for Raghav to feel attracted towards Pallavi than she has.. For the kind of person she is, the integrity of her character plus she is beautiful too.. so Raghav's focus on his family shouldnt be a reason for him to not find all that attractive in her coz Pallavi too has a lot to deal with on family front but we still get an insight about her feelings about Raghav.. The writers have just left too much to speculate when it comes to Raghav..

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

That's part of the point Im making.. From a neutral point of view, there are far more reasons for Raghav to feel attracted towards Pallavi than she has.. For the kind of person she is, the integrity of her character plus she is beautiful too.. so Raghav's focus on his family shouldnt be a reason for him to not find all that attractive in her coz Pallavi too has a lot to deal with on family front but we still get an insight about her feelings about Raghav.. The writers have just left too much to speculate when it comes to Raghav..

Exactly. And even if we have any insight, it is so twisted, ki sala, dimaag hi kharaab ho jaye. Ajeeb se hallucinations, tedhe tareeke ki expectations,bully karke haq jatana. Bhai isse achcha, tu single hi rehta. Hum logo ko kam magajmaari karni padti.

Originally posted by: libran90

She never hated him initially. She just disliked him. Hate has developed over time, thanks to Raghav and his need to be a jerk at all times. Pallavi took the challenge seriously because it was a joke for him, but for her it was her father's dreams and life. How could she let that go? Then, Raghav destroyed everything she held dear. Yes, I agree, she was intrigued by him, yes, attracted to him, maybe. But for Pallavi, the emotions matter equally. Just hope, she doesn't give in earlier. It will not look justified. I hate this wife being a rehab solution for men like Raghav. I don't want that to be shown.

Yes it was her baba's dream but there was other ways to fulfill that dream. If I dislike some I will not even care about that person thinks about me let alone prove myself in that person's eye. If I disliked someone I will never allow that person to touch me let touch that person casually. That is my definition of dislike I know. Par pallu k liye dislike shabd koi aur hi meaning rakhta hai shayad. 😂😂

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

That's part of the point Im making.. From a neutral point of view, there are far more reasons for Raghav to feel attracted towards Pallavi than she has.. For the kind of person she is, the integrity of her character plus she is beautiful too.. so Raghav's focus on his family shouldnt be a reason for him to not find all that attractive in her coz Pallavi too has a lot to deal with on family front but we still get an insight about her feelings about Raghav.. The writers have just left too much to speculate when it comes to Raghav..

Raghav's character is too much complex than pallavi. Pallavi once she moves on from trashmukhs and mandar will easily love raghav but for raghav it is not easy . Especially that tragedy which destroyed his life and broke his family is because of a woman. It will take major time for him to trust and love a woman other than amma and keerthi.