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Originally posted by: libran90

I am not. He called for it.😆

yeah me too. I had made up my mind to hate RR from last week. He is one of those characters for whom I can quote :

Love me or hate me, both are in my favour. If you love me, I’ll always be in your heart. If you hate me, I’ll always be in your mind 😆

Originally posted by: libran90

As I said, Raghav is woefully slow in understanding his feelings. So, things will settle and unsettle him. He will be understanding the gravity of entering into a marriage with a woman on a leash for his family. His assuming that everything will normalize after marriage and Pallavi will be the demure wife and DIL is the height of being delusional. After witnessing a silent death of her former self during the marriage rituals, what was he expecting to happen. He will live happily with the family, and she will exist in some corner of his house? What did he expect, I want to know, cause it baffles me sometimes.

Also, Pallavi was always in his mind. And surprisingly, he has tied million invisible expectations with her already, even when unrelated. Now she is his wife. God knows uske dimaag me kya hai. Pallavi will be very welcoming, warm, and exerting her rights on the Rao family. But she will neither exert any right on Raghav nor entertain him. Lets see how long Raghav puts up with that.

I think he knows that her fighting spirit will make a comeback but I don't think he has any idea of its nature or the extent to which she could go on a rampage if she wanted to. 😆

Raghav is in denial. He may tell Keerti he doesn't care who else gets hurt on his way to achieving his goal of family reunification, but he does think about the impact on Pallavi. While he may make it clear that she shouldn't expect him to be a husband in the true sense, I agree with you that he already expects goodness knows what from her, and will continue to stew in it.

Originally posted by: libran90

Frankly, I don't want her to fall in love first. I want Raghav to. Cause it is very clear with the marriage, who will be the guiding force and who will keep this marriage together. Pallavi will not, for sure.

Yeah, but Pallavi is too kind... I hope she doesn't forgive him that easily but I won't be surprised if she does. Once that happens, nothing will stop her falling head over heels for him.

Originally posted by: inlieu

It's like part of her soul is gone. No wonder she looks like that during the wedding and no wonder she collapsed. It's too much. She now feels she cannot fulfill her promises to Mandaar.

If that's not devotion and love, I don't know what is. How many people can expect that from a widowed spouse? Mandaar was fortunate, for sure. It may not have been romantic love, or maybe it was but we don't know enough about their dynamics to say with certainty. Pallavi's idea of love is more about a connection of two souls. Ironically, so is Raghav's but they are unware of each other's thinking in this matter. What Pallavi said to him about her perspective on marriage, when she accepted the deal, will come back to him later and he will realize that they aren't so different from one another, after all.

Absolutely..and today when Amma will MU too, which Im sure she will given the confidence with which she told Sulu that Pallavi can NEVER marry a man like Raghav, she is bound to be disappointed in her choice even if she gives her the benefit of doubt that Pallavi may have been blackmailed into marrying Raghav...I know it will be too much for her to put 2 and 2 together and understand that Nikhil's release can not be a co-incidence. The fact that Pallavi didn't confide in her, when she specifically told her to share everything with her the night before, is gonna cause the hurt and MU. That will be breaking point for Pallavi..when Ayi leaves her too, hurt, angry and disappointed..

On one hand Raghav gets everything he wanted, his family is with him and on the other hand Pallavi loses everything she held dear to her.. Will Raghav understand that? How unfair the deal is? I hope he takes time out of his happiness and celebration on getting amma back, to notice Pallavi's utter misery..

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yeah, but Pallavi is too kind... I hope she doesn't forgive him that easily but I won't be surprised if she does. Once that happens, nothing will stop her falling head over heels for him.

I don't know. She has trusted him once. And he ruined her. And without concrete evidence.

What he has done is very similar to professing love and jilting the bride at the altar.

She doesn't trust him anymore. Giving her heart to him, when it already belongs to that God-forsaken family, isn't possible.

Raghav ke terms and conditions pe shaadi hui hai. Pallavi has been forced to commit. But, Raghav being Raghav, he cannot keep his word ever, when it is about Pallavi. With others he kept his word, like for his Amma, he ensured that Pallavi gets married by bailing Nikhil out. But when it comes only to Pallavi, his terms, conditions, rules, everything changes. So I don't know how long will he keep his word for "leaving her alone".

