Positive Changes you want to see in the show!

Guys, after watching yesterday and today's episode, I feel like emotionally drained out. I am not even able to concentrate on my work. So I am here, trying to ease myself with your help!❤️

As we say, 'Mathrudevo bhava', I am going to start with aai, the mother of all the children of the CN. She is the epitome of motherhood! Kaku always tried to show off in front of Aai that Virat gives more importance to her than his aai(reference-initial episodes). But, she never fought for his son's attention. Neither did she let her relation with Kaku impact her love for Devyani. She always reminds me of my mom, who gives equal importance and love to all the children of our home, irrespective of her relation with their parents.

I want her to get the love and respect she deserves! At the moment, I am sure none other than Sai can help her out in this! She should know that her husband is a criminal and none of the elders of that house deserves her love or her patience. I know it is very difficult for women in that age to do anything for themselves, but there are many children out there who need a mother. She can shower her love on them. I want her to visit orphanages, give the children her love. I want Devi to treat Ashwini like her aai, give that respect to her in her house. I am not saying she should leave CN, why should she? She has served there for these many years and now, that house is equally hers, too! But I just don't want her to do any of the household chores, instead do things that makes her happy!

Sai and Virat: Right now, in the mess they are in, they really need a break from each other. I want Virat to face himself and realize what all mistakes he did. Yes, it also includes keeping Samrat in dark. But before that, I want him to acknowledge it to himself that he did fell in love(that's what he thought) with Pakhi and then accept it in front of Sai. Let her know the truth and tell her that you don't love Pakhi anymore. Denying the fact isn't gonna help anyone. He should also realize what love is!! I want him to talk to Samrat, tell him the entire truth, apologize to him and let him take the decision of his life. Just because of his guilty towards Pakhi, he can't push them for this relation. Let them handle their life!

Also, I want Sai to enjoy her teenage days. I want her to explore the world, relations(not just in terms of love), concentrate on studies and after all this, if she feels that she is in love with Virat, then I want her to be very firm with Virat initially. I also want them to talk about his vaadas!! If she is going to enter his life again, she should know that Virat's first love is his so called promises. They need to discuss about his over enthusiasm to promise people!

I also want to see Virat, the IPS officer to arrest his dil-ke-achhe bade, not just for the kidnapping, but also for everything they have done to Devyani and her child! I still can't take it that no one is talking about Harini! Virat should also take a firm stand for his aai, irrespective of if the truth comes out or not.

In today's episode, when he said people who are not related to me and my family, did he forget that his aai is his family too?? I want Ashwini to question this to Virat! It really hurt me, his aai is struggling to just feed her daughter and he!? I will stop it here.

Mrs Patralekha: Oh first of all, I want to change the actress! Honestly, after reading about Usha Maushi's insult to her, I was so looking forward to the scene. But the actress ruined the experience for me. What is the expression? Is she hurt? Is she angry? Is she shocked? Is she like 'I don't care'? what exactly is it?? I mean please give us some expressions woman!! Just because we did PhD in KD/NM and we know what the character feels doesn't mean you shouldn't act! I know writers are copy pasting everything and not using their creativity but doesn't mean that you should follow them. Even they did show creativity at times that we loved(including Holi sequence), can you, for once, let us feel naturally what Pakhi is feeling? Or our entire time on Ghum is going to be wasted by just trying to decode your expressions whenever your beizzati is done? Oh I am deviating from the topic, but yes, I can't ruin my entertainment looking at you! So Pakhi doesn't exist for me. I have a lot to say about the character but I am sure the actress can't do justice to Pakhi. So for me, she is just a piece of furniture that can talk and instigate people, simple!

Sonali: I sometimes feel like, woman, you have such a strong support from your mayka, then why are you so interesting in siding with your so called Vahini? If not for you, speak up at least for the happiness of your son and DIL. Please learn some empathy from Ashwini. If not that, learn to give importance to your child's happiness!!

UM: I am so happy with Usha Maushi today that I am not talking much about her.

Mohit & Karishma: Once the criminals goes to jail(I mentioned that Virat should arrest him), I don't think there will be anyone to taunt them. So I want Mohit to fully concentrate on his acting. I remember that Mohit and Karishma fell in love while doing theatre drama. So I want her also to do what she wants to do with life. With Kaku out of picture, I hope she can prioritize herself and Mohit above what people think/want.

Shivani Bua: I want to see her progress, may be she can do some business. In fact she and Ashwini can together start a business, Aai can complete her studies simultaneously and then Shivani can find a guy who loves her for who she is(This is because she always wanted to marry).

Samrat is such a sweet guy! I just hope he is happy away from the toxicity. Not sure what future holds for him, but I want him to be happily married with a loving wife. He deserves it :) But he should feel bad for letting her mother go through all of this! Being a single mother, all she has in this world is her son. I want him to realize that if not for anyone, he should come back for his mother.

