Originally posted by: rivaanvira
Sabka waqt aata hai .. us pal we say 'why me?' .. there comes a time when they will say 'why not me?'
Trust me been there, done that .. not once but twice .. Putting my personal life out here (withholding most details) ..
I met someone (arrnaged through parents), came to US to get engaged. Bhaisaab rejected because then I didnt have Engg degree only to marry an Engg & then treat her as a housewife. When we crossed paths, he was surprised to know that I went ahead & did my post graduation twice & was travelling for work !!
Second time, I truly fell in love with someone and faced external pressures for 6 yrs before he got married to someone .. Bhaisaab ne phir palti mari 6 more years later regretting their decision .. But it was too late !!
So there is a saying - Bhagwan (allah) ke ghar der hai, andher nahi !!
And if they think we are stupid .. then boy you dont know what it takes to fall in love & experience those feelings .. It takes an emotionally intelligent person to revel in those feelings - whether one sided or multi-sided ..
Sometimes when people point 1 finger towards us, they forget 3 other are pointing towards them .. By calling us out, they prove that they are attention seeker & spinless for not having the guts to accept that they are leading us on .. deliberately ..
So rest assured .. You are doing absolutely great my friend !! And there are far better people out there than those that we left behind 🤗
WOW.. More power to you for facing so much and still coming out as stronger than ever. Allah definitely has better plans for every good hearted soul, no matter how many mistakes we make, He knows that our intentions were genuine and pur.
You came to USA for that man and see you made a life for yourself. My case is different though, I and him we planned USA higher studies together, and somehow we both landed too, but we were like it will not work out. And honestly speaking, I was okay with the fact that he does not love me, we were friends and we continued being friends, the problem arised when he started dictating me more like a boyfriend, my clothes, my apartment, my time schedule, he was pissed off that I was not contacting him the way I used to do before, I was like dude you wanted to stay friends, so why do you expect me to behave like a girlfriend now, but well he blew it out of proportion. I apologized, i calmed him down, later on again repeated fights and he started accusing me of doing all these to seek his attention, he thought that I was doing all these (like busy with myself and not behaving like someone who would die for him) because I was secretly expecting him to fall for me. That day I was so hurt, he just made it so disgusting, I was disgusted that a man could be this selfish and immature. He called me spineless too because I still was friends with him after learning that he does not love me, I feel that that broke me like never before, I did not ever curse him but the way I felt, I wish he would have an ounce of idea how it feels to be treated like that.
I am glad that you did not marry that toxic loser, who could not value 6 years of love and now he regrets for what? These people should be put in a museum, like we should buy tickets to see such cartoons, who can humiliate, emotionally harass anyone but never commiit.
I am glad that Allah is there, He sees everything, He will ensure that we find happiness, whichever way it is. The only reason I want Mahi to apologize for her words to Feedi because I know in reality such incidences traumatize a person, it can kill a soul to an extent that it takes years to heal, I know it is a fiction, but when I connect it with myself it hurts me, but thank god it is just a drama, so we can make fun of it and also praise it in the same sentence.. 🤣
Anupamaa
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