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Originally posted by: maahi11

I agree with everything but my prob was that she is well educated and independent girl she could have turned Virat down, she could herself spoke to Samrat, marrying on the based vada is too empty for me,

This behavior for me is teenage behavior, however U are in love u can not take such decisions based on some vada, and more importantly when u don’t even know Virat properly

That wasn't love in first place. If not for the caada too, I think she might have married Samrat. She didn't marry Samrat only because of the waada or to stay close to Virat, it was also because she knew that it won't be good to get it cancelled.

For her parents sake and for Virat's sake too. She kind of didn't want to disappoint or say no to Virat's request. How do I say this?

Many reasons.

She really wanted to honour Virat's plea.

She also didn't want to tarnish her image which was set in Virat by not turning up for the marriage.

For her parents too though her Dad said he is pkay with it.

To be able to stay somewhere near Virat's life.

Originally posted by: laksh

That wasn't love in first place. If not for the caada too, I think she might have married Samrat. She didn't marry Samrat only because of the waada or to stay close to Virat, it was also because she knew that it won't be good to get it cancelled.

For her parents sake and for Virat's sake too. She kind of didn't want to disappoint or say no to Virat's request. How do I say this?

Many reasons.

She really wanted to honour Virat's plea.

She also didn't want to tarnish her image which was set in Virat by not turning up for the marriage.

For her parents too though her Dad said he is pkay with it.

To be able to stay somewhere near Virat's life.

girls let’s move to another thread

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Haan, woh phone waali story maalum hai, woh jo superman ke jaise gira tha window se, par Vaishali aunty aur Shailesh uncle ka raaz nahi maalum tha🤣

Tumko unko naam kitni acchi tarah se pata hai 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: laksh

@bold 🤣🤣

When I said no control over ger emotions, I mean her emotions for Virat. Her moves are calculated and to tell the truth, is actually spontaneous. As you have rightly said she has understood Sai and Virat in many things, but is underestimating their feelings for each other.

Since she has no control over her emotions for Virat, she goes to any extreme. Btw I agree with you on the part that there are pampered people who behave that way.

The example of your friend, I can get what you are saying. There are people and Pakhi is also a person who can see only her emotions, her pain, her wants. She can get extremely possessive.

Even though her Dad teaches her good things, is also a pampering Dad. Not sure how righteous he would be.

But did you see what did she do when she watched Sai and Virat in the dupatta? She was upset, gt disgusted that he was about to kiss her in front of everyone but didn't actually do anything about it? That was Pakhi in the intoxicated state, somewhere her real self had surfaced.

Her issue was that he was kissing infront of everyone, though she was upset, she didn't pull them away or create a scene like how she did during the Ladakh trip. Why? She only dreamt before she was brought back to reality.

Because in that intoxicated state, was a Pakhi who actually is the real Pakhi. A sophisticated girl who gets disgusted with men dancing with ladies like Virat dancing with Barkha, Virat kissing Sai in front of all.

Tbh the only reason she didn’t create a scene was because it was in public and not family public ( because she knows she can get away with anything with kaku there ). But in public public everyone WILL question her. No other sophistication in that.

The real Pakhi is a girl who can have many good qualities ( the show hasn’t shown us much ), but when she is happy with what she has, she will even think about others and care for others. Example her friend Neha, I am Neha in my friends example scenario , she didn’t care Neha was married all she needed was someone.
The real Pakhi is entitled and self centered, which by itself is okay but when coupled with her need to get what she wants by any means is destructive. At this point she even doesn’t listen to her parents sane words when they offer. This shows that she has lived her life the way she wanted to so far, for the first time she has not gotten what she wanted and she is dealing with it this way. That’s were she is unable to deal with the rejection and comes up with plausible scenarios to justify and think that Virat will always love her despite what she says.

just my perspective.

