Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 17

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

I too am relieved to an extent Faja we thought Ani would be completely whitewashed that dint happen thankfully. At least he acknowledged and admitted some of his mistakes.Yes but makers had to show that they are not completely wrong hence Bon admitting and apologising for her mistakes.

Haan makers be like kuch galtiya hum rakhenge kuch tum rakhlo 🤔

Uska pta nahi lekin marriage revelation and bon ko is tarah guilty and ani ko victim banaana and his love story start karna I can’t forget at all becuase ani ke man sr nahi kiya toh kya bon ki marzi thi , why that’s EA people and ani and everyone does not consider bon growing age ya aurat object hoti thi us age

He was saying our relation can’t be like of other typical pati patni tell me ,those Girls who advised bon did they even know feeling of love ,they were conditioned love ur husband , one of reading of child marriage was girls married early ,becoming mothers so that they never in their youthful age fall in love with someone and just live their lives for Prerna where men were humans ,they can fall in love ,are humans like they defined for ani

Aur bui log child amrriage karte the ,apni wives sr aise bhi honge pyaar nahi akrte honge out of human emotions second amrriage kar li ,first Wife in a young age saw her husband spending live moments with another woman and being jealous agar aur couples ki baat karoon us time pe , so ani ko us time dikhaana ki he married a child he married a wonderful soul guys his ko khud marzi nahi thi wedding mein

Our bon is pure hearted ki she forgave ani ,else for public humiliation and emotional abuse he can’t be forgiven which his souls told ki damage Ian irreparable though bon said it was her mistake but now she does not show rights on him

Our bon was too gullible and innocent that she did not see other marriages,when she was in village she knew reality and respects and knows ani is like others and they have unique bond but when that unique bond was termed as bojh to her in brutal way ,she started losing herself and kaka and society pressured her to become best patni

I can’t forgive unless marriage revelation truth ki baat nahi dikhaate I just want that only

be in their devotion but our bon did not want to be doormat she felt insecure as she thought ani did so much for her as. A husband ,I have to keep him happy too she saw him risking his life his mental peace for her

Could she be happy after this

Also ani and suamti talked bon was expecting husband wife relation ,Sumati did not tell her consider husband as god even before she met ani ,did not she tell keep sasural above you which bon always remembered whenever she felt she had to do soemthing

Also bon risked her life due to insecurity and wan tree d her relation strong which was very wrong and very risky but she never became slave wife to ani as she considers ani as emotional support ,her faith ,her trust and her apna which she is realising that is why when Mano said u have got ani who gives u world to live upon,she realised whatever ani did was not societal definition but just care he gave not her rights

So bon ka is track mein self esteem nahi gya she was sacred of losing that person who gave her wings,saved her life who is her everything and gave bon direction and love which she required

We can’t forget bon letter at starting ,her determination and her perseverance

Originally posted by: PRIME1

+ 100000

Agar makers ko AniDita ka future main scoop rakhna hai to ani mano ka incomplete shadi ka sach dikhana hi hoga. Jab tak ani.ke sar se ye cheez nahin hatti wo kabhi pehle wala ARC nahin bansakta.

Waise sindoor ka scene kyun nahin dikhaya even in that bashi biyah rasam also❓

Sindoor isiliye nahi dikhaya - kyunki ek, Bon ne sindoor ki thaali fek di which is not a convincing reason, second. that would go overboard (even though that taking pheras in front of Bon was overboard too), and third, which is why I still have a hope, is because they might show some flashback.

Maybe there is hope cause there is a BTS picture of Bon and Jaydeep where Bon is having a different set of earrings and bangles (I know not much of a reason but still) and Jaydeep is wearing a blue kurta and ye picture shaadi ki shooting ke time hi release ki thi Jaydeep ne apne IG pe. That look of them never came in the wedding episode so maybe we can expect a flashback.

That second marriage thing is more important or else the show would always have the "daag" of polygamy. I can't see BB which I have thought to be a progressive show and different form the lot bear this polygamy discredit. I hope to see it's end.

Also Kaka not rebuking Ani on the rituals in today's episode - maybe after Bon fell unconscious everyone ran towards her and was busy caring for her when Ani-Mano just pretended to be married and came in front of them. There is a scope for this. I hope they utilize it to the maximum. Yahi post dekhle makers aur aisa hi kuch likh de 😭That second shaadi is too much to take

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

I don’t think Indu they are going to show anything about Ani Mano marriage any more. Ani explicitly told kaka that both of us married for our own reasons and kaka passed it off as Ani’s fitoor. It’s a closed chapter from today at least that is how I felt. It was like all’s well that ends well. Both Ani and Bon seeking forgiveness from one another and letting the bygones be. Makers have conveniently swept 🧹 things under the carpet at least for the time being.

