Not jumping to conclusions.......

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Posted: 5 years ago
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sorry in advance for the long post......


Hey guys!



So I saw the BTS from yesterday and I saw the reaction of the FD towards it!


This post is just a reminder to not jump to any conclusions before the episode airs.... all the BTS, IVs and precaps served are usually misleading!

I get that everyone is frustrated and irritated with the track and virats character arc but as ayesha mentioned in her video that the upcoming episodes are entertaining and will be worth it, I think we should wait till they release the episodes...


At the end of the day this show is about SaiRat and no matter what anyone says it’s going to be that way!

The story is about them, there won’t be a new lead entering neither will pakhi end up with Virat.... that is not the story....



I get that offscreen drama affects us but I also believe we should ignore someone because even the negative publicity is adding to their popularity...


we should focus our energy on those we love!



Life is not a bed of roses and things are easier said than done! We cannot generalize situations... sometimes people know there is something left fighting for despite cheating, abuse and what not... that is upto the person to decide and no that doesn’t make them weak! It gives them an opportunity to write their own story.


apology and forgiveness is one of the biggest gifts you can give yourself! It’s easy to say sorry but it’s harder to forgive!

For our own sanity we should focus on the story and how they take it forward before jumping to any conclusions.....

I would wait to see how the redeem the character of Virat because at the end of the day he is the main part of the story!

The makers I’m sure are noticing the backlash... we’ve got some nice holi moments, change in costumes for Sai and what not on requesting nicely!



As I’ve been saying all the time that this is an ITV show and will always lack logic because in entertainment especially in India drama and masala is needed to enjoy... many have tried making realistic shows and have filed miserably and many have succeeded, it depends on what the audience likes and watches....

A simple rule for my sanity is watch without any expectations or reality and learn what NOT to do in real life from these shows...


We all make mistakes, I have made many grave mistakes over the years and have repeated them as well hurting my loved ones in the process but I was able to work on myself and seek forgiveness. At the end of the day we are human and nobody is perfect!
Our beauty lies in being different and unique and making mistakes. These mistakes help us grow into a better human being.



So rather than delivering a verdict I would suggest and you don’t have to agree to it, is to wait and watch! You can always leave, nobody will stop you but to argue with another on their thought process is not fair. Everyone thinks differently and I’m sure many won’t agree to this post as well!


I believe in equality and giving everyone a fair chance whether man or woman. I don’t like differentiating between the genders and I will not do that. Each have their own struggle to go through !


I realized this looking at my father who himself struggles a lot and will never open up his feelings, doing whatever he can to provide the best for my mom, my sister and myself, without asking for anything but love in return! He loses his cool and hurts me at times but we are able to move past it and make our relationship stronger. I’ve been hurt multiple times by the accusations of my family of how I am as a person but I learnt to heal and forgive them.... Yes family can be toxic and sometimes you need to cut off, but that is upto the individual to decide! Not everyone can do it and not everyone feels the need to.... sometimes you know there is something worth fighting for in that relationship!

The times are already hard and uncertainty lies ahead...... but hope should never end! Hope and positivity as well as trust and faith in the process is very important, to know that everything is a blessing and happens for a reason is my mantra in life and trust me it helps!
It gives me the strength to enjoy my life even in the most uncertain situations.

Life is too short to live in fear and regret, we should enjoy what we have!



Much love always ❤️

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Sahi kahan aapne

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Thank you for all of your constant positivity Siya ❤️❤️


I totally agree with you. My rule with ITV is always to keep brains aside nothing will make sense at the end it's just how it goes 😆


As for right now, patience is the best thing to stick with 👍🏼

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Agree. To be honest the CVs have butchered Virat's character and it has gone beyond redemption. Don't know what's wrong with the CVs. But, still I hope they will rectify their mistake and we will be able to see the same Virat that we saw in the earlier episodes. I have watched worse male leads than Virat. Currently there's one show on Colors and the male lead is horrible to say the least. The way he tortures his wife is unbearable. I can't imagine how can a person be so bad. And, once he even damaged his wife's face with a piece of marble and threw her out of the house because now she didn't look beautiful. So, I guess Virat is much better compared to this psycho male lead.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Thanks for this post!