Originally posted by: laksh

Tumko unko naam kitni acchi tarah se pata hai 🤣🤣

🤣Trust me or not, even I was shocked when I typed the names🤣

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

But lakshmi, beautiful points ,but I have one thing, in all this, doesn't she even get a slight idea, that Virat is drawn to Sai cuz she is herself, unlike her ,who is far different from what Virat saw in her. If yes, then Virat is drawn ti genuineness, than why can't she be herself? Cuz, don't bash me, but I won't suspect that Virat will definitely fight for Pakhi as well if she wants to do something to support who she is.

You think she sees all this? This is why she is underestimating the feelings between Sai and Virat. The actions that she is using to turn Virat against Sai are somewhere the reason Virat is getting drawn to Sai. She is failing to understand what true love is.

Being herself is not in her control now, she tries to but gets carried away as and when a new scene between Virat and Sai play infront of her.

Why will I bash you dear? Agar kabhi poocha ya bola bhi, toh it would have been like asking because it is you 🙈🙈, like taking liberty without my own knowledge. Sorry agar kabhi kuch harshly bol diya ho toh.

Originally posted by: laksh

Had a lot to write on Virat and his feelings for both Sai and Pakhi. I am not getting time, ever since I saw that episode, I wanted to write. I am not at home too now, have some work, not sure when will I return.

He had some role too for her condition as we all know 😒. Itna badava dena hi nahi chahiye tha. He made a few mistakes 😡.

For sure he should have set his limits with her.put her in place when she started acting up n more than one occasion.

But he also doesn’t know know her. All he knows is she is soft spoken like him and has family values and is pretty. He genuinely fell for the dosth word and we know he is not smart enough to read between lines and actions.
plus guilt that samrat went MIA.

I mean it took him so long to figure out I don’t know if he even did, that she genuinely doesn’t care about samrat. In his mind since she decided to marry samrat before knowing the brothers connection, she “liked” him enough to get to know him after marriage. Little did he know.

I pity the girl for her bad timing and bad decisions, and her impulsive jumping to conclusions. That’s were my pity ends

Originally posted by: maahi11

yeah but then if you took the decision you cannot blame another person for ur miseries, you understood the pron and cons and you took the decision,

my problem with her also start with marrying a guy based on some promise, she calls herself independent, which independent person would do that

She wanted Virat to fight with his family, so that she doesn’t come in bad light, she could herself go and talk to samrat, she could call Samrat

Her father gave the option if she wants to quit the marriage but she dint, she cannot blame any one for her situation, she married only in hope to be with Virat and Samrat both

Will come back to you on this.

Originally posted by: notaquitter

Tbh the only reason she didn’t create a scene was because it was in public and not family public ( because she knows she can get away with anything with kaku there ). But in public public everyone WILL question her. No other sophistication in that.

The real Pakhi is a girl who can have many good qualities ( the show hasn’t shown us much ), but when she is happy with what she has, she will even think about others and care for others. Example her friend Neha, I am Neha in my friends example scenario , she didn’t care Neha was married all she needed was someone.
The real Pakhi is entitled and self centered, which by itself is okay but when coupled with her need to get what she wants by any means is destructive. At this point she even doesn’t listen to her parents sane words when they offer. This shows that she has lived her life the way she wanted to so far, for the first time she has not gotten what she wanted and she is dealing with it this way. That’s were she is unable to deal with the rejection and comes up with plausible scenarios to justify and think that Virat will always love her despite what she says.

just my perspective.

Please let’s go other thread

But what u said I second u

Originally posted by: laksh

You think she sees all this? This is why she is underestimating the feelings between Sai and Virat. The actions that she is using to turn Virat against Sai are somewhere the reason Virat is getting drawn to Sai. She is failing to understand what true love is.

Being herself is not in her control now, she tries to but gets carried away as and when a new scene between Virat and Sai play infront of her.

Why will I bash you dear? Agar kabhi poocha ya bola bhi, toh it would have been like asking because it is you 🙈🙈, like taking liberty without my own knowledge. Sorry agar kabhi kuch harshly bol diya ho toh.

@bold

Arre, tumko nahi bola, maine inn general for a reader likha tha. Cuz,nowadays it has become necessary to right this, warna yeh Pakhi se kuch aur hi discussion hojaayega😆