Originally posted by: AninditaB
Sorry but Virat isn't responsible anything for what Pakhi went through!! Samrat asked her twice and even told he'll say No if she can't say No. Her father asked thrice before she met Virat again, thrice after Virat gave the vaada. Still she didn't say no, knowing how the stupid the vaada is! He may not have set the boundaries with her after their marriage, but Virat is no way responsible for Pakhi's state.
Not saying Pakhi wasn’t dumb. Even with that promise Pakhi should have thought about Samrat. If Samrat had been there and if Pakhi had spent enough time with him she might have moved on. Would she deny Samrat the rights of a husband just coz Virat was around or would she want Virat to remain single the rest of his life and see her move on with her husband? She has been selfish too. But by making that dumb promise Virat gave Pakhi the right to dictate terms to him. In the spur of the moment he made that promise but could he not think what his mother would have gone through after knowing that? Virat being her only son she craved for a daughter in the form of a daughter in law. Someone who would respect her and be loving towards her. Especially after the way that horrible family treats her. Ashwini would have also wanted grandchildren she could play with. Was it right on Virat’s part to make that promise? He would have deprived Ashwini of the joys she once dreamt of with that dumb promise. When Virat made that promise Pakhi felt that no matter who she would marry Virat would be hers. Pakhi is selfish to the last bone in her body. But Virat is dumb as well.