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Absolutely..and today when Amma will MU too, which Im sure she will given the confidence with which she told Sulu that Pallavi can NEVER marry a man like Raghav, she is bound to be disappointed in her choice even if she gives her the benefit of doubt that Pallavi may have been blackmailed into marrying Raghav...I know it will be too much for her to put 2 and 2 together and understand that Nikhil's release can not be a co-incidence. The fact that Pallavi didn't confide in her, when she specifically told her to share everything with her the night before, is gonna cause the hurt and MU. That will be breaking point for Pallavi..when Ayi leaves her too, hurt, angry and disappointed..

On one hand Raghav gets everything he wanted, his family is with him and on the other hand Pallavi loses everything she held dear to her.. Will Raghav understand that? How unfair the deal is? I hope he takes time out of his happiness and celebration on getting amma back, to notice Pallavi's utter misery..

Will Raghav get everything he wanted, though? Something tells me his loneliness will remain to a great extent. While he is still that 17-year-old somewhere who longs to reunite with his family, the three Raos changed over the years because of the difficulties they faced. There's been a loss of innocence all-round that can never come back. Moreover, the fact that he manipulated Pallavi to get married is something that Keerti isn't going to accept easily. So while they will be physically living under one roof, there will still be some emotional distance. Amma might choose to look the other way for now but even she can't do that forever. Marrying Pallavi isn't going to automatically fix their problems or make Raghav come back on track. It needs effort that no one is willing to put in right now. Amma has a lot of expectations from both Raghav and Pallavi that neither is in a position to address and this will cause confusion and unhappiness in their lives.

On the other hand, while Pallavi might feel she has lost everything, this is probably the first time in ages where she has no one else to worry about or take responsibility for except herself. This is long overdue and will help her reflect on what she wants in life. Sure, she will give Raghav a hard time, and that makes sense but after a point she will think about bigger things, perhaps her dreams and personal goals. I could never see her being able to have that thinking time while she was with the Deshmukhs. It will also give her a chance to see what family life can actually be like because I expect Amma and Keerti to treat her genuinely as their own, and give her the respect and attention that she needs and deserves. She will eventually realize who really is on her team and who stands by her during tough times.

Originally posted by: libran90

I don't know. She has trusted him once. And he ruined her. And without concrete evidence.

What he has done is very similar to professing love and jilting the bride at the altar.

She doesn't trust him anymore. Giving her heart to him, when it already belongs to that God-forsaken family, isn't possible.

Raghav ke terms and conditions pe shaadi hui hai. Pallavi has been forced to commit. But, Raghav being Raghav, he cannot keep his word ever, when it is about Pallavi. With others he kept his word, like for his Amma, he ensured that Pallavi gets married by bailing Nikhil out. But when it comes only to Pallavi, his terms, conditions, rules, everything changes. So I don't know how long will he keep his word for "leaving her alone".

He won't because Amma will interfere in true ITV style and try to force them to spend time together, do rituals etc. I hate that by the way, I prefer things to happen organically. The other thing is that I don't feel Pallavi will give him the silent treatment at all times, if any. She will actively do or say things to him or to others to annoy him, to make his life difficult, and on some level to get a rise out of him. So Raghav won't be able to leave her alone. When she gets in trouble and doesn't ask him for help or share her problems, you can bet that will annoy the hell out of him. The other day he asked her sarcastically why she didn't come to him for help with Nikhil's case, but there was a world of meaning behind that. He likes helping people and feeling needed/wanted, more so in her case. Being stripped of that is not going to go well.

I also think that Pallavi will struggle not to feel hurt by the Deshmukshs and her emotions will be on display at some point or the other. Those tears of hers, visible or not, are going to flood his heart eventually.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Will Raghav get everything he wanted, though? Something tells me his loneliness will remain to a great extent. While he is still that 17-year-old somewhere who longs to reunite with his family, the three Raos changed over the years because of the difficulties they faced. There's been a loss of innocence all-round that can never come back. Moreover, the fact that he manipulated Pallavi to get married is something that Keerti isn't going to accept easily. So while they will be physically living under one roof, there will still be some emotional distance. Amma might choose to look the other way for now but even she can't do that forever. Marrying Pallavi isn't going to automatically fix their problems or make Raghav come back on track. It needs effort that no one is willing to put in right now. Amma has a lot of expectations from both Raghav and Pallavi that neither is in a position to address and this will cause confusion and unhappiness in their lives.