Mansi Bua: I just want to know if she is still a part of the show? Nvm, can she just be firm with her DIL? I remember she took a stand for her bahu when Sai questioned why Pakhi didi didn't change her name. So that means she can speak. Then why didn't she find anything odd when her bahu said that she kept the vrat for her badi mami and not for her husband who is missing!? Please take a stand your son, bua!

Above all of the points I have mentioned above, there is a very importantthing! Any guesses??

Yes, I want these Chavans to hire a house help!!!

Please do share your views :)

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I want to see women develop a spine, that's about it (Including Chewing Gum, She needs it the most, it pains me to see such a desperate woman on my TV)

Kaku is worst, I can't help but admire the kind of power she has, it's rare and frankly, I'd love to see a strong woman, who is not a criminal

Adding one more thing -

How about instead of portraying Virat as someone who respects women, they call a spade a spade, He can change for better, you see upbringing and society plays a huge role in shaping an individual, Virat is just like his father who denies his wife food and shelter when he is angry, instead of showing it as his anger, work on inherent issue of misogyny which has been normalized for him and let him realize that it is wrong and change himself

We can give him a chance to turn over a new leaf

Originally posted by: Optimist_d

Guys, after watching yesterday and today's episode, I feel like emotionally drained out. I am not even able to concentrate on my work. So I am here, trying to ease myself with your help!❤️

As we say, 'Mathrudevo bhava', I am going to start with aai, the mother of all the children of the CN. She is the epitome of motherhood! Kaku always tried to show off in front of Aai that Virat gives more importance to her than his aai(reference-initial episodes). But, she never fought for his son's attention. Neither did she let her relation with Kaku impact her love for Devyani. She always reminds me of my mom, who gives equal importance and love to all the children of our home, irrespective of her relation with their parents.

I want her to get the love and respect she deserves! At the moment, I am sure none other than Sai can help her out in this! She should know that her husband is a criminal and none of the elders of that house deserves her love or her patience. I know it is very difficult for women in that age to do anything for themselves, but there are many children out there who need a mother. She can shower her love on them. I want her to visit orphanages, give the children her love. I want Devi to treat Ashwini like her aai, give that respect to her in her house. I am not saying she should leave CN, why should she? She has served there for these many years and now, that house is equally hers, too! But I just don't want her to do any of the household chores, instead do things that makes her happy!

Sai and Virat: Right now, in the mess they are in, they really need a break from each other. I want Virat to face himself and realize what all mistakes he did. Yes, it also includes keeping Samrat in dark. But before that, I want him to acknowledge it to himself that he did fell in love(that's what he thought) with Pakhi and then accept it in front of Sai. Let her know the truth and tell her that you don't love Pakhi anymore. Denying the fact isn't gonna help anyone. He should also realize what love is!! I want him to talk to Samrat, tell him the entire truth, apologize to him and let him take the decision of his life. Just because of his guilty towards Pakhi, he can't push them for this relation. Let them handle their life!

Also, I want Sai to enjoy her teenage days. I want her to explore the world, relations(not just in terms of love), concentrate on studies and after all this, if she feels that she is in love with Virat, then I want her to be very firm with Virat initially. I also want them to talk about his vaadas!! If she is going to enter his life again, she should know that Virat's first love is his so called promises. They need to discuss about his over enthusiasm to promise people!

I also want to see Virat, the IPS officer to arrest his dil-ke-achhe bade, not just for the kidnapping, but also for everything they have done to Devyani and her child! I still can't take it that no one is talking about Harini! Virat should also take a firm stand for his aai, irrespective of if the truth comes out or not.

In today's episode, when he said people who are not related to me and my family, did he forget that his aai is his family too?? I want Ashwini to question this to Virat! It really hurt me, his aai is struggling to just feed her daughter and he!? I will stop it here.

Mrs Patralekha: Oh first of all, I want to change the actress! Honestly, after reading about Usha Maushi's insult to her, I was so looking forward to the scene. But the actress ruined the experience for me. What is the expression? Is she hurt? Is she angry? Is she shocked? Is she like 'I don't care'? what exactly is it?? I mean please give us some expressions woman!! Just because we did PhD in KD/NM and we know what the character feels doesn't mean you shouldn't act! I know writers are copy pasting everything and not using their creativity but doesn't mean that you should follow them. Even they did show creativity at times that we loved(including Holi sequence), can you, for once, let us feel naturally what Pakhi is feeling? Or our entire time on Ghum is going to be wasted by just trying to decode your expressions whenever your beizzati is done? Oh I am deviating from the topic, but yes, I can't ruin my entertainment looking at you! So Pakhi doesn't exist for me. I have a lot to say about the character but I am sure the actress can't do justice to Pakhi. So for me, she is just a piece of furniture that can talk and instigate people, simple!

Sonali: I sometimes feel like, woman, you have such a strong support from your mayka, then why are you so interesting in siding with your so called Vahini? If not for you, speak up at least for the happiness of your son and DIL. Please learn some empathy from Ashwini. If not that, learn to give importance to your child's happiness!!

