Galtiyon ko yaad rakh ke parivaar nahi chalta - Page 2

Nice post.👍🏼

I completely agree that Malini is only presuming the mistakes, something that has deviated from something beautiful to perceive & feel, which is loving & respecting others. Even loving herself is like saath samundar par for her because she is witnessing herself as the darkness, so she doesn't love neither herself nor others concurrently. Like you mentioned, the P of pyaar or parivaar is quite faraway from her perspective.

Originally posted by: Myrah_2020

Nice post.👍🏼

I completely agree that Malini is only presuming the mistakes, something that has deviated from something beautiful to perceive & feel, which is loving & respecting others. Even loving herself is like saath samundar par for her because she is witnessing herself as the darkness, so she doesn't love neither herself nor others concurrently. Like you mentioned, the P of pyaar or parivaar is quite faraway from her perspective.

I am not sure I agree with the bold caz her whole personality is about main Main main.. and for that one has to love themselves enough. This woman has been anything but self centered and self absorbed so all I am darkness and all is self pity and not self loathing. She is too darn deep in it to laothe herself lol.. so pyaar ka P bas apne tak hi pata hai 😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I am not sure I agree with the bold caz her whole personality is about main Main main.. and for that one has to love themselves enough. This woman has been anything but self centered and self absorbed so all I am darkness and all is self pity and not self loathing. She is too darn deep in it to laothe herself lol.. so pyaar ka P bas apne tak hi pata hai 😆

Originally posted by: Myrah_2020

I feel she has doubts about herself to be honest more than love thus trying to compare herself like with the whole light vs dark theory & whatnot...thats why I thought the person who doubts herself & tries to compare herself with others like "the one to give more efforts in a 7 yr relationship" (thus comparing herself w/ aditya) & who brings sunshine in aditya's life (thus comparing w/ imlie) ...comparison should be healthy but not at the expense of hurting oneself & others...toh Jahan itna in depth comparison what pyaar ke liye there's no place to fit in...

i see what you are saying but i think it comes mroe from Insecurity ke hai mere alawas kisi aur ko kyon tareef kar di how can someone look beyond me.. yes she has thsi imeense insecurity too but it is more from Damn i am the Princess and only I deserve all that so her first thought is wait does this mean am darkness how come someone else was prasied above me and for once am not center of attention she has attention seeking Insecurities and That ke if someone behaves normally to others means they think lesser of ehr.. has been a prominent graph 😆 she just ahs to ghumao all the attention towards eherself does't matter kis aur ko mil rahi hai... 😆

"Galtiyon ko bhul jao aur pyaar ko yaad rakho" is the mantra by which Adi-Imlie relationship has flourished.

If Imlie would have only kept remembering Adi's mistakes against her, she would never have fallen for him. Instead she remembers all his moments of kindness, support & trust. Similarly even Adi though used to berate her constantly for her mistakes like that ped pe chad ke shehad nikalna or getting kidnapped by traffickers, he also remembers her moments of kindness towards him & his family, her support in crisis & trust. Hence they have been able to pass through the tough post forced marriage scenario, actually get to know each other and fall in love with each other.

In contast Dementor Didi forgets all the 100 things that Adi has done for her but remembers the one time he did not indulge her. She keeps saying she is fine when she actually keeps on holding grudges against him & as soon as she gets an opportunity she defames Adi in front of everyone for that one time. That is why their relationship has continued to deteriorate.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

"Galtiyon ko bhul jao aur pyaar ko yaad rakho" is the mantra by which Adi-Imlie relationship has flourished.

If Imlie would have only kept remembering Adi's mistakes against her, she would never have fallen for him. Instead she remembers all his moments of kindness, support & trust. Similarly even Adi though used to berate her constantly for her mistakes like that ped pe chad ke shehad nikalna or getting kidnapped by traffickers, he also remembers her moments of kindness towards him & his family, her support in crisis & trust. Hence they have been able to pass through the tough post forced marriage scenario, actually get to know each other and fall in love with each other.

In contast Dementor Didi forgets all the 100 things that Adi has done for her but remembers the one time he did not indulge her. She keeps saying she is fine when she actually keeps on holding grudges against him & as soon as she gets an opportunity she defames Adi in front of everyone for that one time. That is why their relationship has continued to deteriorate.

Exactly!! they have accepted the mistakes as parts of Human nature and looked Beyond them Caz nobody is perfect and they are under no delusion that the other is perfect they accept each other for what they are which all their faults and mistakes and Imperfections hence they have Only been going Up and up and their relationship is surviving and thriving.. as Aparna would say.. Kundan ho rahe hain hahah

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I get it she has everything on platter.. I guess my problem is exactly that the thanklessness and just no consideration and no taking onus and the queen behavior 😆 and not one person not one person pointing out her faults..

Anyway this was more like my weekend musing the dialogue just felt so appropriate for the current situation and why malini didi is failing hence made a random post 😆

I agree one can't just survive any relationship based on grudges alone it is only zehar than and better to quit and break off but alas didi ko yeh kaun samjhaye..

Jab uske khud ke gharwale uske khaamiyon ko nahin dekhte, yeh toh phir bhi Ts hain. Forever wallowing in an inferiority complex where the Chaturvedis are concerned. The only one who can potentially say anything now is Rupali.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Jab uske khud ke gharwale uske khaamiyon ko nahin dekhte, yeh toh phir bhi Ts hain. Forever wallowing in an inferiority complex where the Chaturvedis are concerned. The only one who can potentially say anything now is Rupali.

I am not hoping from rupi much too she doesn't have the spine to say anything to her Highness Malini too.. woh Queen Victoria ki chahiti hain.. lol

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I am not hoping from rupi much too she doesn't have the spine to say anything to her Highness Malini too.. woh Queen Victoria ki chahiti hain.. lol

Lol. Isiliye kaha potentially. Koi kahega nahin kuch abhi. Especially if she does what we think she does.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

i see what you are saying but i think it comes mroe from Insecurity ke hai mere alawas kisi aur ko kyon tareef kar di how can someone look beyond me.. yes she has thsi imeense insecurity too but it is more from Damn i am the Princess and only I deserve all that so her first thought is wait does this mean am darkness how come someone else was prasied above me and for once am not center of attention she has attention seeking Insecurities and That ke if someone behaves normally to others means they think lesser of ehr.. has been a prominent graph 😆 she just ahs to ghumao all the attention towards eherself does't matter kis aur ko mil rahi hai... 😆