Does anybody in this forum feel sorry for Shaurya? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Pighalta_Bhoot

@bold that is true for every forum where you have 90% of members female. Ek asu of ML will bring sailaab aur jahe FL bahaye ganga jamuna, koi farak nahi penda.

I believe oGhum is the only show where I see more folks support FL over ML. It can be because of tracks, offscreen lafda

About the episode today, there were still ways where professor sahab could have handled the situation better than he did.

I really don't understand this logic, Anokhi has so and so but apne professor sahab has none. Pain is pain just because she has support, his pain need more sympathy. I am sure given the treatment here and by CVs her pain would be glossed over and we can see more destructive tamasha from professor sahab

Instead of doing the accident drama, he could just gone back to his family explained to all bagaad billas he wont marry miss Cambridge reject (Ye cambridge hai ya halva)

Haanji aap ne toh post ko bina dhang se padhe hi apne assumptions aur judgement thop diye 😛 I wrote why we should not be too harsh on Shaurya just for what happened in today's episode, I didn't speak up for him in the past or whatever he did... Par jahan jaayaz baat h wahan bolna padta h... Pura lamba chauda comment likh daala dher sare ki how I have always been a supporter of Anokhi's actions, and never had any liking for Shaurya even when he tried to be likeable in many occasions... Especially at scenes, where he's really good to Anokhi... Aur aap h ki female fan obsession ki baat karti ho bematlab ka jab maamla kuch aur hi h 🤔

Originally posted by: Pighalta_Bhoot

@bold that is true for every forum where you have 90% of members female. Ek asu of ML will bring sailaab aur jahe FL bahaye ganga jamuna, koi farak nahi penda.

I believe only Ghum is the only show where I see folks support FL over ML. It can be because of tracks, offscreen lafda

About the episode today, there were still ways where professor sahab could have handled the situation better than he did.

I really don't understand this logic, Anokhi has so and so but apne professor sahab has none. Pain is pain just because she has support, his pain need more sympathy. I am sure given the treatment here and by CVs her pain would be glossed over and we can see more destructive tamasha from professor sahab

Instead of doing the accident drama, he could just gone back to his family explained to all bagaad billas he wont marry miss Cambridge reject (Ye cambridge hai ya halva)

Bold true🤣as fangirls are attracted towards the male lead they mostly ignore his mistakes I have seen very cheap comments like mard ka pyaar aaisa hi hota hai to defend the wrong of the ML and all that shit from the fangirls🤢 (not in this forum)

This forum also criticises the male lead as of Shaurya today I think he will slowly come out from the clutches of Badi maa and will take the stand of Anokhi ...if he would have taken her stand today infront of everyone how the show makers will show the drama in future episodes😆just to add more spice in upcoming episodes they have not shown Shaurya taking Anokhi stand infront of everyone😉now slowly slowly Shaurya will understand every game of Badi maa and Astha maa and Shaan papa will also help him so it will be interesting⭐️

Originally posted by: butterturnips

Haanji aap ne toh post ko bina dhang se padhe hi apne assumptions aur judgement thop diye 😛 I wrote why we should not be too harsh on Shaurya just for what happened in today's episode, I didn't speak up for him in the past or whatever he did... Par jahan jaayaz baat h wahan bolna padta h... Pura lamba chauda comment likh daala dher sare ki how I have always been a supporter of Anokhi's actions, and never had any liking for Shaurya even when he tried to be likeable in many occasions... Especially at scenes, where he's really good to Anokhi... Aur aap h ki female fan obsession ki baat karti ho bematlab ka jab maamla kuch aur hi h 🤔

@bold I read your post

This was not directed to you in general. Apologies if you felt that way. I was speaking more in lines with the poster above. Pain should not be compared. Har kiska pain ek jaise nahi hota aur nahi hi uske process karne ka. You can have long list of supporters yet that wont help with your pain. Thats all

I actually appreciate how you put forth your points

Originally posted by: Pighalta_Bhoot

@bold I read your post

This was not directed to you in general. Apologies if you felt that way. I was speaking more in lines with the poster above. Pain should not be compared. Har kiska pain ek jaise nahi hota aur nahi hi uske process karne ka. You can have long list of supporters yet that wont help with your pain. Thats all

I actually appreciate how you put forth your points

I am sorry as well if I went a bit hard on you with my reply ... No there's no comparison when two people are suffering in a relationship, I can also feel for Anokhi but at the moment she has right people beside her to save her, and similarly Shaurya needs someone too ... Hopefully Aastha will understand😊

Me me me! Maine to adopt hi le liya hei shaurya ko!