Haan mujhe lag raha hai they have swept it away. But the polygamy thing for a show like BB is hard to digest. That is why dil ke kone mei ek hope hai ke iska end dikha de bass 😭

Originally posted by: aastha12345

Hello I've been a silent reader since long and want to clear some things with you, reading all the discussions I make out maximum feel disconnected with rudhita or more specifically anirudh, but why??

Yes he made a grave mistake by the second fake marriage thing but now he realizes his blunder in fact yesterday his alter ego depiction was so fine!

Now I don't say ani should be forgiven so soon just because he regrets and did situps (not alone but with bon), but is his character really butchered beyond redemption?

Why is it that during hm track when he made a bigger mistake by ousting a little girl out from the house everyone forgave him immediately when he seeked forgiveness but now everyone is like, no this is beyond all this

Is it because of his attraction towards manorama??

But members here themselves say na ki noone wants a romantic bond between anidita, so obviously his place for bondu is different in heart, which has nothing to do with mano attraction, coz mano attraction was romantically driven, but rudhita is pure bond

Yes he made a mistake which requires a long redemption, but is his character butchered beyond redemption??

Many had thought that maybe now Anirudh has finally redeemed and suddenly this track comes. People have a limit to such nonsensical tracks. Its just this added more annoyance resulting to intenser repulsion

Manorama and Anirudh's one-sided love if was executed well then would have been recieved well by majority.

But it wasnt. Instead he was whitewashed to show that he's doing it for Bondita? What??

No he wasnt doing it for Bondita. It was just to help someone he did it and so that he doesnt feel guilty he terms it to be for Bondita

No matter what even audience have a limit. And surely after so many things the character is butchered beyond redemption

Because stone which is hammered to break into pieces doesnt break only due to the last hammering

Its because of all the hammering

Originally posted by: aastha12345

Hello I've been a silent reader since long and want to clear some things with you, reading all the discussions I make out maximum feel disconnected with rudhita or more specifically anirudh, but why??

Yes he made a grave mistake by the second fake marriage thing but now he realizes his blunder in fact yesterday his alter ego depiction was so fine!

Now I don't say ani should be forgiven so soon just because he regrets and did situps (not alone but with bon), but is his character really butchered beyond redemption?

Why is it that during hm track when he made a bigger mistake by ousting a little girl out from the house everyone forgave him immediately when he seeked forgiveness but now everyone is like, no this is beyond all this

Is it because of his attraction towards manorama??

But members here themselves say na ki noone wants a romantic bond between anidita, so obviously his place for bondu is different in heart, which has nothing to do with mano attraction, coz mano attraction was romantically driven, but rudhita is pure bond

Yes he made a mistake which requires a long redemption, but is his character butchered beyond redemption??

Hi Aastha well it’s not a very easy question to answer as we ourselves are not very clear on this at the moment. But to answer your question about Ani’s character being butchered beyond redemption I would say NO as quite a few of us did like yesterday’s episode. We are very angry with him we don’t hate him. It will definitely take some more time. Actually the problem with most of us is that we held Anirudh in such high esteem that he marrying for the second ( indulging in polygamy) time was a blow to our image of him being the righteous Anirudh that we all know. Shadi was asli Aastha just because he says it’s nakli doesn’t make it so since it happened with all the rituals in front of everyone. Makers are calling it nakli because of the backlash.

Now coming to the HM track and why was Anirudh forgiven instantly that was because the relationship still lacked trust and understanding at that point in time. Also Bon somewhere down the line was wrong because she was fooling Anirudh reason being Sampoorna. And most importantly Anirudh nearly lost his life in his attempt to save Bon.

Now if we are angry with Anirudh because of his attraction towards Manorama to be honest attraction can happen to anyone anytime in life but how we deal with it is the question. Anirudh got attracted and straightaway declared her to be the love of his lifetime. How is that even possible in 2 meetings? He explaining the Doha to Bon while thinking about Mano? No matter what he thinks about his relation with her the fact of the matter is he is married to her. So isn’t it wrong? This is the same Anirudh who gave up on Mini his childhood love because he was married to Bon.

Then what really blew our tops off was the public humiliation of Bon. It was not meant to be that way. She was insulted in front of an entire gathering? The things he said were extremely mean not expected of him specially after the Munshi track. If he did have a problem with the celebrations he could have just refused to be a part of it or explained things to her privately.

