Didi ka purpose

Hello forum wasis,

This is bothering me since yesterday's episode.

So Pakhi felt that there was something between her and Virat and Virat cleared all her misunderstandings. He said in very clear words that she has no place in his heart for any woman apart from his wife. Pakhi must give that place to his brother. She called him names, cursed him and their break up should be official in her mind too!! Isn't it. She can be heart broken, but how is she acting as nothing happened?

In today's episode she was preparing tea to take to Virat's room. While he was leaving she wanted him to call her. I don't understand this character, forget the actress playing it, she makes it even harder, but right now I am talking about the character. Now she knows Virat won't give her what she wants then why is she still after him? What is her purpose? Do you think she thinks that one day Virat will break and give in? Or does she think that she still has got skills to separate him from Sai? I am totally confused about her purpose, Please enlighten me!!!

Originally posted by: methebest

Hello forum wasis,

This is bothering me since yesterday's episode.

So Pakhi felt that there was something between her and Virat and Virat cleared all her misunderstandings. He said in very clear words that she has no place in his heart for any woman apart from his wife. Pakhi must give that place to his brother. She called him names, cursed him and their break up should be official in her mind too!! Isn't it. She can be heart broken, but how is she acting as nothing happened?

In today's episode she was preparing tea to take to Virat's room. While he was leaving she wanted him to call her. I don't understand this character, forget the actress playing it, she makes it even harder, but right now I am talking about the character. Now she knows Virat won't give her what she wants then why is she still after him? What is her purpose? Do you think she thinks that one day Virat will break and give in? Or does she think that she still has got skills to separate him from Sai? I am totally confused about her purpose, Please enlighten me!!!

Okay, so didi feels she is Paro and she has the Nabujhnewaala diya of love for the devdas in the house.

And actually speaking, Virat didn't seem like he was speaking guilt driven or angerdriven in yesterday's episode, but his words were firm.

First,one thing is clear, love is not what didi feels. This is obsession, and obsession is not something which knows the meaning of 'no' or denial in general. So,explains the major part of her behaviour. Her obsession towards gaining Virat.

And two, absence if Sai. Probably, I'll say again ,probably, didi has nothing to do with Samrat, her path is clear, pata nahi Samru aayega bhi ya nahi. And isn't this the case with Sai as well currently? Pata nahi Sai aayegi ya nahi, so this is didi's route. Till when Virat will wait for Sai, one day,one week, one month, one year, but she will be always showing ,and wants to show to this alone Virat, that whether Sai comes or not, she is present at the same spot always. She is ready to move the day he opens the gates for her, till how long will he ponder over Sai, kabhi na kabhi toh haar maan ni hi hai? Probably that's what is going on in her brain.

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Okay, so didi feels she is Paro and she has the Nabujhnewaala diya of love for the devdas in the house.

And actually speaking, Virat didn't seem like he was speaking guilt driven or angerdriven in yesterday's episode, but his words were firm.

First,one thing is clear, love is not what didi feels. This is obsession, and obsession is not something which knows the meaning of 'no' or denial in general. So,explains the major part of her behaviour. Her obsession towards gaining Virat.

And two, absence if Sai. Probably, I'll say again ,probably, didi has nothing to do with Samrat, her path is clear, pata nahi Samru aayega bhi ya nahi. And isn't this the case with Sai as well currently? Pata nahi Sai aayegi ya nahi, so this is didi's route. Till when Virat will wait for Sai, one day,one week, one month, one year, but she will be always showing ,and wants to show to this alone Virat, that whether Sai comes or not, she is present at the same spot always. She is ready to move the day he opens the gates for her, till how long will he ponder over Sai, kabhi na kabhi toh haar maan ni hi hai? Probably that's what is going on in her brain.

You made very good points. But now she knows he loves Sai. Regardless of her being presence he will never love her! As you said obsession has no logic!!

