Will you return to Virat's life if you were Sai? - Page 8

Originally posted by: laksh

I am highly disappointed with him. 😒

Me too that's why I need Sai to make him suffer a little before giving him another chance.

After today's episode Virat has made me forget all the good deeds he has done for Sai. He is very rude even to Aai, Mohit and Usha Mausi. I agree that he is heart broken. But the way he has handled the situation is very very very wrong. Sai should make him suffer a lot before she forgives him. I feel now that it's better for even Aai to get out of the house with Sai and stay away from these "TOXIC PEOPLE".

Absolutely not. First of all who in their right mind would want to live in Chavan Niwas? What a poor excuse for a home it’s a torture chamber

If I were Sai I would simply go to GC, get my Aaba’s money, go to the hostel, and focus on studies. Virat’s pendulum swinging is just something I wouldn’t be able to deal with, and if he insulted someone like my mother the way he did, I don’t think I would be able to forgive that 😳

Sai for sure has made mistakes but this treatment even criminals don’t get they are put inside a jail cell at least. Chavan Saab’s brain has totally stopped working, but alas for a separation track, a character does have to hit rock bottom

I would like Sai to give Virat another chance only and only if he realizes that Pakhi is not only insecure but a bad person as such who knew what the family did with Devi and her baby but still went and fabricated all the plan just and just because that would end up with a rift between Virat and Sai and she could enjoy his company. In short , she hates Sai and her existence in Virat’s life and can go to any lengths to separate them. In fact, Samrat is not present right now which works great for her and if he was to be there , she would go to any lengths to even push him again out of the house to be with Virat. If he gets this realization , he would never be manipulated again. He has to get his lessons that you can’t stop anyone’s food and snatch away someone’s accommodation without any prior notice by not letting them enter and prepare for an exit. Did he even think, her books , clothes, her jewelry ( from her aba) , her important documents, her scholarship money could be inside the house which she needs if she has to go by her own? However angry you are you just can’t take away in a second someone’s basic necessities... Virat has to learn a lot. Sai was always impulsive even though she is right many a times and she needs time to mature and calm ... he needs to remember she is still very young. If he does realize all these things then yes... Sai can give him another chance.

Originally posted by: DeePiku

Absolutely not. First of all who in their right mind would want to live in Chavan Niwas? What a poor excuse for a home it’s a torture chamber

If I were Sai I would simply go to GC, get my Aaba’s money, go to the hostel, and focus on studies. Virat’s pendulum swinging is just something I wouldn’t be able to deal with, and if he insulted someone like my mother the way he did, I don’t think I would be able to forgive that 😳

Sai for sure has made mistakes but this treatment even criminals don’t get they are put inside a jail cell at least. Chavan Saab’s brain has totally stopped working, but alas for a separation track, a character does have to hit rock bottom

I agree with you.

When she married in moved in with him, she didn't realize the extent of his ex's power over him. She definitely came in assuming that it will an arranged marriage set-up , but after living with him for 8 months, seeing that he might still have feelings for his ex (his treatment & trust of Sai vs Pakhi of which she is undeserving) that doesn't let him move on from Pakhi and will be there as a 3rd wheel rest of the life.

After each incident instead of coming close to understanding her, he assumes worst of her. People like aai, Shivani, Mohit and UM have understood her by observing Sai over time. They know that she is impulsive, but she would never take a decision that will harm anyone, esp someone she loves. Right from DIG incident till the latest one of Prof visit, its all be the same cycle.

Just like how Sai adds a brick to her wall after every Virat-Pakhi incident, Virat adds a brick to his wall of insecurities, which makes me think its just lust and habit of Sai for him at this point over love.

All this and after looking at this behavior and how easy it is for Kaku and Pakhi to influence him, this is how they will justify why Sai did what she did but getting Devi married behind his back.

Originally posted by: sukri

I agree with you.

When she married in moved in with him, she didn't realize the extent of his ex's power over him. She definitely came in assuming that it will an arranged marriage set-up , but after living with him for 8 months, seeing that he might still have feelings for his ex (his treatment & trust of Sai vs Pakhi of which she is undeserving) that doesn't let him move on from Pakhi and will be there as a 3rd wheel rest of the life.

After each incident instead of coming close to understanding her, he assumes worst of her. People like aai, Shivani, Mohit and UM have understood her by observing Sai over time. They know that she is impulsive, but she would never take a decision that will harm anyone, esp someone she loves. Right from DIG incident till the latest one of Prof visit, its all be the same cycle.

Just like how Sai adds a brick to her wall after every Virat-Pakhi incident, Virat adds a brick to his wall of insecurities, which makes me think its just lust and habit of Sai for him at this point over love.

All this and after looking at this behavior and how easy it is for Kaku and Pakhi to influence him, this is how they will justify why Sai did what she did but getting Devi married behind his back.

I do think that Virat loves Sai but that love is very new, weak, obsessive, and highly, highly insecure. When love is truly strong - like Aai's, Shivani's, UM's, even Mohit's - you stand by the person and trust them even if they have done a wrong thing.

Given how Virat was thinking about his Holi memories as well, I think he sees this entire thing not just as an insult of the Chakrams, but as an insult of those feelings that he has. Kaku and Didi are also adding to that by making him feel like a husband whose ego was trampled on. Thus it doesn't matter what even Aai was saying - his pride has been bruised and Virat values his pride as much as Sai values hers 😳

We will have to see what writers cook up to give Virat some growth but trust is a huge, huge issue in SaiRat's relationship. Until that hurdle is crossed, this will keep repeating over and over again. But then again, this is all KD's raaj, so we know that there isn't much good that will happen here

I am all for giving a chance if it helps them grow. And what sai done is also not a small thing. They are establishing trust. I would not return if it happens again though. One chance for love is fine how much ever it hurts 🤗

If I were sai, I would return to him for this one time !

I will take out my MS and throw it on his bloody face and walk out with my head helding high

the next day i will file for divorce and throw the papers on his face

lastly directly say it on his Get The F Of My Life

if kid is involve will not separate father-kid bond,he will always remain the father of the kid but he will have no rights to enter my life

he can go back to didi rock and rock her delusional world in real

Originally posted by: DeePiku

I do think that Virat loves Sai but that love is very new, weak, obsessive, and highly, highly insecure. When love is truly strong - like Aai's, Shivani's, UM's, even Mohit's - you stand by the person and trust them even if they have done a wrong thing.

Given how Virat was thinking about his Holi memories as well, I think he sees this entire thing not just as an insult of the Chakrams, but as an insult of those feelings that he has. Kaku and Didi are also adding to that by making him feel like a husband whose ego was trampled on. Thus it doesn't matter what even Aai was saying - his pride has been bruised and Virat values his pride as much as Sai values hers 😳

We will have to see what writers cook up to give Virat some growth but trust is a huge, huge issue in SaiRat's relationship. Until that hurdle is crossed, this will keep repeating over and over again. But then again, this is all KD's raaj, so we know that there isn't much good that will happen here

I wonder if they will show him reflect in his room after he closes the door on her face. That might clear a bit for me. about his feelings. If he really loves her, it will show when he is all alone without external influence of kaku/ Pakhi/aai.

Sometimes you have to go back even if you don’t want to cause of family pressure or “log kiya Kharge”. Real life circumstances are very much different then reel. 😔