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Posted: 4 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: by_stander

so sad that a woman standing up against domestic abuse and getting targeted as being mentally ill by the perpetrators. Also, the fact that Virat has a mentally ill sister and has the audacity to call his wife pagal and not hesitate at all was very disturbing. Please don't normalize Virat's behavior or defend it. There are real women out there fighting domestic abuse like these and the more we defend such abusers, the more we fail as a society.


Thanks for voicing this

This is a type of gaslighting where the victim is being shamed to not voice what happened.

Sai in a way has lot of courage perhaps the fact that her pa was a cop and was brought up in a different setup.

I am sure if she should forgive a person who let her down at all levels

She was emo abused by his fam calling her names and constantly bringing up her upbringing

He let a third person in their relationship and never called PP out for abusing her

Only AAI at some level has always stood by her and mohit

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: by_stander

so sad that a woman standing up against domestic abuse and getting targeted as being mentally ill by the perpetrators. Also, the fact that Virat has a mentally ill sister and has the audacity to call his wife pagal and not hesitate at all was very disturbing. Please don't normalize Virat's behavior or defend it. There are real women out there fighting domestic abuse like these and the more we defend such abusers, the more we fail as a society.

thnx for posting ur views .no matter how much they will redeem him but the man has lost his respect. No girl deserves husband like Virat.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Moonks

That was such a low blow 😡

indeed . They made their daughter mentally sick n here son of the family calling his own wife mad. What a C Grade family it is.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Woh khud pagal hai apne bhabi ke pyar mein isliye usne Sai ko pagal kaha

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: by_stander

so sad that a woman standing up against domestic abuse and getting targeted as being mentally ill by the perpetrators. Also, the fact that Virat has a mentally ill sister and has the audacity to call his wife pagal and not hesitate at all was very disturbing. Please don't normalize Virat's behavior or defend it. There are real women out there fighting domestic abuse like these and the more we defend such abusers, the more we fail as a society.

They can normalize it or say Virat is a domestic abuser and Sai a emotional abuser .. What they did to each other can be equated.. 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Madhukk86

Dear Sai

Never ever forget these words. Never ever return to this place bcoz they dont deserve u. They only deserve Mature dd🤗

Calling her out to be mentally unstable was a low blow for a person who claims to be very mature n have sense of duniya daari.

Even if he believes that Sai was wrong then he very well couldn point it out to neighbours that she trusts outsiders over her own family n went against her family instead calling her mentally unstable who needs medical attention. That would have been a better way to deal with Sai for Virat rather than stooping so low.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I am honestly surprised that makers/writers have written such dialogues for Virat.

Firstly because he claims himself to be a respected IPS officer and protect women and care for them.

Secondly he has seen his sister ho through the traumatic case of PTSD and has shed tears as well for her

After all this how can he call Sai ‘mentally unstable’ just to satisfy his ego is beyond my understanding.

Does protecting women only means protecting/securing them physically?

What about emotional and mental protection/security? (Not just for a woman but for a man as well in general)

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