Yesterday only I mentioned in Janki ka post

Didi is nimbi a nimbi in 26 yrs old girl Thats it

It was Pakhi who went ahead and said yes to the 1st guy her family proposed since Virat couldn’t recognize her voice, the day she called why dint she said she was Pakhi, just coz he couldn’t recognize the voice she thought Virat was some random guy to flirt and play with the feeling of a girl,

She dint wanted to marry a guy whom she doesn’t love, for her the idea of falling for a guy was enough when she was on a trip, khud ko ddlj kay simran samajh baithi ki uska raj usse mil jayega, but being In love and waiting for the person was something that dint existed in her dictionary, I guess she was all in for the idea of meeting and falling in love but dint knew how to keep it, atleast I don’t understand this side of love it’s blank for me fake for me,

the next moment she agreed to marry a guy, I guess she took practical decision and went a head but if u were in love why dint u wait, yeh kaisa payaar hai he will call you taht zidd and if I call he won’t recognize my voice and I dint even cared to introduce myself coz in exactly 1.47 days he was supposed to be in love and recognize her voice in secs, really konsi fairy tale story hai yeh,

I had this in mind what if Samrat dint went 2nd day of marriage and Virat was in GC only, wouldn’t she would with time give a try to that marriage she would and who knows she might be pregnant by now,

Yet I am all in for the fact that her family should have given her atleast sometime to come out of this situation and shouldn’t had rushed with the marriage, then again typical family good guy good family kardo shaadi, shaadi kay baad sab payaar vayaar ho jata hai, that’s what her mom said sindoor ka rang payaar kay rang say gehra hota hai seeing Sairat, shows her ideology,

and then meeting Virat and asking him to tell his family, Kya socha tha, he will tell his family, at that point when I saw a tht episode I remembered jab we meet ka Anshuman ka dialogue it’s okay you couldn’t tell your parents anything koi baat nhi, Abhi chalte hai, aur unko sach batate hai ki geet Aditya say nhi Anshuman say payaar karti hai, sare tam jham Wahi rakhe jo jaisa chal rha hai waise hi rhe bas Aditya ki jagah Anshuman hoga, sab kush rahega, she still dint understood the situation and then and there I know this girl was delusional, and it was a truth when she dreamt that Virat is tying the mangalsutar, she is that nimbi who is hiding under a 26 yrs old girl foe whom the entire life is a fairytale and Virat is the Prince Charming who will come on white horse and take his cinderella from the paapi duniya, girl please come out of this and face reality,

for me she was an opportunist who just dint had devil horns and smile on her face, when have you been dukhi in Virat ka dukh, you just go there to instigate him against his wife like seriously, I only know one thing when you love someone you care for that person to extent that you become their well-wisher, coz u know the pain you are suffering and definitely wouldn’t want the man you claim to love to suffer, cursing Virat for not being happy and blaming that karma took the revenge shows ur character of being self centered and self love, for me Pakhi was stupid nimba but today she was mere a self centered selfish and loathing person.

I like to add something more she Pakhi said she trusted the vada I wanted to ask her which girl does that, Virat rejected her then, she herself could go and spoke to the family, or atleast Samrat, if she would have done that Samrat could have handled, but no she wanted to be aadarsh gayab ki devi where she marries the cousin so that she could stay with both, wasn’t that her intentions right from start,

now I wanna ask she went ahead and married samart based on a vada that Virat will remain celibate the entire life coming to the situation where she would have fell in love with Samrat what would she do then asked Virat to move on coz she has moved on or would have left Virat celibate even though she is happy with Samrat and would use Virat to baby sit her kids. And that love for her kaisa yeh payaar hai,

Another thing no one can force anyone to take such a big decision based on a promise from a person you don’t even know, if this girl who calls her self mature, intelligent and educated behaved like a teenage in my language nimbi and married another guy then she should have gone ahead and given a chance to marriage and not talk to her ex-lover as she thinks on her 1st night

And it’s not just sai any girl who would have come in Virat life she would have done the same thing, she fails to understand that sai indeed has saved her from humiliation a lot of time, In the odd hrs whenever she came to meet Virat or in their room, sai opposed yes one she dint liked and imply she saved Pakhi from being questioned about her interference during unusual hour of time, the 1st we saw was on the 1st night of Sairat,

this episode was eye opener for Pakhi but yet she will chose to ignore coz Virat is the toy she never got, Pakhi have described sai as

immature, but the whole time she has been behaving like one by going at the back of Virat and trying to make him feel guilty

