Will you return to Virat's life if you were Sai? - Page 9

Originally posted by: sukri

I wonder if they will show him reflect in his room after he closes the door on her face. That might clear a bit for me. about his feelings. If he really loves her, it will show when he is all alone without external influence of kaku/ Pakhi/aai.

I am really praying that they do.......I still really like Virat but writers need to be much more clear about his thoughts because Neil can only do as much as he can with his acting 😳

In KD though Rono just stood staring out the window at whatever he was staring at before Didi came in the room with her food tray so who knows let us not expect much 😆

In fact that is the litmus test of watching or gushing over a ML right?

If I cannot in my wildest dreams associate with this man’s behavior in the name of love

There is no way he remains a “hero” in my eyes

I have stopped watching the show for this reason

Initially I loved SAIRAT

I thought a story of a woman who speaks her mind

And a man who puts duty first will make for a very interesting love tale

Because there will be clashes where it would tough to really take sides

I am a woman who speaks her mind

And I have had such clashes in relationships

The minute it was clear that this man really never stands up for her

In front of his toxic family

Or in front of his so called love

I would walk out.

there are no two ways about it,

Originally posted by: DeePiku

I do think that Virat loves Sai but that love is very new, weak, obsessive, and highly, highly insecure. When love is truly strong - like Aai's, Shivani's, UM's, even Mohit's - you stand by the person and trust them even if they have done a wrong thing.

Given how Virat was thinking about his Holi memories as well, I think he sees this entire thing not just as an insult of the Chakrams, but as an insult of those feelings that he has. Kaku and Didi are also adding to that by making him feel like a husband whose ego was trampled on. Thus it doesn't matter what even Aai was saying - his pride has been bruised and Virat values his pride as much as Sai values hers 😳

We will have to see what writers cook up to give Virat some growth but trust is a huge, huge issue in SaiRat's relationship. Until that hurdle is crossed, this will keep repeating over and over again. But then again, this is all KD's raaj, so we know that there isn't much good that will happen here

@bold actually, this is one thing which is making me think if I can even stand what happens in the future. If it is like this now, going to get worse.

@green I feel this way too.

@blue looks like that has what has happened. That is where they have all played a role. If not for them, if wouldn't have got this worse I feel.

But he closed the door even before all of them spoke rigt? May be that was in anger and might have melted hearing her ring the bell. But these people made it worse.

I don't know, but I am not able to accept him insulting Usha Maushi like that.

Originally posted by: laksh

@bold actually, this is one thing which is making me think if I can even stand what happens in the future. If it is like this now, going to get worse.

@green I feel this way too.

@blue looks like that has what has happened. That is where they have all played a role. If not for them, if wouldn't have got this worse I feel.

But he closed the door even before all of them spoke rigt? May be that was in anger and might have melted hearing her ring the bell. But these people made it worse.

I don't know, but I am not able to accept him insulting Usha Maushi like that.

ITV shows always become garbage after love confession scenes. That is always when I quit. If they keep copying KD lots of garbage tracks are coming our way, but then again I always have low expectations from ITV so I will still be here until love confession from Sai 😆

Chakrams 100% made everything worse. I don't know if he would have taken this action if they weren't there but since it is just a KD copy paste......I don't find it worth me agonizing over. There's no changing it.

Usha Masi's insult was his worst action to me it reminded me of when he started yelling at Aai during the Amay track. He did properly apologize for that action so I am sure he will apologize for that here. A very OOC reaction for Virat, but it's all Rono's aatma's impact 😡

Originally posted by: DeePiku

ITV shows always become garbage after love confession scenes. That is always when I quit. If they keep copying KD lots of garbage tracks are coming our way, but then again I always have low expectations from ITV so I will still be here until love confession from Sai 😆

Chakrams 100% made everything worse. I don't know if he would have taken this action if they weren't there but since it is just a KD copy paste......I don't find it worth me agonizing over. There's no changing it.

Usha Masi's insult was his worst action to me it reminded me of when he started yelling at Aai during the Amay track. He did properly apologize for that action so I am sure he will apologize for that here. A very OOC reaction for Virat, but it's all Rono's aatma's impact 😡

@bold could be. But he has asked her to leave the house and that is highly insulting.

ITV, this has already turned into a garbage 😒

Originally posted by: laksh

Hey guys,

Haven't watched the episode, read some updates and watched a scene on Insta when Virat locks the main door. I didn't check anything else after what I saw.

Well even I haven't watched the episode. But after going through the updates and few clips here and there, I cant watch it. Now if I cant even watch something like this, I can never imagine going through all this shit!