The way he always have this mummy issue...bechara maa ke pyaar ka peyasa to maine adopt le li. Now I'm the momma of SS.

Jokes apart! As a viewer even i got more attached towards shaurya's character...that character has all the flaws. feels so real. Shaurya has gone through a lot! He even said it today that 30 saal mei pehli bar usko sacchi khushi mili! Can you imagine that! Bande ne jindegi bhar devi ki chudail panti ke niche dabke bitaya hei. Baap maa ki galti ka bharpayi isne diya 🤧😭 No matter how much they show astha and shaan in good light now or show that they have their reasons i will still and always blame them for what they did to that lil boy! Mainly shaan...astha ko to nikal diya...agar shaan majnu banke nashe mei na duba rehta to shayed devi ki gandi harkato se shaurya thora bachpata. Shaurya ke paas saab hei...family money and all. But still kuch nahi hei. Itna bara family kanchan ki sibaye abhi tak kisine ek drop bhi uske liye...uske khushi ke liye nahi socha kabhi bhi. Not even those eveil sisters.

While coming to anokhi's character....anokhi seems to change with every dynamics. Matlab aaj pura chui mui to kaal ekdaam se tough tough. Look how maturely she handled today's situation infront of the sabherwals. Then look at yesterday she was all cheering person like a teenager should be. So i guess makers keep changing her character dynamics with situation to make it look like ki abhi abhi to umar bar rahi hei to umar ki saath situation dekh ke sambhal ti hei anokhi apni apko.

Main baat ye hei ki...I'm always ready and standing with a jhanda to defense my beta at any cost any time and in any situation. Ek maa ke liye humesha apna baccha pehle ata hei...and shaurya is my baccha 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Loved your post. Yes most serials talk about a woman's feelings. But in this serial it is Shaurya who is lonely, broken and miserable. Just when he thought he finally found love, she doesn't trust him. In love trust is the most important element no matter what happens around you. No matter how many hurdles. Anokhi'sylack of trust is the reason of her heartbreak end Shaurya's pain.

Thank you so much for this post.

Most of what I have wanted to say has already been said so beautifully by you and many others in the forum.

Before putting across my point, I would like to say that I am a woman, and I have a problem with most of the male leads of ITV. Shaurya is the first male lead whom I support equally as I do Anokhi. So, I do find it a little offensive when someone says that being a female makes me automatically biased towards male leads pain.

Just because we are emphasizing, highlighting and relating to the pain Shaurya is going through, it doesn’t mean in anyway that we don’t see Anokhi’s pain and heart break and relate to it. Nor are we belittling it.

The Op’s main point was - for once, instead of bashing Shaurya for Anokhi’s heart break, can we please try to understand the pain he is going through as well.

Yes, just because Anokhi has someone to share her pain & heart break with and to care for her doesn’t mean her pain is any less than Shaurya.

But, not having anyone to understand his pain and give him even a basic moral support in anyway is also equally worse if not more. N What has age got to do with pain? Being 29/30 doesn’t hurt less, only difference he has learnt to bury his pain and mask his hurt time and again and uses the facade of anger instead when his insecurities are triggered.

Abandonment, loneliness, insecurities, feeling of estrangement and not being enough have been his constant companions along with pain.
Imagine being told from the time you had your senses that your mother didn’t want you, your father was too selfish to be bothered with you, I am the one who took pity on you and gave everything to you. Imagine being told you are indebted to someone for everything you are every single day. And that you need to prove your loyalty time and again to show your gratitude.

How much of a havoc it would create on one’s mind and heart. Despite that, today he stood up to the one woman who has had complete control over him all this time. More than his pain, he wanted to make sure Anokhi was ok.

Both Anokhi and Shaurya are very strong people. Both have gone through childhood trauma and have been betrayed by people they called family. Yet they still managed to find their paths in life despite all that. N most importantly, both of them managed to find the courage to give a chance to love despite coming from a broken family and a broken childhood.

Take it from someone who has had both, it’s not easy to find the courage to let love into your life with all the insecurities that hammer you all the time.