Batameez: we have already seen how could she is, we have seen the way she behaves with sai and Virat whenever she thinks she is losing

Opportunist; madam who went to Virat and demanded special times the 2nd sai was out from the house,

Selfish and cunning: to instigate a guy against his wife and also against his mother shows who plays cunning act

Manipulative; no description needed we have ample of eg for that

Kudkarg: just because she isn’t happy she will not let other stays happy says a lot what she does,

I still remember sai’s saying jo jaise hota hai usse samne wala bhi Waisa hi nazar aata hai, we know how she is and that why she addresses sai in same language,


For me the fault of Virat was that he failed to stop Pakhi when she 1st crossed the line,

The fault of Virat was when she let Pakhi come in between and give gyan about sai and her habits

The fault of Virat he conveniently let Pakhi insult his wife by letting her address as gold digger

May be tomorrow sai will come back, and Virat might stop Pakhi in future, the doubt and insecurities which has already rooted in sai won’t go that easily

didi rocks bheja is fill with hard rocks no matter how much you hit her head the message will not go straight to her human brains🤣

she is living in her delusional world she needs a mental asylum,i am feeling bad for samrat kis pagal se shaadi karli isne🤦‍♀️🤣

Originally posted by: Mages

didi rocks bheja is fill with hard rocks no matter how much you hit her head the message will not go straight to her human brains🤣

she is living in her delusional world she needs a mental asylum,i am feeling bad for samrat kis pagal se shaadi karli isne🤦‍♀️🤣

She is nimbi her new name

Besides the obsession with Virat, What she has now is ego problem. Her ego has been hurt thinking how can he loves Sai, how can he gives her place in his heart, and a competition with Sai that who will win Virat

Originally posted by: maahi11

Yesterday only I mentioned in Janki ka post

Didi is nimbi a nimbi in 26 yrs old girl Thats it

It was Pakhi who went ahead and said yes to the 1st guy her family proposed since Virat couldn’t recognize her voice, the day she called why dint she said she was Pakhi, just coz he couldn’t recognize the voice she thought Virat was some random guy to flirt and play with the feeling of a girl,

She dint wanted to marry a guy whom she doesn’t love, for her the idea of falling for a guy was enough when she was on a trip, khud ko ddlj kay simran samajh baithi ki uska raj usse mil jayega, but being In love and waiting for the person was something that dint existed in her dictionary, I guess she was all in for the idea of meeting and falling in love but dint knew how to keep it, atleast I don’t understand this side of love it’s blank for me fake for me,

the next moment she agreed to marry a guy, I guess she took practical decision and went a head but if u were in love why dint u wait, yeh kaisa payaar hai he will call you taht zidd and if I call he won’t recognize my voice and I dint even cared to introduce myself coz in exactly 1.47 days he was supposed to be in love and recognize her voice in secs, really konsi fairy tale story hai yeh,

I had this in mind what if Samrat dint went 2nd day of marriage and Virat was in GC only, wouldn’t she would with time give a try to that marriage she would and who knows she might be pregnant by now,

Yet I am all in for the fact that her family should have given her atleast sometime to come out of this situation and shouldn’t had rushed with the marriage, then again typical family good guy good family kardo shaadi, shaadi kay baad sab payaar vayaar ho jata hai, that’s what her mom said sindoor ka rang payaar kay rang say gehra hota hai seeing Sairat, shows her ideology,

and then meeting Virat and asking him to tell his family, Kya socha tha, he will tell his family, at that point when I saw a tht episode I remembered jab we meet ka Anshuman ka dialogue it’s okay you couldn’t tell your parents anything koi baat nhi, Abhi chalte hai, aur unko sach batate hai ki geet Aditya say nhi Anshuman say payaar karti hai, sare tam jham Wahi rakhe jo jaisa chal rha hai waise hi rhe bas Aditya ki jagah Anshuman hoga, sab kush rahega, she still dint understood the situation and then and there I know this girl was delusional, and it was a truth when she dreamt that Virat is tying the mangalsutar, she is that nimbi who is hiding under a 26 yrs old girl foe whom the entire life is a fairytale and Virat is the Prince Charming who will come on white horse and take his cinderella from the paapi duniya, girl please come out of this and face reality,

for me she was an opportunist who just dint had devil horns and smile on her face, when have you been dukhi in Virat ka dukh, you just go there to instigate him against his wife like seriously, I only know one thing when you love someone you care for that person to extent that you become their well-wisher, coz u know the pain you are suffering and definitely wouldn’t want the man you claim to love to suffer, cursing Virat for not being happy and blaming that karma took the revenge shows ur character of being self centered and self love, for me Pakhi was stupid nimba but today she was mere a self centered selfish and loathing person.

