Off screen drama - My Views| DT P.3- Page 2

Very well said... See I am not a person who easily get effected by offscreen stuff...I only get effected when I see other onscreen couples from same shows offscreen good pictures posing even when they are married to someone else offscreen like omi- sonali, karishma- Mohit and now devi- pulkit, however it's not much just a thought crossed my that what if Neil engaged to someone out of the crew this might not happen but but immediately I remember myself here we are talking about Neil and Ayesha, as far as I can see both are not that active SM like others...if you see their posts most of them are like someone else clicked ,even they don't have individual reels, they are in someone's else reels... So not posing pics is understandable..... Again ITV there are so many famous couples who don't share good bond offscreen and give offscreen stuff , lucky it's not case in other Neil and Ayesha, they are not just not active in SM.... I Don't know about media but I don't think cast or Neil or Aishwarya ignore Ayesha... coming to offscreen, as I mentioned there are lot of couples with less IVs together but the thing is they used to get lot lot lot of scenes onscreen which satisfy fans, but here we don't get onscreen scenes+get lot of offscreen stuff ...so people are irritated .. I blame CVS more for this than actors.... Bcoz I don't think either Neil or Ayesha or Aishwarya are uncomfortable with sairat scenes.... This is only my opinion.... That I don't think Aishwarya is only at fault, even people are reacting more than necessary.... I am sorry if I hurt anyone

Everybody entitled to their pvt life .. but if they want the show to do very well .. trend and all .. they should not post cosy pics in their costumes.. it’s not necessary to be in love or even be cordial with ur costar .. To each his own ..

but in these days of social media.. the BTS with ur costar would have helped in building hype . if down the line this will turn into a sas bahu show .. then all right ..

frankly looking at BTS pic I felt what problem if samrat ka death news come up .. Sai tries to be Mahan and patched up virat with pakhi . And move out of the house

then after 2 years .. time jump is ready for a new relationship new story .. bye bye Chavans

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The roka established what I had been suspecting through Aishwarya's Insta stories..these two were spending all their time together. I used to follow all 3.

I stopped following Aishwarya honestly become I found her chiraat jokes and constant garba boring after a point🤪

About Ayesha: these are all my speculations only. She probably came to Mumbai against her family's wishes. If you see her friends group they are all young, trying to get a break, or got their first break. This serial is very important for her. Plus, she seems to be a little reserved. If you notice, it's only now Kishori seems to be more affectionate with her. She has taken her time to gell with the cast. Probably she knows Neil the best because they have a lot of scenes together.

She will not jeopardize her relationship with anyone, she will be sweet and diplomatic. This is her career and I am happy she is so focused on her work.

I was most impressed when she mentioned she watches the serial.. probably to watch herself and improve!! Noone does that in the daily soap format.

After what happened since Friday, I have decided a few things. Neil is Virat for me and I will support him and his talent and hard work. The other actor has established she is less interested in her character and her serial. It is her means to an end...spend time with her beau. Fine. Granted. However much she tries to demean Sairat, despite her fiance being a part of it, it only shows her up.

No more of this drama for me. Even on Twitter, I've started barging in on provocative comments saying 'ignore'. Fans need to accept the status quo or move on.

Originally posted by: laksh

I understand, as I have mentioned, the first main concern I used to have was Ayesha getting sidelined. I am able to see a lot of developments and I believe that she doesn't need any publicity stunts to shine. Her work is enough. Imagine, she is dealing with all these and I think she has handled it with very matured. I have seen a few pictures of hers with Ishaan, crew and make uo artists, she seems to be having her own gang.

From what I understood, she is a little sophisticated kind of a person yet humble, not a silly person, hence her company is chosen by her out of her likes and dislikes.

Even if that was not the case, it looks as though people from the crew befriended her, supports her so that she is not left out. I think it could have started that way and now they have a beautiful bond.

None of what the real life couple is going to affect Ayesha or her career.

I think you can try to stay detached thinking how Ayesha would be staying right now. What we know is only through SM, she is in there and yet she is doing an amazing job, having fun too 😍.

Let's support Sairat, will be of great help.

Originally posted by: laksh

This post is only to share my views. It is not to offend or ridicule anyone's thoughts, opinions or beliefs.

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I notice that many are upset with the happenings offscreen. I thought that I will share my views and what I do/have been doing. I fall under minority and mine is an unpopular opinion.

Decided to share my views, that many of us already know, but I thought let me put them in a written form.

To be honest, I just don't care what they do off screen. There used to be a time I was really annoyed with one person's photos and some silly videos appearing all over insta. But, I have developed resistance against silly off screen antics. It no longer bothers me. It actually stopped bothering me when I could see more of Ayesha.

Let me share when I started to even like Ayesha.

I started to watch this show for Neil, I am not a fan of his or have not followed any of his other shows, but I loved the storyline in the promo and liked him in the promo, one could see his acting skills in that too.

I wasn't too impressed with the first few episodes which I didn't even watch, just a few scenes here and there. I was waiting for when the character Virat would meet the character Sai. Hence I started to watch from the episode he was at Gadhchirolli, awarding Sai for her accomplishment.

