Khuda Aur Mohabbat 3| Discussion Thread #2 - Page 68

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

Yes it is painful but at least the other one can respect you and not treat you like a leverage just because he/she knows that you are blind for that person. I hate the fact that in one sided love (be it dramas or reality) the person who somehow 'does the crime' of falling for the other one is given shit and called dumb and stupid, as if feelings as such has some self control? And on top of that the other side can call you names like 'attention seeker', 'stupid', 'spineless' and all you would do is ask GOD that why me, why me?

I am sorry for the rant but I am still so salty about the treatment I got, I do not wnat any more love affairs in my life, main single hi thik aur khush hoo 🤣

It sucks but whatever happens is for the better. Maybe this behaviour of his was what helped you move on. Imagine if he kept leading you on and you were still stuck on him? I am glad the worst is over and you came out as a stronger person. I am sure this experience taught you a lot of things and turned you more wise.

Unlike what those aunties say, there is nothing wrong at all staying single. One should only marry when they feel they are ready for it or find the right one. I am sure you are strong enough to be happy on your own and dont need anyone, but hey you never know, sometime in the future you may change your mind😛

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

Dream ON, KAM and tragic endings are synonymous

KAM 2 didnt have a tragic end though

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

Yes it is painful but at least the other one can respect you and not treat you like a leverage just because he/she knows that you are blind for that person. I hate the fact that in one sided love (be it dramas or reality) the person who somehow 'does the crime' of falling for the other one is given shit and called dumb and stupid, as if feelings as such has some self control? And on top of that the other side can call you names like 'attention seeker', 'stupid', 'spineless' and all you would do is ask GOD that why me, why me?

I am sorry for the rant but I am still so salty about the treatment I got, I do not wnat any more love affairs in my life, main single hi thik aur khush hoo 🤣

Sabka waqt aata hai .. us pal we say 'why me?' .. there comes a time when they will say 'why not me?'

Trust me been there, done that .. not once but twice .. Putting my personal life out here (withholding most details) ..

I met someone (arrnaged through parents), came to US to get engaged. Bhaisaab rejected because then I didnt have Engg degree only to marry an Engg & then treat her as a housewife. When we crossed paths, he was surprised to know that I went ahead & did my post graduation twice & was travelling for work !!

Second time, I truly fell in love with someone and faced external pressures for 6 yrs before he got married to someone .. Bhaisaab ne phir palti mari 6 more years later regretting their decision .. But it was too late !!

So there is a saying - Bhagwan (allah) ke ghar der hai, andher nahi !!

And if they think we are stupid .. then boy you dont know what it takes to fall in love & experience those feelings .. It takes an emotionally intelligent person to revel in those feelings - whether one sided or multi-sided ..

Sometimes when people point 1 finger towards us, they forget 3 other are pointing towards them .. By calling us out, they prove that they are attention seeker & spinless for not having the guts to accept that they are leading us on .. deliberately ..

So rest assured .. You are doing absolutely great my friend !! And there are far better people out there than those that we left behind 🤗

Originally posted by: Unique.Sheep

KAM 2 didnt have a tragic end though

KAM 2 had the best ending, she changed her name for him and became closer to Allah 😍😍 I can’t decide which one was better KAM 1 or KAM 2 but because of the ending I would give it to 2 but both were so beautifully put, I wish the same producers and directors did KAM 3 it would’ve been much better

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

I felt the disconnect was due to the direction, the story is simple and straight, I mean i understand the story but the director and the editing board did some shoddy piece of work.

Yeah editing is messy. There is something missing that's maybe good execution, good direction, good story or something else.

Originally posted by: Hamzahali09

The best ending of this would be Mahi falling in love with Farhad but Farhad has gone past that and now he’s fallen in love with Allah so he doesn’t need the love of this earth. That would be so poetic and also it would be the ideal ending. I really hope the ending is a confrontation between Mahi and Farhad where she wants him and he says he’s chahat is gone he doesn’t want to live the normal live he wants to forsake himself to Allah and await he’s death whenever it comes. Besides Mahi doesn’t really deserve a gem like Farhad, kitna bezzati karti hai yaar 🤣🤦‍♂️ If I was Farhad I would’ve left by now paglet kahika 🤦‍♂️

Yes that would be a perfect ending. Feedi's journey from Ishq e Mujazi to ishq e haqiqi.

