Will you return to Virat's life if you were Sai? - Page 5

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Ashwini should have slapped him hard when he disrespected Usha Maushi.. Thats what my mother would have done if I talk an elder who I call Maushi like that... I really want to see how Ashwini treats him when the complete truth is out. I felt so bad for Ashwini when she was pleading Kaku that she was not with Sai in this, when Kaku suddenly started blaming her and it looked like Virat agrees to kaku..So sad for the mother in her who has had just good to think for that son of hers..

All the respect is given to that Hitler Kaku and none to the woman who actually toiled day and night looking after him, tolerated his abusive MCP father and tried to be the best for her family.

Originally posted by: laksh

Sai has hurt Aai too but is not having trust or faith on Sai?

Exactly she has hurt Aai and Shivani Bua both. But she is atleast saying sun le..Uski baat sun kar faisla lo..thats all she said..and she was blasted for that.

Regardless of Sai, Virat today came across as an extremely spoilt man child. He has been put on a pedestal. And Ashwini has added to it by not showing him her hurt and helplessness in the house.

They say na, only when you go through some kind of suffering in life, you evolve as a person. If life has been smooth, the individual remains at the same place. This is shaking up Virat's core. When he realizes the truth, it will be traumatic for him. I really really hope they write those scenes well for Virat and Neil only. (If people know what I mean😉)

But here, Sai will also grow up through this episode. She has acted in a very naïve manner, and she will also face her own trauma, of losing someone she loves, the second time.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

@bold: I am not very sure about this. He listens and believes to whatever Pakhi or Bhavani says or advises. Virat's values there opinion but he doesn't vaule his Aai or his wife's opinion.

See by patriarchal I dont mean he does not listen to women.. He behaves in that manner, the one he did today only with people who are weak not independent and who does not have anyone to back them. Kaku and Pakhi do not fall in that category. And the way when he is angry whatever Pakhi says makes sense to him and Ashwini or Shivani's words which sound more logical , makes no sense to him. In his mind he does not treat them as people who can take decisions in the house. And thats why he does not deems it fit to discuss it with them.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Regardless of Sai, Virat today came across as an extremely spoilt man child. He has been put on a pedestal. And Ashwini has added to it by not showing him her hurt and helplessness in the house.

They say na, only when you go through some kind of suffering in life, you evolve as a person. If life has been smooth, the individual remains at the same place. This is shaking up Virat's core. When he realizes the truth, it will be traumatic for him. I really really hope they write those scenes well for Virat and Neil only. (If people know what I mean😉)

But here, Sai will also grow up through this episode. She has acted in a very naïve manner, and she will also face her own trauma, of losing someone she loves, the second time.

Exactly he deserved one tight slap from Ashwini when he asked Usha Maushi to get out of the house.. In fact not one, three four slaps.

@ Red Sai needs to also have a consequence of what damage can decisions taken in impulse do to her and Virat both. I hope when they reconcile she also understands that she was at fault too , even though her intentions were pure.

Originally posted by: StoicPrince

All the respect is given to that Hitler Kaku and none to the woman who actually toiled day and night looking after him, tolerated his abusive MCP father and tried to be the best for her family whilst maintaining her own sanity in a hell hole like CN.

If Virat can't even respect his loving and caring mother, how would he respect his wife? 😡

Exactly, why does Kaku even deserves more respect than his AAi is something so unfathomable for him.. Him standing and letting Kaku talk like that with his AAi today standing on the other side was shameful. He did fail as a son today for me. Ashwini kept on pleading that she was not with Sai in this move. Can he just not say there, Sai is at mistake why dont you just talk talk about Sai and not bring Aai here.. No he wont say that.. He will just stand quietly and participate in abuse that is hurled at his very own AAi.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Exactly, why does Kaku even deserves more respect than his AAi is something so unfathomable for him.. Him standing and letting Kaku talk like that with his AAi today standing on the other side was shameful. He did fail as a son today for me. Ashwini kept on pleading that she was not with Sai in this move. Can he just not say there, Sai is at mistake why dont you just talk talk about Sai and not bring Aai here.. No he wont say that.. He will just stand quietly and participate in abuse that is hurled at his very own AAi.

More than anyone, his treatment of Aai and Mausi was horrid. I hope Aai stops talking to him. Let him sit and chat with his kaku, father, sonali and PP. I hope the CVs show his remorse at talking like that. He has severe anger management issues. And I refuse to analyse why!

Like many of you here,I was shattered by his rudeness towards Usha maushi. I said it in another post also. He asked her to leave forgetting the fact that she will anyway follow Sai wherever she goes.Moreover,it was him,who requested Usha maushi to come with Sai. I didn’t expect such behaviour from Virat.

He behaved the same way with his mother and Shivani,who is also an elder. He shut up Mohit who just said his line in a decent tone.

Virat is tuned to listen to Patralekha and absorb whatever trash she says. He doesn’t mind her insult his mother. Sai knows this. After all she is the one who observed how he silenced her whenever they have had an argument.

I appreciate how Sai Joshi conducted herself in marriage hall. She knew how Virat felt betrayed by her and she was sad for him. She did not become aggressive at any point but put forward her points with confidence and conviction. Ayesha’s look when he left the hall,conveyed her emotions so well.

I feel Virat was infatuated with Sai’s beauty but not in love at all. No true lover will shut the door on her face at the middle of the night. He was attracted,that’s all.

Do I return if I am in Sai’s place? I don’t think so. It is normal to have fights and serious arguments with our life partner . But this kind of treatment is unwelcome.

I feel Sai loved him more and understood him better. So she must have had her own reasons to return back.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Exactly time and again he has gone back on his words. What is the guarantee he won't do that again. I was defending Virat till yesterday but after today's episode its a No No from me.

Pakhi has huge influence on him. The way he listens and agrees to her and quickly comes in support for her. Only a person you are really attached to or love can have that power on you. Virat is still not over Pakhi and the feelings are much more than friendship. That is what I understood from his behaviour today towards Pakhi.

This is my problem with virat. I have noticed he does not listen to anything pakhi says when he is on good terms with sai, but even then if pakhi says things against sai he is quite the push-over and softie with his responses to pakhi, but the moment he comes on bad terms with Sai he starts to listen to and believe every word Pakhi says to him against Sai and also insults Sai. His behaviour with Sai in comparison to his behaviour with Pakhi has always been very unfair and unjustified.

As I always Sai, sai did mistake but virat behavior is not right here... He could have let her in and tell her we will part our ways , even that is big punishment but Chalo we will assume he punished because he thinks he got cheated.... But door close karna, he even asked Usha mausi to leave, what Didi she do??... So, I really want to discuss about virat but if someone did like this, self respect is the one that hurts....and that is not good at all. ..... If I am in sai place... I might apologize for not letting him know in advance, thank him for whatever he did but would have thought 100 times to return back, if I actually returned that might because of love or something drastic like bullet 🤣🤣