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Posted: 5 years ago
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I am breaking my resolve of not participating and responding because I had to say this.


Virat is misled because of which he is against the marriage not because he is trying to protect the family honor. Secondly, Usha Mausi and Aai have a bigger part to play in this mess. Today they expect him to trust Sai when everything is against her and she was caught red-handed helping Devi elope but yet they don't tell him the complete truth of what happened in two weeks . It was Aai who asked Sai to not share anything with him and Usha Mausi told a big lie to cover up for Sai. I am not saying he should be disrespectful but these two women are part of the gang who has misled him.


If we look at it from his perspective, he had agreed to reinvestigation as per Sai’s request and nothing had changed yet his wife was hatching a plan behind his back. Is he not allowed to feel betrayed. At the end minute, Sai reveals about Devi’s medicine and Pulkit brings some documents. He is expected to digest everything and trust them again when they all have broken his trust including his mother and Mausi. Pulkit could have shared the details with Virat after he knew the letter fiasco from Sai or Sai could have shared the expert doc report about Devi's condition before . The less said the better about Mohit. The guy cannot take a stand for his wife with whom he had a love marriage. If he had assured Karishma of his support , she would have shared what she heard about the kaku gang.


I don’t support his certain actions in today's epi but everyone has played a part in misleading him.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Sai is hitting him where it hurts most for kaku. Their so called high class izzat. I will even revel when she humiliates them. Even if virat has been misled, kept in the dark etc , it doesn't excuse his behavior. He is acting like a savage- no tact or manners and even a little but of humanity. Dunno how they can redeem him from here.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I am breaking my resolve of not participating and responding because I had to say this.


Virat is misled because of which he is against the marriage not because he is trying to protect the family honor. Secondly, Usha Mausi and Aai have a bigger part to play in this mess. Today they expect him to trust Sai when everything is against her and she was caught red-handed helping Devi elope but yet they don't tell him the complete truth of what happened in two weeks . It was Aai who asked Sai to not share anything with him and Usha Mausi told a big lie to cover up for Sai. I am not saying he should be disrespectful but these two women are part of the gang who has misled him.


If we look at it from his perspective, he had agreed to reinvestigation as per Sai’s request and nothing had changed yet his wife was hatching a plan behind his back. Is he not allowed to feel betrayed. At the end minute, Sai reveals about Devi’s medicine and Pulkit brings some documents. He is expected to digest everything and trust them again when they all have broken his trust including his mother and Mausi. Pulkit could have shared the details with Virat after he knew the letter fiasco from Sai or Sai could have shared the expert doc report about Devi's condition before . The less said the better about Mohit. The guy cannot take a stand for his wife with whom he had a love marriage. If he had assured Karishma of his support , she would have shared what she heard about the kaku gang.


I don’t support his certain actions in today's epi but everyone has played a part in misleading him.

I think it was directed towards my post, but to be honest I really understand why Virat is the way he is right now. I am on his side totally. I am just condemning his way of handling his anger. That's it. And also I have never mentioned before, noticed when Janki pointed it out in one of her posts, how disrespectful he was towards Usha Maushi, when Sai left his room and came to reside there and he said tumhari jagah yehi hain..Since then I have been noticing him being a bit disrespectful towards Usha Maushi when there is an altercation with Sai. He can still go against his Aai and Usha Maushi and be a tad bit respectful , when he expects Mohit to do the same with Vehni. I have not seen him this disrespectful towards Kaku, She was at bigger fault during MS episode when the whole thing of her hiding the marriage came out. My only point is , I understand where Virat stands and I his anger towards Sai , but I condemn his behaviour towards few people specially his Aai in a moment of anger..