I started to like Ayesha after I saw her in kurta and not the school award scene where Sai puts the garland around Virat. I started to like her more as days passed, looking at the bond with her Dad and mainly due to the chemistry with Virat. I came to know that this was the first show she was acting as a main lead. Her acting improved as days passed by and we could all see that the girl was giving the best of her.

Neil and Ayesha stole the show for me.

About the offscreen drama

I was mainly upset that Ayesha was being ignored , was not getting enough credit and her limelight was getting stolen by someone whom I found was too silly.

But, I also had a thought that this could all be my assumption and the reality might be something else. Time and again, this thought was only getting proven right.

I kept continuing to question myself, if this could really be happening and if it is, then is it fair on someone who has got a big break, through this show, who seems to be working so hard to establish herself in spite of all the criticism that she gets.

I think the channel, the PH and the actors too started to understand the concerns of fans.

Given how popular Ayesha was getting and due to the concerns raised by the fans, I think they started to give a face to her, started to interview her, involve her in offline segments, ensure they share BTS of her too.

Well, this was the point I started to get happy, was happy that she was getting what she deserved and also that the concerns and complaints weren't going to deaf ears.

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It was kind of getting too annoying or a little upsetting to see that the lead wasn't interested to even interact with his coactor, with the on screen partner, was interviewed more with the protagonist than the antagonist, was always posing pictures with many others and one in particular.

I used to question myself if I even have right to think these, if I am being too silly to even let these affect me because it is their business, also because I am not aware of the entire picture and I was making assumptions yet again.

I gave it a thought as, what if it could be that the onscreen partner (Ayesha) wasn't interested, was not into social media (which we did learn is true, is also an introvert), did not gel well with the male lead, couldn't share the same wavelength, was interested to hang out with other friends.

Well, we all know that sometimes, we cannot get along well with a neighbour or our team mate or room mate and hence it was highly probable here too.

But, from whatever we have noticed, have gathered, the issue has never been that they never got along well, it is just that they were interested in other's company more. They preferred someone else's company. That doesn't mean that they don't interact at all, but not as much as their own friends or group. It all made sense.

I must say, that I was in a way happy when they shared the news of their Roka.

The roka helped me understand that the reason they were spot more together, the reason there were many pictures and videos was because they shared a relationship.

The news of roka was good because, I was happy with the fact that one actress wasn't actually getting ignored, things were happening not because they did not respect or value her, not because people were smitten by the other actress, it was all because they were a couple.

Well again, that doesn't or need not justify all the actions, but to me atleast, it wasn't because no one cared for Ayesha or that there was something seriously wrong between the male lead and the protagonist. That would be a matter of concern.

The matter of concern for me would have been if the leads weren't getting along well, because that will be reflected on screen.

I was connected to the show and only because of the show, did I even get start to get pictures of my feed. Hence, my only concern will be when the onscreen content is not satisfactory, only when that gets affected.

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And about insta getting flooded with just one's picture, or pictures that many fans dont like, it just shows the nature of the person. We are all not the same, we have varying interests, taste, thought process, belief, behaviour, etc.,

There are many who likes to take a lot of selfies in just an hour's time, well it is their nature and their wish. Some tone down over a period of time, they get bored and stop it.

There are some who would backoff looking at other's reaction and some who might do it more to challenge others, to instigate others. Everyone need not be reacting to a situation in the same way. It depends on their thought process, self control, beliefs, maturity level and mainly their attitude.

They might look at themselves later and even laugh at how they once used to be, a little self obsessed, addicted to camera, attention seeking or silly.

Only they can stop themselves, they might either learn looking at others, develop a similar trait or can get embarased and learn it or outgrow such behaviour, become simple, act matured or humble.

My policy is simple.

Anyone who acts too silly or who tries to gain a lot of attention will be the ones who will get no attention from me, not even dislike. They become non existent to me. Such people actually has power to affect us in many ways to tell the truth.

They can spoil our mood, our day, even corrupt our thought process. The only way to get rid of such people are to block them, not on social media accounts, block them mentally.

To be frank, I was least bothered with anything that has been happening the past few days.

My mantra being simple, don't care as long as onscreen content is not compromised, actors and their efforts are not compromised.

I would only say that after how fans had raised issues that the leads weren't promoting the show and the off screen couple were promoting themselves, they gave us new promos, new offline pictures too, ensured that the leads promote the show on their accounts by sharing the onscreen couple's pictures.

Why do we have to let others affect us? They are not related to us in anyway. They are only actors of the show we all decided to watch.

We all need this strength to fight against any injustice done to the story of the show or any of the actors, not worth using it for anything else.

Let's all enjoy the show together.

hey laxmi the one I marked is the only thing I feel, honestly I don’t even know why I started watching the serial was not a fan of Neil have seen him diya and bati that’s the only time I rem, even ayesha and aish where not known to me.