On the other hand, while Pallavi might feel she has lost everything, this is probably the first time in ages where she has no one else to worry about or take responsibility for except herself. This is long overdue and will help her reflect on what she wants in life. Sure, she will give Raghav a hard time, and that makes sense but after a point she will think about bigger things, perhaps her dreams and personal goals. I could never see her being able to have that thinking time while she was with the Deshmukhs. It will also give her a chance to see what family life can actually be like because I expect Amma and Keerti to treat her genuinely as their own, and give her the respect and attention that she needs and deserves. She will eventually realize who really is on her team and who stands by her during tough times.

That's an interesting perspective. If we look at things that way then this is the best thing to have happened to Pallavi from audiences point of view.. We know that living with the Deshmukhs was like a bondage..responsibilities and duties that she actually felt obliged to do because of the promise she made to Mandhar. But somewhere down the line, she moulded herself into that life and believed this is the family she was born into, not brought into as a bahu. We know that the worry, the unnecessary pressure of taking the entire family's responsibility on her shoulder was restricting her own personal growth and she had completely forgotten that besides being the bahu/daughter/sister, she is an individual too who has the right to be happy for herself, think about herself and herself alone for once.. However, that's the life she has seen and lived, up until now where she feels her happiness, her family and Mandhar's memories lie.. and being stripped away of all that is gonna break her.. Eventually what's gonna happen we all know but right now she does seem to get the raw end of the deal.

Raghav, on the other hand, will have realistic chances of making amends with amma and Keerthi.. Keerthi, will give a cold shoulder to him sure.. but being the pragmatic and sensible girl that she is, she should know that this time its her Amma who orchestrated all this.. she is the one who literally blackmailed Raghav into marrying Pallavi.. And with Amma, all he has to do is try and keep it cordial with Pallavi for now..I think he is at a much better place than he was ever before..

Now how much Pallavi cooperates with him to keep things cordial, that's the real question..she is gonna make it difficult for Raghav and that should be fun.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think he knows that her fighting spirit will make a comeback but I don't think he has any idea of its nature or the extent to which she could go on a rampage if she wanted to. 😆

Raghav is in denial. He may tell Keerti he doesn't care who else gets hurt on his way to achieving his goal of family reunification, but he does think about the impact on Pallavi. While he may make it clear that she shouldn't expect him to be a husband in the true sense, I agree with you that he already expects goodness knows what from her, and will continue to stew in it.

The problem is, what turn this fighting spirit will take, we don't know. Is Pallavi capable of being cold, distant, and aloof that woh exist karti bhi hai ya nahi, pata nahi chalta. Or she will be crafty like Raghav has assumed her to be. Or she will prove herself to be a gold-digger like he assumes about her. Cause Raghav ka ek aur problem bhi hai. Jab woh khud manta hai to its okay, but when Pallavi does exactly that, then he cannot digest it.

It needs to come out with more clarity, cause it hasn't hit the chord with me, that he is getting impacted. It happened after the "Pallavi ka charitraharan" part, but not so much after that. So, let's see how much we get to see Raghav getting uneasy, uncomfortable, and unsettled.

Originally posted by: libran90

The problem is, what turn this fighting spirit will take, we don't know. Is Pallavi capable of being cold, distant, and aloof that woh exist karti bhi hai ya nahi, pata nahi chalta. Or she will be crafty like Raghav has assumed her to be. Or she will prove herself to be a gold-digger like he assumes about her. Cause Raghav ka ek aur problem bhi hai. Jab woh khud manta hai to its okay, but when Pallavi does exactly that, then he cannot digest it.

It needs to come out with more clarity, cause it hasn't hit the chord with me, that he is getting impacted. It happened after the "Pallavi ka charitraharan" part, but not so much after that. So, let's see how much we get to see Raghav getting uneasy, uncomfortable, and unsettled.

It will take time for things to affect him. Meanwhile, he will be busy doing his gangster stuff. Even Pallavi may not have a game plan yet. She might observe initially and take small steps as opposed to a big bang approach.