Hey Siya!!!🤗
I totally agree with everything you just said.
Whatever happens offscreen is none of our business. The actors should also know how to differenciate between personal from professional, and fans should know how to differentiate between on-screen and off-screen. I know that the actress playing Pakhi (Aishwarya) has not come to terms with her character at all, or she probably hasn't understood her character. Any insult to Pakhi's character is taken as a personal offence. And considering how she reacts to such comments, we should neither be surprised nor should we react.
And, fans should know the difference between on-screen and off-screen. I know that quite a lot of fans at bitter towards her because she is engaged to Neil. And I don't really think that this is fair on her or Neil. Just because they are portraying certain characters on-screen and their character is romantically inclined towards a particular character, doesn't mean that the same dynamics have to be applied off-screen too. Neil and Ayesha are good friends, while Neil and Aishwarya are engaged to be married. People should learn how to respect their relationship too.
Also, I've seen many comments in which people say that every time Sai or SaiRat is given importance, the actress in question does something to divert the attention to her. I don't know if this is a pattern everyone notices, because I don't follow them on any social media platform. But what I would like to say is that some people are very private, so they don't like exposing anything about their personal life (like Ayesha), while some people love flaunting their relationship on social media, and honestly speaking, it is not wrong! So if Aishwarya and Neil are comfortable doing that, we shouldn't judge them for it.
Whatever opinions we have, let's just limit it to the show and the characters, and not take the hatred forward to the actors and their off-screen life.
P.S. I know that I too have made posts on Aishwarya's acting, which means taking a personal dig at her. But, I was only talking about her acting chops and how it can be improved. That's it. As an audience, I think we are entitled to criticize or praise an actor's performance when needed.
Love,
Niya🤗