I like to add something more she Pakhi said she trusted the vada I wanted to ask her which girl does that, Virat rejected her then, she herself could go and spoke to the family, or atleast Samrat, if she would have done that Samrat could have handled, but no she wanted to be aadarsh gayab ki devi where she marries the cousin so that she could stay with both, wasn’t that her intentions right from start,

now I wanna ask she went ahead and married samart based on a vada that Virat will remain celibate the entire life coming to the situation where she would have fell in love with Samrat what would she do then asked Virat to move on coz she has moved on or would have left Virat celibate even though she is happy with Samrat and would use Virat to baby sit her kids. And that love for her kaisa yeh payaar hai,

Another thing no one can force anyone to take such a big decision based on a promise from a person you don’t even know, if this girl who calls her self mature, intelligent and educated behaved like a teenage in my language nimbi and married another guy then she should have gone ahead and given a chance to marriage and not talk to her ex-lover as she thinks on her 1st night

And it’s not just sai any girl who would have come in Virat life she would have done the same thing, she fails to understand that sai indeed has saved her from humiliation a lot of time, In the odd hrs whenever she came to meet Virat or in their room, sai opposed yes one she dint liked and imply she saved Pakhi from being questioned about her interference during unusual hour of time, the 1st we saw was on the 1st night of Sairat,

this episode was eye opener for Pakhi but yet she will chose to ignore coz Virat is the toy she never got, Pakhi have described sai as

immature, but the whole time she has been behaving like one by going at the back of Virat and trying to make him feel guilty

Batameez: we have already seen how could she is, we have seen the way she behaves with sai and Virat whenever she thinks she is losing

Opportunist; madam who went to Virat and demanded special times the 2nd sai was out from the house,

Selfish and cunning: to instigate a guy against his wife and also against his mother shows who plays cunning act

Manipulative; no description needed we have ample of eg for that

Kudkarg: just because she isn’t happy she will not let other stays happy says a lot what she does,

I still remember sai’s saying jo jaise hota hai usse samne wala bhi Waisa hi nazar aata hai, we know how she is and that why she addresses sai in same language,


For me the fault of Virat was that he failed to stop Pakhi when she 1st crossed the line,

The fault of Virat was when she let Pakhi come in between and give gyan about sai and her habits

The fault of Virat he conveniently let Pakhi insult his wife by letting her address as gold digger

May be tomorrow sai will come back, and Virat might stop Pakhi in future, the doubt and insecurities which has already rooted in sai won’t go that easily

Maahi, you gave detailed analysis on didi. Goodness, the character is darker than dark.

I loved the references of DDLJ, Jab we met etc . They made perfect sense

I wish Virat had dialogues in yesterday's episode where he could reply back to her taunts and shut her for once, but I am happy with "Meri patni se tulna" , "koi bhi aurat" and "boj"

Originally posted by: Mages

didi rocks bheja is fill with hard rocks no matter how much you hit her head the message will not go straight to her human brains🤣

she is living in her delusional world she needs a mental asylum,i am feeling bad for samrat kis pagal se shaadi karli isne🤦‍♀️🤣

I truly, hope they show her being sent to her parents and them getting her treated. I hope they show Virat coming out about what she has been expecting from him and how it is unhealthy for her and for others in the family, so she needs to get out of the house and live with her parents and get treated for her madness.

Originally posted by: methebest

Maahi, you gave detailed analysis on didi. Goodness, the character is darker than dark.

I loved the references of DDLJ, Jab we met etc . They made perfect sense

I wish Virat had dialogues in yesterday's episode where he could reply back to her taunts and shut her for once, but I am happy with "Meri patni se tulna" , "koi bhi aurat" and "boj"

She is that I am telling u she is Nimbi