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Originally posted by: LoveHopeMagic
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Jean... here everyone is upset about how RR could be selfish and how Amma could be selfish and here you want pallu to be selfish too.. 🤣
Jab sab log kar rahe hain to Pallavi kyun peechhe reh jayi. Thoda selfishness chahiye warna doormat ban ke reh jaayegi. Ek sasural kam tha jo ab dusra sar pe utha legi?
Anjali was a sweetheart though. All she wanted to do was get Lavanya to understand what kind of woman Nani wanted to see as her bahu (I didn't like the word "train" that they used in the show and I definitely didn't like the way La changed her clothing and speaking. She was a good girl as is, just needed to learn some customs, rituals, etc)
Anyway, Anjali had a harmless mission that didn't alter anyone's lives, in fact had I been in Khushi's place I'd have accepted the job immediately, given her total lack of employability. They were in desperate need of money but she was throwing tantrums like "us aadmi ka shakal nahi dekhna" 🤔 Girl, in every workplace there are people we do not like or get along with, maana ki your hate equation is a bit on the extreme, but please straighten your priorities 🤔
Anywaayy (seriously, why can't I ever stay on topic? ) Anjali apologised to Khushi for her blackmailing. I hope that amma does the same to Pallavi, there is no way she doesn't realise that Raghu is pressurising her in some way.
Hahaha dont worry I do that all the time😆 I still watch random clips of IPK on hotstar and cringe on Khushi's sheer irritating and OTT bevaviour at times. The one I saw and hated Khushi for was the episode in which she goes all hyper over why ASR wouldnt bow his head infront of Lord Krishna or participate in the prayers. Or the whole hoopla over live in relationships. I would never be able to stand somone as irritating as Khushi in real life.. IPK did have its moments, the leads chemistry and its random but I loved the bg score of that show.. just adds so much more to the scenes, especially the romantic ones..
One scene that I loved in IPK, that I would love to see here, is immediately after ASR forces her to marry him, Khushi is putting on bangles and Arnav is trying to focus on his work but is not able to because of the noise of the bangles.. and he gets irritated then immediately gets concerned when she pulls the strings of her necklace too tight around her neck .. the bg score in those scenes aaah!! Would love to see something similar here.. Raghav and Pallavi sharing the same room will be awkward for both..but maybe Pallavi will be too occupied with the gazillion emotions she will be going through to sense or show it but Raghav ?? Hows he gonna react to having her in his personal space? That should be interesting .
Oh see!? I digress too.. about Anjali and amma lol yes I know diff characters diff situations.. just wanted to point out the not so right means they resorted to, to get the leads together. 😆
Originally posted by: LoveHopeMagic
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Jean... here everyone is upset about how RR could be selfish and how Amma could be selfish and here you want pallu to be selfish too.. 🤣
Kyun bhai, selfish banne ka theka sirf Deshmukhs aur Raos ne stamp paper pe likh ke liya hai kya??😆
Sab ban rahe hai, to iss adli Jean ki adli maang bhi puri nahi karenge😆
Jab sab log kar rahe hain to Pallavi kyun peechhe reh jayi. Thoda selfishness chahiye warna doormat ban ke reh jaayegi. Ek sasural kam tha jo ab dusra sar pe utha legi?
She needs to be selfish a bit but, then everyone will be selfish then what will happen to the show. 😆 Only Farhad will be slefless, then CVS will turn him to selfish person when he fall in love with keerthi.
Ok, so who are the people who are only blaming Raghav? I mean I don't see anyone just blaming Raghav. I have seen people blaming Pallavi too.
Both of them may not be par with the way they executed their actions, but both are at par with the level of stupidity they display when it comes to family and the waste of space Deshmukhs, cause frankly, they aren't family from any angle you view it.
If you compare Pallavi and Raghav's situations and reactions to them, both are at the opposite ends of the spectrum. One solves problems via activity; the other solve problems via passivity. Where one thinks being confrontational is a form of self-preservation, the other think of silence as self-preservation. Pallavi is all about submission and devotion, and Raghav is about conflict and revolution. Both are delusional. Pallavi is delusional about what family is and does. Raghav is delusional about what money and ego is and does. Both have a long way to go as far as growth is concerned frankly.
But there are differences as well. Firstly, the difference in family and relations. Raghav is the son and brother. He is related by blood. Pallavi is not bound by blood, she is bound by a relation of daughter-in-law. Raghav is the insider, who has become an outsider, because of his need for self-preservation. Pallavi is an outsider who aspires to be the insider, and it's her self-preservation that got her there. But then the families are different.
Rao family is a bunch of headstrong yet open-minded individuals who have their hearts in the right place, even if they are selfish at times for each other's good. Deshmukhs are a bunch of lousy narrowminded creeps who mask their intentions via their supposed "sharafat". No one loves each other, they are just tolerating each other.
Coming to RaghVi and what has ensued between them. Pallavi ke dimaag me kabhi ye nahi aaya hai ki usko harm karne ke liye, Sulochana will target Keerti. Baat ghar ki thi, in Pallavi's mind, and baat usko leke thi. So, when it comes to her and Deshmukhs, her self-respect has taken a back seat for ghar ki sukh shanti. Cause, somewhere ek default ye bhi hai ki woh DIL hai, aur usko ye baat ka khyaal rakhna padega.