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I think it was directed towards my post, but to be honest I really understand why Virat is the way he is right now. I am on his side totally. I am just condemning his way of handling his anger. That's it. And also I have never mentioned before, noticed when Janki pointed it out in one of her posts, how disrespectful he was towards Usha Maushi, when Sai left his room and came to reside there and he said tumhari jagah yehi hain..Since then I have been noticing him being a bit disrespectful towards Usha Maushi when there is an altercation with Sai. He can still go against his Aai and Usha Maushi and be a tad bit respectful , when he expects Mohit to do the same with Vehni. I have not seen him this disrespectful towards Kaku, She was at bigger fault during MS episode when the whole thing of her hiding the marriage came out. My only point is , I understand where Virat stands and I his anger towards Sai , but I condemn his behaviour towards few people specially his Aai in a moment of anger..


Aapko sai ka ninad se baat karna yaad hain . Jab amay's wife & other left , ninad tried to open his mouth sai shutted him up by saying aap to rehne hi dijiye baba when virat tried to stop she cutted her off 2


I agree ninad was not defending Shivani , even raised hand on sai , don't give respect to Ashwani & sai still u gave her right to speak him like this if I m right when he was not talking to her he was talking to virat .


I agree virat should not cross limit with elders specially aai but why people only catches his words .


Asmi I accept virat is wrong in throwing sai out as he failed as human & IPS both , if he get suspended I don't care he deserve it .


Can anyone deny in this forum sai, Ashwani , usha do have their contribution in this mess , why should he listen anyone when they never care to inform him anything infact they had time to tell him.


Cgang & pakhi will never dared to tell him anything .


Why should virat trust sai when he saw her doing what he asked her to wait .

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I think it was directed towards my post, but to be honest I really understand why Virat is the way he is right now. I am on his side totally. I am just condemning his way of handling his anger. That's it. And also I have never mentioned before, noticed when Janki pointed it out in one of her posts, how disrespectful he was towards Usha Maushi, when Sai left his room and came to reside there and he said tumhari jagah yehi hain..Since then I have been noticing him being a bit disrespectful towards Usha Maushi when there is an altercation with Sai. He can still go against his Aai and Usha Maushi and be a tad bit respectful , when he expects Mohit to do the same with Vehni. I have not seen him this disrespectful towards Kaku, She was at bigger fault during MS episode when the whole thing of her hiding the marriage came out. My only point is , I understand where Virat stands and I his anger towards Sai , but I condemn his behaviour towards few people specially his Aai in a moment of anger..

It was my collective response to the post under this topic. I am with you on the respect part when it comes to Kaku and Aai. I am not defending his action but sharing why I feel he is this way. He is close to his mom and he takes his anger out on her because he knows she will understand whereas with Kaku he controls himself. It's like how we treat our mother and MIL. We don't use filters when we fight with our mom but with MIL we are careful not because we love MIL more. We can also use the word taken for granted.


I never felt he was rude to Maushi during the room scene. He was stressed and angry on Sai and he never realized he was talking about Maushi. This reminds me of the alta epi where Sai while walking down says to Aai “why are you shouting “, or sounded rude to everyone who heard but the the intention was different. E

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Posted: 5 years ago
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You have gone to something that is much ahead.

Let's discuss this. I am confused with the below things. Clearly I am not asking why is Virat angry or what is making him angry. If not for many, I understand why is Virat angry.


My question is what made him do the below things 🤔.

Can anything in the world make a person or give rights to a person to do it?

I don't know even if was a PG, if my host can do it?

I don't know even if I am a tenant, my landlord can do it?


Pehle in sawaalon ka jawaab dhoondte hain. These are the only questions in my mind right now and will always be there.

What is Virat getting by not opening the door for Sai?

What is Virat getting by turning Sai out of the house like this?

Edited by laksh - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

It was my collective response to the post under this topic. I am with you on the respect part when it comes to Kaku and Aai. I am not defending his action but sharing why I feel he is this way. He is close to his mom and he takes his anger out on her because he knows she will understand whereas with Kaku he controls himself. It's like how we treat our mother and MIL. We don't use filters when we fight with our mom but with MIL we are careful not because we love MIL more. We can also use the word taken for granted.