We do need to relax a bit. The cast and crew is making an effort to give us continuing episodes. Let's continue to support them.


Baaki, let's decide to ignore off screen stuff.


There's so much fear and uncertainty around us. Why get hassled with the virtual world or fictional world?


Let's take what we like and dismiss what we don't..

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Agree. To be honest the CVs have butchered Virat's character and it has gone beyond redemption. Don't know what's wrong with the CVs. But, still I hope they will rectify their mistake and we will be able to see the same Virat that we saw in the earlier episodes. I have watched worse male leads than Virat. Currently there's one show on Colors and the male lead is horrible to say the least. The way he tortures his wife is unbearable. I can't imagine how can a person be so bad. And, once he even damaged his wife's face with a piece of marble and threw her out of the house because now she didn't look beautiful. So, I guess Virat is much better compared to this psycho male lead.


Ugggh and that couple is actually still shipped. Disgusting! The male lead is horrendous and monstrous in his actions but the show still portrays him as the hero rather than villain despite the intentional physical assault he did on the female lead to ruin her face.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Agree. To be honest the CVs have butchered Virat's character and it has gone beyond redemption. Don't know what's wrong with the CVs. But, still I hope they will rectify their mistake and we will be able to see the same Virat that we saw in the earlier episodes. I have watched worse male leads than Virat. Currently there's one show on Colors and the male lead is horrible to say the least. The way he tortures his wife is unbearable. I can't imagine how can a person be so bad. And, once he even damaged his wife's face with a piece of marble and threw her out of the house because now she didn't look beautiful. So, I guess Virat is much better compared to this psycho male lead.

Thats the problem. Virat is wayyyyy better than ITV male lead. The standard for ITV ML is below HELL, so Virat who is not a normal guy seems like a saint to us when he is not angry!!!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Yeah, we have to wait until the scene airs and not come to a conclusion now. I ignored it.


Waise bhi, jab scene aata hai, tab forum ka mood off ho hi jata hai kaise bhi, abhi se kyun 🤣


It is like we are going through something negative two times, one when we get an article or news and another time when the actual episode airs 🤣🤣🤣.

Ek baar hi kaafi hai baba 😂😂.


Sairat is the end game and I started to watch it for them and the first episode that I watched properly was when both met. Both characters have flaws, both will be criticized, but at the end, the show is about their life.

I will quit if it gets too toxic or if I don't feel like watching. We all know the storyline already, it is a blessing.


I am happy that the shoot didn't stop . They are all taking additional efforts to move the entire cast and crew in the current situation, have to give credit to them 👏. The show is continuing to run and I am very happy about it. Looking forward to the most awaited track of the show .

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I remember once there was a bts pic of Virat and Sai standing in front of each other and holding each other's hands., with a towel wrapped around Virat's neck? I was so heartbroken when that didn't actually air...so, yeah don't jump to conclusions

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I haven't watched an ITV show in a while and this is the one I picked up. I've finally caught up with everyone else and I agree with everything you said!


I think sometimes we the audience insert ourselves/our logic too much into these characters without realizing that most stories shown on tv hold no logic, especially ITV of all genres. IRL, someone like Sai would've never lasted even as long as she did. Heck, I'm not as outspoken as Sai and I would've never stayed for as long as she did. So there's already some level of suspending our disbelief that we must do in order to enjoy the story.


I think everyone thought Virat would always be great. Even when he was in the wrong, that he would uphold his moral code, his ethics. But I think thats precisely the point here - he's so livid with Sai that he's surpassed his own ethics/morality. Sometimes even the good guys have their bad days/periods. It's not an excuse but it's a look into his actions. I think his character is fed up and definitely is saying everything out of anger. We ALL know he's going to miss her (he already started), and he's going to want/win her back.


The fact that she's going to accept him - well that's what we signed up for lol. It's a show about Sai + Virat, so she's going to have to forgive him eventually. Will he grovel as much as we the audience think he should? Probably not. But we're not Sai. It's been shown several times that she easily forgives people, so I wouldn't be surprised if he just started bawling in front of her and she was like fine lol. I don't want that - I actually like the subtle groveling arcs but it is what it is.

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