Originally posted by: FarhaadkiMahi

yes there r loopholes in writting but then wo sabhi story me hoti hai .

season 1 & 2 me toh ladka ankhe dekhar hi lattu ho jata hai .even raske bismil me bus naqab pahni hai ladki toh lattu ho jata hai .even taimoor bhi bus dekhte hi fida type

But feedi not dekhte hi mar mita .there is friendship,they r comfortable with each other , enjoying eachother company , planing & ploting means partner in crimes yes duration was less but anybody can fall in love .

Sadeed mohabbat ab hui hai when feedi knows he cant get mahi because of class difference .thats why those line hath padhna & all .he is like jab sehjadi hai wo toh mujhe usse mohbat kyun hui .he is seeking for these ans from his god

I have not seen kam2 and if i m not wrong in kam1 there was both sided love.

And In ReB moosa fell for Zohra as he described his desire to marry a girl who would be ba parda. That's why he fell for her. There was a proper journey of his love which i feel lacks in feedi's love story.

I m glad that you are connected with feedi and his love but i m not able to do so. Yes i have sympathies for him but i don't want him to get unite with mahi i want him to get connected with Allah. As This drama's name is Khuda aur Mohabbat. Though i did not get connected with his mujazi mohabbat but i really want to get connect with his Haqeeqi mohabbat for Allah.

Originally posted by: _charu_

There was a loophole..what about now ? In the scene where taimoor is leaving, Mahi is at the terrace, Farhad comes..did it look like.mahi was 0.1% concerned for Farhad? Like she remembered oh Farhad ko goli lagi thi, is he OK, back from hospital etc ? Infact she gave a reaction of total "FO man , u r ruining my.moment here ". Suddenly she goes to her room and talks about Farhad. It just doesn't add up..or may be like I said..bad acting...

Mahi toh sirey sy hi confuse hai. I never get what she wants. Ek lamhey main taimoor ka naam sunn kar sharmaa jati hai dusrey main feedi ko dekh kar usky barey main sochti hai. She is not sincere with anyone.

Originally posted by: rivaanvira

Overall I feel that they the team couldve spend 1-2 episodes establishing their dynamics better instead of rushing through for Farhad's journey ..

Exactly, her character missed the fineness with which either her indifference or her guilt could be understood. Now, it is more like she is jumping from guilt to indifference, back to guilt again, I wish they give her a complete solo scene, just Mahi alone processing her own actions and reactions regarding Farhaad. I do not expect Mahi to suddenly fall in love with him and ruin her sanity, no, it should be again a process, but the least I expect from my lady is that she processes her own words, she thinks about the way she treated him, the Mahi we know would never be indifferent after leading him on and then humiliating him. Now suddenly she is asking questions like 'What happened to Farhaad, why is he changed?'.. I was like 'woman, do not you really know why has he changed? like selective memory loss hai kya Mahi ko?

Anyways, I will wait for 11th episode to further comment on this, right now I completely understand why Farhad is out of his mind, and I also do not support the way he is being stubborn, but that is still in his character, consistent with what he said before (jabtak main deewana bann nahi jata, nahi jaunga) but Mahi is so out of the place, she does not remember what she did, said and unlike here in the show the timeline is just 24 hours or more, like within a span of 24-48 hrs Mahi is behaving like kuch bhi 🤣

I agree with you that they needed to give 2 episodes to the lead pair instead of rushing to bhawalpur, I do not know why did they do this, the actors and the chemistry is so good, but still they chose to avoid the lead pair and show us every other character with microscope 😆

Originally posted by: rivaanvira

I dont know if he saw love or not in her eyes. But his expressions, to me, said that she finally came to (meet) him .. I dont know why I feel that this will be their second meeting - 1st where she tells him to leave her with 'take ke jazbaat' dialogue .. and 2nd where she tells him to leave bhawalpur ..

Interesting. I like that how all of us have different theories on Feedi's reaction in that sequence.🤣

What I felt was like his lone tear and the look in his eyes were more like a disbelief, he felt like he was in trans that Mahi was being apologetic and probably it was after the second session of insult and humiliation. Also, I felt like he was hurt because in his mind he would be like 'What is this woman, at first she calls my jazbaat delusional, makes fun of me and now she is asking for sorry just when I was about to board a train'..

All i know is his eyes and that look was daring, it seemed like he could burn everything with that look, and the burnt was felt by Mahi too, hence the tears from her eyes and the analogy of baddua, she meant his tears seemed like a curse now.