I want to understand something. Let us not look at if as Sai or Virat. In general, for however grave mistake a person that you have done, will you be able to forgive your spouse him/her if you were not allowed to enter your house. Will you be able to forgive and get back with he person if you were turned out of the house.

If we cant look at it as Sai or Virat, that means we dont know the back story of all this. But no matter what, I cant even imagine to let a woman(she is a woman before being a wife) be outside at this hour! Yes, people say she can go to Pulkit's home or she can go the place where she has come from. But u cant say it at such hour, anything can happen to her. Who's gonna be responsible then? But again, it depends on how the woman(if not Sai) is going to handle it. I know, too much of diplomacy😆

When I say mistake, please let's exclude murder or any harm done to someone else.

Will any amount of apology be enough? Anything done, can it undo such an action?

You know, murder or hurting someone physically can be easily proven as guilty . Also, I believe that physical hurt can be cured as it's visible. Whereas this kind of behavior, I dont even know how people handle it. Most of us might have had bad experiences which still sits in a corner of our heart but does pop up at times. What impact such behaviour has on people depends on how they handle things. So for me, there's no particular answer to this question. It depends on the person and I can never even imagine anyone in such situation. So i cant say much about this.

It is not like a small anger which subsides after some time and then you let your spouse in. The door was closed with a firm decision that it is closed forever for her. Even if the door opens, the decision of asking her to leave still holds true.

True, the decision still holds true 😭😭🥺

Let's just say that Sai remains thankful to him always, never forgets what he has done for her. She also feels guilty to have betrayed his trust, getting his sister married without letting him know.

Yes, it's either way. Agar mai iss time pe wahan pe hoti na then I would have dragged these two and locked them in a room. Without any third person, let them shout, humiliate, do whatever they want to do, but its THEIR space. They need it. Both are hurt! Trust is broken. All this drama makes me insane. Have never seen such a family

How many of you will be able to forgive such an act if you had to go through it? Sorry if my question offended you. But if we were in the place of Sai, what would we have done?

This is such a tough question, tougher than the questions in my exams 😆 I can never imagine myself in my place. I doubt if I'll even be sane after all this

Also, can you please answer the below.

What would want a person to go back to their spouse after this? What would make a person go back?

You know I have seen a lot of couples who get nasty when they fight with each other. They know that neither of them meant what they say, but they do. I dont have a spouse so dont ask me how. But I have observed this. However at the end of the day, only these two can understand each other and reconcile. I have seen people doing it not just out of love, but also because of the trust they have on each other. At times, when one realizes their mistake and assure that they wont repeat it, chances are there. Again, if at all its repeated, the situation can be worse!

Let's not get into the story where we all know that Sai goes back because he is injured.

Would we have also done the same? Would we have gone to the hospital but not return to his/her life?

Fear of losing your dearest one is much much more than anything else! These two can help each other to grow. One thing I want to see is, them trusting each other without any proofs! But if they are on opposite sides, i want them to sit and talk, that solves lot of problems. Well, i guess I'm just dreaming, will that ever happen in Ghum?

There is one thing that I know that could compel a person to return and that is the love for the person. If we love that person, after he/she apologises one might consider to go back warning not to ever repeat it again.

How many of you would do that if you love the spouse? Or even the love is not enough to accept the spouse after such an action?

When I know that I'm at fault too, I'll think first to understand why he reacted that way. Also, this doesn't include the not letting inside home(be it night or morning). Coz as much as it's his home, it's her home too! So this wont let me think rationally. Again, this is just my opinion.

Please can I request not to bring anything from the past or other things from the episode too.

Just that Sai has got married Devi like this and waiting outside the door and Virat not letting Sai inside the house.

I only want to know how we would feel if we have to face such circumstances. If the doors were not opened to us, if we were turned out of the house in a similar situation, after doing whatever Sai did, how would you feel?

It's very difficult to put ourselves in ones shoes! No matter what we say now, I think that Until and unless I experience it, I dont know what i might do. Coz for now, i can think rationally, but when it actually happens, we never know how we're gonna react.

Such a unique post. I actually had to think a lot for this!

My responses in pink. Tried to explain my POV 😳

Originally posted by: laksh

@bold could be. But he has asked her to leave the house and that is highly insulting.

ITV, this has already turned into a garbage 😒

It really is......maybe he will apologize but she won't forgive 😳 Let us see

After the hospital visit? Yes, if he truly tries to repent for his mistakes.

No I would never return. Welli would wish him stay happy with your best friend for ever n leave