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Posted: 5 years ago
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I saw a clip here. Just a clip. Not even the episode.

And I was reminded of a childhood incident. A girl from my school had a best friend. They never used to talk to me. Once those two had a fight. And one of them became my friend. Suddenly she would talk to me, share things with me and badmouth her best friend and tell me how hurt she was and how much she had done for her. I thought we have become good friends.🤪

One day they reconciled and things went back to how they were. And I realised it in her behaviour. I was suddenly of no consequence once again.

I was again an outsider and they were again a team.😆

Does it make sense😆

Edited: I'm reminded of another incident. Two other girls, they were also best friends. Once they had a fight over something (I don't know what) but one of them in presence of a few other girls asked me who was prettier among them. I had no special love for any of the two🤪. And I thought she really wanted to know.🤣 so I told her that the other girl was prettier. And she became offended😆

The other girls sided with her and she felt at ease and behaved as if they were best friends forever🤪

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

I saw a clip here. Just a clip. Not even the episode.

And I was reminded of a childhood incident. A girl from my school had a best friend. They never used to talk to me. Once those two had a fight. And one of them became my friend. Suddenly she would talk to me, share things with me and badmouth her best friend and tell me how hurt she was and how much she had done for her. I thought we have become good friends.🤪

One day they reconciled and things went back to how they were. And I realised it in her behaviour. I was suddenly of no consequence once again.

I was again an outsider and they were again a team.😆

Does it make sense😆

Yeah she came to you to jealous her friend 🤣

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: maahi11

Yeah she came to you to jealous her friend 🤣

maybe😆but I think for the time being her anger had taken over her friendship and outsiders got a place between them. But once they reconciled, outsiders became outsiders again (in this case, me)😆
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

maybe😆but I think for the time being her anger had taken over her friendship and outsiders got a place between them. But once they reconciled, outsiders became outsiders again (in this case, me)😆

Yeah may be, i rem when my bestie was all so possessive about me, she used to hold my hand and take me away from the ppl she dint liked me talking,

Take it that way this girl knows her best friend doesn’t like you, or else why would she talk to you out of everyone else


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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: maahi11

Yeah may be, i rem when my bestie was all so possessive about me, she used to hold my hand and take me away from the ppl she dint liked me talking,

Take it that way this girl knows her best friend doesn’t like you, or else why would she talk to you out of everyone else


yeah, you make sense👍🏼. And I'm suddenly reminded of another incident. I'm gonna add it to the original post
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Thats why people usually avoid taking sides in fights/ arguements between close friends/ husband-wife/ bf-gf, coz eventually they will reconcile, but they will remember and share what the person taking the side talked about the friend/ spouse/ partner.

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Originally posted by: sukri

Thats why people usually avoid taking sides in fights/ arguements between close friends/ husband-wife/ bf-gf, coz eventually they will reconcile, but they will remember and share what the person taking the side talked about the friend/ spouse/ partner.

so you mean Virat will remember what Patralekha said about Sai😉
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

so you mean Virat will remember what Patralekha said about Sai😉


unfortunately no. He is one nut case 🤣

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

so you mean Virat will remember what Patralekha said about Sai😉

I don’t agree with this. Coz for me Virat and Pakhi were never friends let alone best friends. Pakhi doesn’t like sai for the reasons we know, coz she is obsessed

But In best friends they have different level of intimacy, sometimes it’s all about to find out what other thinks about you. We know how will a person react. Uski bekar ki baate bhi sane lagti hai. But u truly care foe that person

In this case when a friend fights and come to the third person they obviously bitch about the one but do u know when the other part reconcile they actually bitch about you.
what I mean this girl who bitched about her best friend with you, after reconciling will make sure her best friend doesn’t go talk you or has more hatered for you, for the obvious reasons as she doesn’t want her bestie to know what she bad mouth about her to u. This is the case when this girl want her to detached from her best friend from others except, that girl is harmful and her best friend will soon be all alone when ppl will sympathize with the girl who came and spoke to u


In bestie you can fight as much as u want, but u won’t back bitch about her,

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: sukri

Thats why people usually avoid taking sides in fights/ arguements between close friends/ husband-wife/ bf-gf, coz eventually they will reconcile, but they will remember and share what the person taking the side talked about the friend/ spouse/ partner.

...Ye sach mein hota hai. Main aur meri bff yhi sab kaand krte hai😆

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