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I know I will cross a line talking about personal relationship of roka couple but it just shows why Neil had failed relationships before. I fear this will go same route by the looks of it. Him promoting extra marital affairs and not recognising a devar-bhabhi relationship and furthermore trying to justify an undefendable character shows his mindset and he will do everything to tolerate her antics.

Hey guys these are the point of views i would like to put down:

1. If Pakhi is only showing care and concern like any other family member then why was virat effected badly to the level rejecting or not letting her touch him Literally he flinched on her touch and asked her to keep the Maryada line of the relationship. Emotional harassment do exist in the plot it is clearly visible in many scenarios where every time Virat and sai get close pakhi do interfere and Spits the venom bringing vada between making Virat emotionally weak.

2. How come the actor is comparing Pakhi and sai on same stand pakhi is his bhabi and Sai is his wife . Here bhabhi is not letting Sai to meet virat who is her husband and wanted to take care of her devar like any other wife does for husband. ML is supporting that behavior of Pakhi naming care and concern is stupidity and simply defending villan with some sugar coated explanation doesn't make sense when script clearly shows what Pakhi is upto.

3. Honestly speaking ML is a very good actor but the offscreen drama effects the mental peace of audience and definitely Offscreen also has impact on audience interest for onscreen. Since most of us are connected to Ayeshu (Sai) we are not shifting or leaving ghum if ayeshu would have not been lead many of would have quit with drama .

4. Lastly i am sorry if am rude but i don't think that jalkudi and ML , either will gave a great impact on their career if they keep doing such cheap publicity stunts bcoz it is ultimately we the audience are the TRP givers or the jalkudi being insecure may end up breaking their relation

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Ignore these dear, and stay positive 💗

Let's just focus on Sairat.

That's the thing, I really can't now. This is a sensitive matter, and something which happens in our society. Instead of pointing it out, they are making it a joke. This is really low

Originally posted by: ShipIsSailing

That's the thing, I really can't now. This is a sensitive matter, and something which happens in our society. Instead of pointing it out, they are making it a joke. This is really low

#AttentionMeinGhum

#ChillYaar

#StayTrueToYourPOV🤗

Instead of such cheap n negative publicity .. actress playing Pakhi should focus on her acting skills n expressions.. otherwise it seems by the end of this show or even before .. she will loose her ground

Humbleness with right approach can take u to heights ..

I have seen Neil’s work in’Gulaal’.. he is brilliant actor..

He should have avoided reacting to her msg.. n be part of unnecessary cheap publicity stunts by his co- actor cum fiancée.. he has a long way to go unlike her..

Haven't actually seen the post and neils reply but its sounding very distasteful.

Actor playing pp is attention seeking and best to ignore but as audience i had more expectations from neil.

He seems to understand the character snd emotes so well so its really uncool for him to defend pp's character. In the hospital scene it is crystal clear from virats dialogues and expressions that she is HARASSING him. He shirks away from her and swats her hand away, says to her for the second time now- to maintain the "lihaaz"of their relationship- wherein she is his brothers wife. He told her to stay in her limits earlier too. He has been clear that he is not comfortable with her presence in the hospital room all night or in his own room at home in the middle of the night. So ignoring all this if the woman is trying to touch him, impose her "care" on him by kicking out his wife then how is NOT harassment?! His own expressions on the show suggested this. So if he emoted in the episode without actually truly feeling that pp was harrasing in him then maybe we should give the director a lot of credit because he managed to get such a good performance out of neil bhatt even when neil Bhatt does not even realize that the character called pp is harrassing the character called virat. His defence of pp character is definitely not ok because they are currently showing an obsessivr, vile woman who is performing crimes. To brush away her actions of imposing herself without consent/comfort of opposite party as her "true love", only "care" is utterly irresponsible and sends a wrong message. Werent these the same people that made a Vday social message traxk about how if a girl says no to a guys advances- it needs to be respected. And emotional blackmail to force someone by trying to commit suicide (like that guy in Sai's college) is also not acceptable.

So now what happened?!

Until now virat had allowed pp into his space and room because he was giving her the benefit of doubt or wasnt clear about his own feelings. But now that he is clearly asking her to GO and pp responds with essentially saying i don't care what you want, i know what I want, isnt that a clear case of her ignoring the importance of the guys consent?!

The offscreen pair are really making everyone sour by their actions. Its socially irresponsible for them to justify a character like pp. Ome of them is a lost cause and is best to ignore but the other is also now shoeing us that he is confused- mixing reel n real maybe.

I just hope the only bright ray of hope in this show Ayesha Singh is not corrupted by these other people. She doesn't engage in saying controversial things, just does her wotk diligently and always sounds so poised and balanced in her bytes about the show too. These other 2 need to learn a thing or two from her.

Originally posted by: ShipIsSailing

That's the thing, I really can't now. This is a sensitive matter, and something which happens in our society. Instead of pointing it out, they are making it a joke. This is really low

Exactly my turmoil.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Haven't actually seen the post and neils reply but its sounding very distasteful.