But here they both did. And no matter how strong you are, you need someone to lean on in life. Not to lessen your pain, but to share it.

I equally feel for both of them, but I don’t blame Shaurya for Anokhi’s heart break. That’s all!

Originally posted by: butterturnips

I've been constantly reading comments and updates on the episodes, and I have noticed how you guys have always been so supportive of Anokhi while bringing down Shaurya's character in almost all the discussion threads. I supposed that people after watching today's episode would feel worse for Shaurya than for Anokhi, but I still see you guys not empathising to Shaurya's situation as much as you did for Anokhi.

(P.S - I don't want to offend anyone, but it's just that I feel that you guys should also invest some time in analyzing Shaurya's situation. He is the one who is completely alone in this. Anokhi has everybody around to support her, but Shaurya ... He has no one to listen to, and I can relate to him more as a person, because I know how it feels to be abandoned by your most loved ones since childhood, I mean he is the way he is today because of the stuff he has experienced since childhood. I still get Anokhi that she isn't aware of his story, how he was left by his mom and then raised and emotionally blackmailed by his BM. But you guys know this, and yet you are so judgemental. Please spare him this time. 😂 That's all 🥺)

Sending you a biig bear hug , love.🤗 ❤️ Know that we all love you here.🤗🤗

And thank you so much for bringing this up! I think it’s interesting to see how each of us view him , probably based on our own life experiences. Shaurya is probably one of the most layered characters I’ve come across. He his strong, kind, level-headed and not at all afraid to be vulnerable. He is so sincere and pure in his love for Anokhi, it was heart wrenching to see him break yesterday.

At the same time he is also temperamental and angry. I think people are conflicted because of this. They want to see him battle his own demons and realize the gravity of his actions. They empathize with him when he’s right, but yearn for him to do better when he’s wrong. He’s already made such tremendous progress in this regard after falling for Anokhi.

As for me, I love both the characters dearly! There is beautiful symbiotic relationship between these two, that is honest and pure. They need each other to thrive and live their lives to the fullest!❤️

Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

just like I said for Anokhi.. and here too.. no one here needs Sympathy or any Pity.. both the leads are strong characters.. with their strongest traits hidden inside they just need the right person to make them realize they have that power... and i am sure today's incident will make shaurya learn to stand for his ground more.

but then Sympathy came back.. when i saw Anokhi being thrown out and door slammed on her.. its like history repeating itself.. just like how Astha was forced to stay away from shaurya Anokhi is also. but i am sure this time it wont work.

To the @TM

I just wanted to call out, I don't think you or any of us should be worried or scared to post anything on IF... It's a public forum... Either people would agree or disagree with the post 😛 and no one should be demeaned for their opinion... As long as we follow the IF guidelines...

I might not 100% agree whom to sympathize with the post and I share opinion similar to tellyaddict..

I have been kind of low on emotions anyway when it comes television characters over past few years.. But I am unable to sympathize with Anokhi or Shaurya! Two major reasons for it - first as mentioned earlier... Two of them are strong ones and they handled it pretty courageously... Anokhi confronted Shaurya, and Shaurya confronted Devil.. That's kind of proof that they aren't going to sit there and cry... But face their fears... I am happy that Shaurya did not warm up to Devi's tears (not sure if they were real or just fake ones.... Nor will I decode it)... He told her that he is tired of 'proving' his respect to her... Good thing is that based on Anokhi's dialogues today, Anokhi isn't doubting his feelings today as manipulative revenge (🤪 last week.. She was given kuch bhi dialogues) ... She was disheartened by his silence... I am going to take that as a progress...

Second, my personal opinion (which is bound to be criticised as being over analytic.. But fine) is that both of them have kind of been avoiding realities and staying in their own bubble... They haven't been talking about key aspects put forth by Anokhi during angry confession ... It had to come crashing down someday... Sooner the better! And this is probably the time when they can actually talk and sort out differences their own insecurities and come out stronger... I am so happy Anokhi did bring it up again today that's exactly what she was saying other day...

Overall the episode was 👏

Originally posted by: Pighalta_Bhoot

Instead of doing the accident drama, he could just gone back to his family explained to all bagaad billas he wont marry miss Cambridge reject (Ye cambridge hai ya halva)

I am curious here... Do you think he is doing accident drama here to get a visit from Anokhi ? 😆 i was thinking he is seriously driving aimlessly and getting into accident?