Yes we do not want to see any romance between them now because Bon is a kid but the fact of the matter is that she is his wife and one day she will grow up. Bon strictly believes in him being her patibabu so Ani falling for another woman is actually cheating because fortunately or unfortunately he is married to her. Right now Ani falling for someone else when Bon doesn’t quite have a clear idea about such relationships is not the best thing. Once she grows up and has understanding of romantic relations both can decide and choose their paths accordingly.
Why do we feel disconnected with Rudhita is because we were made to believe that it is Rudhita at the end. “Apne patibabu ki Bondita” “Bondita meri patni hai” these lines were spoken by Anirudh. We were lead in this direction if makers never wanted Rudhita to be end game we too would have never expected anything apart from a mentor mentee relation. But the sudden turn of events just came as a shock for us.
At the end all I can is it was a badly etched plot. That benefitted none.

Originally posted by: Indira12

Haan makers be like kuch galtiya hum rakhenge kuch tum rakhlo 🤔

Aadha Tera aadha mera serial hum banaye... Trp tummmm dooo😜

Originally posted by: listmist

par anirudh ko realize hua kaise aur kyu all of sudden???😆

Anirudh was always shown like this only right, almost at every track he did all the possible damagae and realization at the end.

Anirudh expected Bon can be send away keeping his marriage to Mano a reality to her, only focus was on her to be brought to track. He was focused on his pain on distancing her, which he will bear .May be kaka probed him to think of her pain on distancing from him, .That reality that Ani has pushed away Bon, strike him..Now all the reality of marriage revelation to polygamy is in front of her as just the means to take her back out from pati-patni rishta. Anirudh is not aware of Mano letter too...And the whole shock of blast and how his decision in fitoor could have damaged everythin.

He always needed an external interfernce to clear his messed up mind. Be it Rasia or kaka. Kaka always pointed him in his fitoor is he over expecting or pressurizing or traumatizing the child

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

Hi Aastha well it’s not a very easy question to answer as we ourselves are not very clear on this at the moment. But to answer your question about Ani’s character being butchered beyond redemption I would say NO as quite a few of us did like yesterday’s episode. We are very angry with him we don’t hate him. It will definitely take some more time. Actually the problem with most of us is that we held Anirudh in such high esteem that he marrying for the second ( indulging in polygamy) time was a blow to our image of him being the righteous Anirudh that we all know. Shadi was asli Aastha just because he says it’s nakli doesn’t make it so since it happened with all the rituals in front of everyone. Makers are calling it nakli because of the backlash.

Now coming to the HM track and why was Anirudh forgiven instantly that was because the relationship still lacked trust and understanding at that point in time. Also Bon somewhere down the line was wrong because she was fooling Anirudh reason being Sampoorna. And most importantly Anirudh nearly lost his life in his attempt to save Bon.

Now if we are angry with Anirudh because of his attraction towards Manorama to be honest attraction can happen to anyone anytime in life but how we deal with it is the question. Anirudh got attracted and straightaway declared her to be the love of his lifetime. How is that even possible in 2 meetings? He explaining the Doha to Bon while thinking about Mano? No matter what he thinks about his relation with her the fact of the matter is he is married to her. So isn’t it wrong? This is the same Anirudh who gave up on Mini his childhood love because he was married to Bon.

Then what really blew our tops off was the public humiliation of Bon. It was not meant to be that way. She was insulted in front of an entire gathering? The things he said were extremely mean not expected of him specially after the Munshi track. If he did have a problem with the celebrations he could have just refused to be a part of it or explained things to her privately.

Yes we do not want to see any romance between them now because Bon is a kid but the fact of the matter is that she is his wife and one day she will grow up. Bon strictly believes in him being her patibabu so Ani falling for another woman is actually cheating because fortunately or unfortunately he is married to her. Right now Ani falling for someone else when Bon doesn’t quite have a clear idea about such relationships is not the best thing. Once she grows up and has understanding of romantic relations both can decide and choose their paths accordingly.
Why do we feel disconnected with Rudhita is because we were made to believe that it is Rudhita at the end. “Apne patibabu ki Bondita” “Bondita meri patni hai” these lines were spoken by Anirudh. We were lead in this direction if makers never wanted Rudhita to be end game we too would have never expected anything apart from a mentor mentee relation. But the sudden turn of events just came as a shock for us.
At the end all I can is it was a badly etched plot. That benefitted none.

wow Sabah..just ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

Nearly everything which I wanted to say too

Originally posted by: faja

wow Sabah..just ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

Nearly everything which I wanted to say too

Thank you Faja 😍❤️