Actor playing pp is attention seeking and best to ignore but as audience i had more expectations from neil.

He seems to understand the character snd emotes so well so its really uncool for him to defend pp's character. In the hospital scene it is crystal clear from virats dialogues and expressions that she is HARASSING him. He shirks away from her and swats her hand away, says to her for the second time now- to maintain the "lihaaz"of their relationship- wherein she is his brothers wife. He told her to stay in her limits earlier too. He has been clear that he is not comfortable with her presence in the hospital room all night or in his own room at home in the middle of the night. So ignoring all this if the woman is trying to touch him, impose her "care" on him by kicking out his wife then how is NOT harassment?! His own expressions on the show suggested this. So if he emoted in the episode without actually truly feeling that pp was harrasing in him then maybe we should give the director a lot of credit because he managed to get such a good performance out of neil bhatt even when neil Bhatt does not even realize that the character called pp is harrassing the character called virat. His defence of pp character is definitely not ok because they are currently showing an obsessivr, vile woman who is performing crimes. To brush away her actions of imposing herself without consent/comfort of opposite party as her "true love", only "care" is utterly irresponsible and sends a wrong message. Werent these the same people that made a Vday social message traxk about how if a girl says no to a guys advances- it needs to be respected. And emotional blackmail to force someone by trying to commit suicide (like that guy in Sai's college) is also not acceptable.

So now what happened?!

Until now virat had allowed pp into his space and room because he was giving her the benefit of doubt or wasnt clear about his own feelings. But now that he is clearly asking her to GO and pp responds with essentially saying i don't care what you want, i know what I want, isnt that a clear case of her ignoring the importance of the guys consent?!

The offscreen pair are really making everyone sour by their actions. Its socially irresponsible for them to justify a character like pp. Ome of them is a lost cause and is best to ignore but the other is also now shoeing us that he is confused- mixing reel n real maybe.

I just hope the only bright ray of hope in this show Ayesha Singh is not corrupted by these other people. She doesn't engage in saying controversial things, just does her wotk diligently and always sounds so poised and balanced in her bytes about the show too. These other 2 need to learn a thing or two from her.

@ Bold so true.. This defence cannot be even clubbed under an opinion.. a point of view..It is detrimental to the fans who follow these actors on SM and agree to every word they say.. So so irresponsible on so many levels..

Originally posted by: Nja91

Haven't actually seen the post and neils reply but its sounding very distasteful.

Actor playing pp is attention seeking and best to ignore but as audience i had more expectations from neil.

He seems to understand the character snd emotes so well so its really uncool for him to defend pp's character. In the hospital scene it is crystal clear from virats dialogues and expressions that she is HARASSING him. He shirks away from her and swats her hand away, says to her for the second time now- to maintain the "lihaaz"of their relationship- wherein she is his brothers wife. He told her to stay in her limits earlier too. He has been clear that he is not comfortable with her presence in the hospital room all night or in his own room at home in the middle of the night. So ignoring all this if the woman is trying to touch him, impose her "care" on him by kicking out his wife then how is NOT harassment?! His own expressions on the show suggested this. So if he emoted in the episode without actually truly feeling that pp was harrasing in him then maybe we should give the director a lot of credit because he managed to get such a good performance out of neil bhatt even when neil Bhatt does not even realize that the character called pp is harrassing the character called virat. His defence of pp character is definitely not ok because they are currently showing an obsessivr, vile woman who is performing crimes. To brush away her actions of imposing herself without consent/comfort of opposite party as her "true love", only "care" is utterly irresponsible and sends a wrong message. Werent these the same people that made a Vday social message traxk about how if a girl says no to a guys advances- it needs to be respected. And emotional blackmail to force someone by trying to commit suicide (like that guy in Sai's college) is also not acceptable.

So now what happened?!

Until now virat had allowed pp into his space and room because he was giving her the benefit of doubt or wasnt clear about his own feelings. But now that he is clearly asking her to GO and pp responds with essentially saying i don't care what you want, i know what I want, isnt that a clear case of her ignoring the importance of the guys consent?!

The offscreen pair are really making everyone sour by their actions. Its socially irresponsible for them to justify a character like pp. Ome of them is a lost cause and is best to ignore but the other is also now shoeing us that he is confused- mixing reel n real maybe.

I just hope the only bright ray of hope in this show Ayesha Singh is not corrupted by these other people. She doesn't engage in saying controversial things, just does her wotk diligently and always sounds so poised and balanced in her bytes about the show too. These other 2 need to learn a thing or two from her.

Another issue is through these antics, he has unknowingly diluted his on screen character, next time during virakhi scenes, we have to keep in mind (according to Neil), both Sai, his wife, and Pakhi’s, his Bhabi, care and concern for virat are the same, and it’s not violation of consent if she touches him, meaning he’s okay with it lol.

How you can you use the word concern for married woman who literally declared love feelings for married man while knowing that he loves his wife what kind of a man accepts such concern? Beats me.

Clownery at its best.