I never felt he was rude to Maushi during the room scene. He was stressed and angry on Sai and he never realized he was talking about Maushi. This reminds me of the alta epi where Sai while walking down says to Aai “why are you shouting “, or sounded rude to everyone who heard but the the intention was different. E

her tone was disrespectful and I did not like it then. I have mentioned before she needs to tone down and she has worked there.. Today he was downright disrespectful to someone whose gift he accepted with so much love and respect. I can still understand his behaviour towards Aai , but not at all towards Usha Maushi. No situation that he is in can justify his tine and his words hurled at UM for me. I have grown up in an environment where we call our househelps as maushi , tai, bhabhi and have food with them. So no situation can justify his behaviour towards Usha Maushi. Time and again I mention I am disappointed with how Virat was introduced to what he has been turning into. I love Virat and that's the reason why I point out where he is wrong... When Usha said Sai has not played with the honour of the house, that's where he started shouting "that's what she did" and that's where he asked her to get out of the house and hence I mentioned he will realise that he is at the wrong side, there is no honour or respect here.

I have issues with how he deals with his anger and not on why he is angry. Had he let Sai come in, refused to talk to her, told her in strict terms to stay away from him and his family , study , become a doctor and leave or for that matter even went on to drop them to a hostel or a PG, , I would have been at his side.. Throwing two women out of the house at night is something that I dont expect from the Virat that we were introduced to.The way he asked Usha Maushi to get out of the house, with that hand movement was extremely disappointing to see.

Edited by asmi_joya - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

What sai will get from neighbors drama ? If she did that to teach cgang a lesson & for devi then won't it turnout lie when she will return .


I mean it was told neighbours know sai is not liked in CN. After she returns won't they think she did drama for her insult ,as kuch bhi nhi hai jaisa vo keh rahi thi.

This is just a one word answer---Sukoon🤣 if not Sai, we will definitely get it😆

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9


Aapko sai ka ninad se baat karna yaad hain . Jab amay's wife & other left , ninad tried to open his mouth sai shutted him up by saying aap to rehne hi dijiye baba when virat tried to stop she cutted her off 2


I agree ninad was not defending Shivani , even raised hand on sai , don't give respect to Ashwani & sai still u gave her right to speak him like this if I m right when he was not talking to her he was talking to virat .


I agree virat should not cross limit with elders specially aai but why people only catches his words .


Asmi I accept virat is wrong in throwing sai out as he failed as human & IPS both , if he get suspended I don't care he deserve it .


Can anyone deny in this forum sai, Ashwani , usha do have their contribution in this mess , why should he listen anyone when they never care to inform him anything infact they had time to tell him.


Cgang & pakhi will never dared to tell him anything .


Why should virat trust sai when he saw her doing what he asked her to wait .

Why does it has to be about Sai when we are talking about Virat's behaviour with Usha Maushi. Was Usha maushi as disrespectful to Virat or his family as The family towards Sai . He was threatening to hit her and I still dont like her tone towards the family at times, but can we equate Usha Maushi's behaviour towards Virat and Virat's family's behaviour towards Sai? I dont deny Aai and Usha Maushi and Sai are respnsible in this mess, but is it okay that in a fit of anger or because they particpated in this mess, he is allowed to disrespect Usha maushi, ask her to get out of the house at night? Was he disrespectful towards Kaku and gang when on MS CN kaand was revealed? Usha Maushi has always treated Virat with respect, talks with his family with respect, even though she is treated as a maid in the house, she has never raised her voice on anyone. The least she deserved was Virat could have asked her to stay back till she wants and not throw her out that way. Virat definitely knows if Sai is there, Usha Mausi also wont stay back. She does deserve certain degree of respect from Virat, which he fails to give. His hand movement while asking her to leave, its so devastating to watch a man like Virat who respects elders doing that.

Edited by asmi_joya - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

These neighbors won’t do anything even if Devi is brought back home other than gossip and spread rumors . When she said people of CN she included her dear husband as well who is kept in dark by everyone he loves and respects.


They will never do anything but just gossip . If they care they would had stopped Cgang , no one actually take lead bas at ur back they laugh . Every year neighbours go to CN to celebrate Holi


Regarding insulting virat aap bhul rahe only virat has to take stand for sai it's a rule he can't say anything to her , only she is free to humiliate him & walk away

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