Originally posted by: asmi_joya
I never said that. Its not like when I am pointing out a fault in his behaviour I am saying he loves or prefers her over Sai. Please dont degrade a conversation with that. I have always maintained he has never loved Pakhi. So don't put me in that basket just because I am pointing out his flaws.
I am just saying that he needs to bring that intensity when Aai and Sai are insulted as well. That's it. I know today its more about his anger towards Sai and not much about Sai talking to Pakhi like that. But in order to control where Pakhi is going he will have to show her a limit that she should not cross with his wife. She had no business calling Sai greedy and gold digger today. She had no business calling Sai characterless in the Professor episode. I know he was not there then but she has never been warned as such to not misbehave with Sai. She has no right to hold Sai in an aggressive manner like she does... He needs to warn her at once in an aggressive tone. Just once is what I am asking for. Not on a daily basis. May be in the next track he would.
I want to clarify one thing . I don’t defend any character . I share my views and if they seem partial towards one character then it means I connect to that character more than others. This is not directed to you but I am saying it in general for all those sarcastic posts under the thread .
There is a huge difference between the two scenarios - Virat siding with Sai and Virat siding with Pakhi . IMO , It’s not an apple to apple comparision.
When Virat supports Sai he is not angry and his emotions are in control . When he is in control , he doesn’t raise his voice at anyone that includes Sai as well . He is usually sensible , calm me composed . In GC , whenever Sai misbehaved with him he did not shout , yell like he did today. When Sai accused him of a wife beater he did not lose his cool . The reason I am giving this example is he didn’t show the intensity people expect from him when he is defending himself . Only when he loses his cool , his anger causes his logical brain to shut off .Today , he didn’t support Pakhi but he took this opportunity to hurt Sai
The reason I said about getting hurt from loved ones is , he is hurt because Sai the person he loves betrayed him ( he is not aware of the complete truth ) . Due to his hurt , he wants to hurt Sai back . He doesn’t care if Pakhi calls Sai anything because he is focused only on this pain . Whosoever supports Sai he feels they ate against him and so he is rude to them . He is not able to think clearly hence he has turned deaf to what Aai and UM has to say . I feel most humans behave this way .it might sound selfish but who isn’t selfish in this world . Everyone puts their feelings above other’s pain .
The intensity which most people want will be seen soon when he will get to know the truth and when he senses Pakhi taking advantage of the situation
Edited by 404_NotFound - 5 years ago