What Raghav did to Amrita was absolutely right. Raghav and Pallavi were being maligned unnecessarily, but that led to Mansi's marriage breaking. That time her instinct was to keep Raghav quiet to fix things for Manasi so that the alliance does not break. All this happened when Pallavi was thinking as the daughter and daughter-in-law.
Raghav knows very well that all Pallavi does is talk. The amount of brain he used to tackle the abortion drama, all that brain went for a toss when it came to family. The CVs have tried to sanitize and humanize Raghav, but I really don't care. Just like Pallavi and her self-respect took a backseat for that horrid family, Raghav and his humanity took a backseat for his family. But the cruelty by Raghav was off the charts.
Raghav verbally disrobed her and Deshmukh's did the rest. But it was all initiated by Raghav. That even Raghav cannot change. Deshmukh's don't deserve to be called a family. But, I don't expect anything of them. I know they are wretched retards. But Raghav was always above all this narrow-minded, leech behavior. He was always about maintaining boundaries and give people a fair chance. Why doesn't Pallavi deserve a fair chance?
Both Pallavi and Raghav are wrong in their actions surely. They assume and don't introspect. But Pallavi's hate has more leverage than Raghav's because Pallavi has been accused of things she never did, and Raghav did all the things he is accused of. Pallavi has been putting up a lot since childhood. She was an orphan married to become a widow. Raghav has got a lot more in his childhood than Pallavi ever got. Yes, some years in between have messed up his worldview. He acts out of bias indeed, but why is that bias only about targetting Pallavi. What happened to Anjali? Or that mystery woman? Are they suffering as much he has made Pallavi suffer for things she did not do? Pallavi, on the other hand, needs to learn, that a positive attitude in the face of adversity is all good, but that does not mean that should put you in a position to be a doormat and not call a spade a spade. She needs to get her act together and call out the Deshmukhs on their hypocrisy and double standards.
Originally posted by: MistyDawn
Hahaha dont worry I do that all the time😆 I still watch random clips of IPK on hotstar and cringe on Khushi's sheer irritating and OTT bevaviour at times. The one I saw and hated Khushi for was the episode in which she goes all hyper over why ASR wouldnt bow his head infront of Lord Krishna or participate in the prayers. Or the whole hoopla over live in relationships. I would never be able to stand somone as irritating as Khushi in real life.. IPK did have its moments, the leads chemistry and its random but I loved the bg score of that show.. just adds so much more to the scenes, especially the romantic ones..
One scene that I loved in IPK, that I would love to see here, is immediately after ASR forces her to marry him, Khushi is putting on bangles and Arnav is trying to focus on his work but is not able to because of the noise of the bangles.. and he gets irritated then immediately gets concerned when she pulls the strings of her necklace too tight around her neck .. the bg score in those scenes aaah!! Would love to see something similar here.. Raghav and Pallavi sharing the same room will be awkward for both..but maybe Pallavi will be too occupied with the gazillion emotions she will be going through to sense or show it but Raghav ?? Hows he gonna react to having her in his personal space? That should be interesting .
Oh see!? I digress too.. about Anjali and amma lol yes I know diff characters diff situations.. just wanted to point out the not so right means they resorted to, to get the leads together. 😆
I've been rewatching IPK with my mom! (Had to get her off that pathetic Pinjara 🤢😆) And I'm realising day by day just how OTT Khushi was I was young when I watched it so some of her antics were fun to me back then (even though her live-in drama bothered me a bit), but now she's just... she exhausts me Can she calm down for a minute, please? Just breathe, girl... learn to meditate or something.
But Arshi's chemistry was on point!! 😍🔥 They were amazing, and yes, Rabba Ve remains one of my all-time favourite soundtracks from ITV. It's beautiful 😍💓 Even the instrumental versions were so good!
Raghav is far more bindaas than ASR though... I can even see him flirting with SKD to annoy her 😆 Whereas Arnav... he would never 🤣 Not until he fell in love completely... then he became flirty boy ☺️
And rather than Khushi's childish antics, I want to see Pallu's giving him the complete cold shoulder. He should see it, amma should see it, everyone should see it. He should get frostbites from the cold 😈 And it should bother him like hell 😈
I understood your point about anjali and amma, I'm just saying that I want amma to apologise to Pallu too at some point, just like Anjali had apologised for her blackmailing. Pallavi could even readily forgive her, but I want at least that acknowledgement. That she knew she was bringing in a plate full of problems for Pallavi, she was doing it with good intentions but she's still sorry about it.
Originally posted by: libran90
Adli is actually urdu/persian word meaning just or fair. What you said about Pallavi being selfish was a fair demand.😆
Thanks. I think it's fine to be selfish as long as you don't destroy another person's life. Perhaps this is the lesson that Pallavi will learn that even when her back is to the wall she can find a way to turn things to her advantage, as she will in this marriage. 😉
Aap ne mujhe fair kaha. Aisa kya kiya maine iss honor ko paane ke liye? 😳