UM: I am so happy with Usha Maushi today that I am not talking much about her.

Mohit & Karishma: Once the criminals goes to jail(I mentioned that Virat should arrest him), I don't think there will be anyone to taunt them. So I want Mohit to fully concentrate on his acting. I remember that Mohit and Karishma fell in love while doing theatre drama. So I want her also to do what she wants to do with life. With Kaku out of picture, I hope she can prioritize herself and Mohit above what people think/want.

Shivani Bua: I want to see her progress, may be she can do some business. In fact she and Ashwini can together start a business, Aai can complete her studies simultaneously and then Shivani can find a guy who loves her for who she is(This is because she always wanted to marry).

Samrat is such a sweet guy! I just hope he is happy away from the toxicity. Not sure what future holds for him, but I want him to be happily married with a loving wife. He deserves it :) But he should feel bad for letting her mother go through all of this! Being a single mother, all she has in this world is her son. I want him to realize that if not for anyone, he should come back for his mother.

Mansi Bua: I just want to know if she is still a part of the show? Nvm, can she just be firm with her DIL? I remember she took a stand for her bahu when Sai questioned why Pakhi didi didn't change her name. So that means she can speak. Then why didn't she find anything odd when her bahu said that she kept the vrat for her badi mami and not for her husband who is missing!? Please take a stand your son, bua!

Above all of the points I have mentioned above, there is a very importantthing! Any guesses??

Yes, I want these Chavans to hire a house help!!!

Please do share your views :)

I don't know how but I want Virat to introspect on his toxic masculinity and how he's been an idiot for not noticing the abuse Devi and Ashwini went through even before he met Sai.

Secondly, I want him to let go of Sai and let her be happy with someone else. Only that would show that he's worked against his chauvinism. Maybe only then can Sairat be reconciled.

First n foremost I want cvs to give lil akal to virat. Realise what is happening around. Being IPS officer, he couldn't find real truth of pulkit. I was laughing when he went to arrest pulkit without arrest warrant n insufficient proofs against him. It was really bad, how can cvs show him like that. Also why to show cry baby kind of. Poor actor finding really difficult to emote. I shd hv felt sympathy for him as it shd hv been hard for him to throw sai out of house. But I am irritated with this man. And he is not realising paki trying hard to make him hate sai. She is openly saying she still loves him n he is not clearing her as well that he don't love her. He is beating around the Bush. Today he shd hv shown clearly angry at sai. But why he is remembering holi ( does cvs wants to to show us virat was mahaan for playing holi with her) n crying..😆 Sometimes, in anger ppl would go harsh way. Here he is remembering holi n crying n throwing her out of the house as well. So confused chsracter.

I want to say, sai just go away from CN, n make your own life. Instead of going her village, she can rent small house n stay in same place n continue education.. Both mashi n she can do part time job n can make their living.

Betwn what is forum referring abt KD?

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I want to see women develop a spine, that's about it (Including Chewing Gum, She needs it the most, it pains me to see such a desperate woman on my TV)

Yes, even I want to! For that to happen, the character should realize her mistakes! But I can't connect with her anymore because of poor acting. So I don't stress much onto it. If you ask me, when I saw her initially, till SaiRat's marriage I guess, I thought if used properly, this character has the potential to grow. Why is it so mandatory in itv to show a woman so desperate for ML? That too when he is already married. In all other shows, it's just a part of the story but here

Kaku is worst, I can't help but admire the kind of power she has, it's rare and frankly, I'd love to see a strong woman, who is not a criminal

Yes, after seeing the interaction of Sai and Kaku on SaiRat's reception, I was so looking forward to their bond. It'd be interesting to watch the contrasting ideologies of two strong women. But everything had to be black and white for them :(

Adding one more thing -

How about instead of portraying Virat as someone who respects women, they call a spade a spade, He can change for better, you see upbringing and society plays a huge role in shaping an individual, Virat is just like his father who denies his wife food and shelter when he is angry, instead of showing it as his anger, work on inherent issue of misogyny which has been normalized for him and let him realize that it is wrong and change himself

We can give him a chance to turn over a new leaf

What I don't understand is that, he was shocked when Ninad said he is behaving like a chavan man. That means he knows what these people have been doing is wrong. It's just that he thinks he is not like that and whatever he is doing is correct. He should first look at his flaws and accept them. Only then he can learn.

But if at all this happens, it will be a very interesting journey!

Originally posted by: Bluegrass

I don't know how but I want Virat to introspect on his toxic masculinity and how he's been an idiot for not noticing the abuse Devi and Ashwini went through even before he met Sai.

Secondly, I want him to let go of Sai and let her be happy with someone else. Only that would show that he's worked against his chauvinism. Maybe only then can Sairat be reconciled.

Exactly! I want him to realize what Devi and his mom have been through! He should repent for not being there for them. I also want him to stop giving promises when he can't live upto them!

Yes, like I said, Sai should explore the world, relations and all. It should be her decision, if she wants to come back to Virat or not