May what attracted me was the promo by rekhaji and said Ali khan, ppl assume this is based on the love story of Rekhaji and Amitji. As I never used to get time to watch tv till today I watch anything is on my phn, I guess it was near Samrakhi wedding thing I started watching but never followed the too with time when I saw Sairat fights and humor that interested me,

For me it’s always show yes no doubt u like some actor and actresses but then I alway cares about the character never attached to the actor. For me what matters was Sairat and the actor playing. I enjoyed watching them their chemistry. Regarding their personal life nor I am interested nor I pay attention, I shared a post of Ayesha interview I specifically mentioned the last para attracted me which stated changes in dynamic of the character,

We should understand they have their personal life, in that personal life they may be friends or colleagues or co-actors not necessarily they have to side tracked, there many actors who can’t stand each other,

If I rem Hina khan herself told that she and Karan never spoke on sets right from start but they had good chemistry, Shweta tewari and Cezane Khan couldn’t stand each other but ppl rem their chemistry.
as long as the show is not affected who cares what they do in their personal life. But there are many actors who doesn’t gel with one another yet they do have good relationships with their partners.

Honestly I have never followed their personal life much. Theek hai Yaar sabki apni hoti hai. I know being actors their personal life isn’t there, but then how to keep it personal is also in their hand. Well the only thing in the entire fiasco which I understand is Neil and Ayesha were already part of the industry, yes they got their chances Ab but they know how industry work. Regarding Aishwarya I don’t even if she has done any other show before this coz I even dint knew her name. If she shares pics of her and Neil that’s coz they are together. What she does what she doesn’t it’s her perception I am sure she must be knowing why she is doing.

She is agitating the fans Aur fans are misunderstanding her that’s completely every individual perception. Unless and until it’s is not impacting the chemistry of Sairat. What I have understood with the concept of the show that there are three leads and the main story will be revolving around Sairat as they are the positive leads. What aishwarya can not take is the bashing of the ppl foe her character then she needs to understand if ppl are bashing her for the character it means she is playing it good (leaving the acting part)

who ever had played negative or grey shade Character has faced this. There many actors who share ppl come up them and say plz don’t do that this is not right they have taken it positively. Infact they feel good about it that they are justifying the character. With Aishwarya the prob if I look on the outer side. Is not able to take the negative comments may be that’s coz in past she hasn’t faced one. She needs to understand that ppl will comment on her and she needs to ignore. And so does fans. Why to even think kya bol rhi hai Kya kar rhi hai. What every she does she can’t change the fact the show is for Sairat and on Sairat. And same applies to fans also. Until and u less the ph is giving us good story and Sairat that should not be any bodies prob.

In personal life of time and again she is saying and posting her and neils pic that coz they are couple today the show is there tomorrow when it ends they will be the one who will still stay together. So better ignore and it’s her account she can post whatever she like.

A person will ripe what every they bow. Why do we care I don’t get. Bhaisab unki life hai Kuch bhi kare. I am concerned about the show and the Sairat jab tak I am getting that who cares personal life main kya chal rha hai.

Sidha funda I don’t like anyone meddling in my personal life and the same I do I don’t meddle in ones personal life. I don’t comment on them personally, yet if it’s still affecting better ignore. Ignore her Kab tak karegi when ppl ignore her she won’t have anything much left.

And no one is understanding aap khud usse limelight man laa rhe ho. Whatever she does let her do. U discuss, u agitate and u bring her in limelight. In this industry bad publicity is also publicity. And personally no body knows what sort of a person she is. Most of the actors of the set says she is funny wity full of energy. May be she is one. Just coz the character u don’t like. Which was actually meant to be not liked by ppl. Fans are attacking her personally and she too can’t take this much hate coz she is not use to. At this time it’s better to ignore for her and for us . Focus on story and Sairat that’s it

Interesting perspective. Same for me , I don't really think much about it now. No use of treating actors with kids gloves, we are all entitled to like whatever we want. We have too much expectation from actors. They do whatever they want , we can criticise whatever we want to. However , it shouldn't tax our mental health. Just comment and move on.

Interesting POV , yeah I kind of build a shield now their off-screen stuff I don't care but I root for SaiRat I will love them ,I will be all OK if SaiRat is not affected , but makers should also ensure few things too no name calling nothing give respect take respect

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Nice perspective..

After yesterday's drama i hv been thinking, earlier days were better..no SM..v were least bothered abt the offscreen equation/ dynamics..v never had that much exposure..

Now with increased influence and exposure SM has brought, things hv changed drastically..its not only character but ppl now r getting attached to actors playing that character as well..they hv got exposure to their personal life n since its posted on public platform, fans praise/ bash them

After yesterday's drama i hv kind of got detached..i was never attached to this show per se but saw random Sairat scenes n then enjoyed their chemistry, nok-jhok..i got attached or invested in Sairat..

I dont care abt the offscreen drama ..n i strongly feel that it was good that Aishwarya- Neil came out in open abt their relationship before Sairat offscreen shipping started..otherwise ths wud hv been further toxic..but then we r spending our precious time in watching ths show so they hv to respect fans..insulting them s not the option..n as fans v shd actually be more concerned abt Sairat..if tht is compromised, v hv all right to bash them..accept the fact that v wil not get any offscreen pictures from the leads n move on..v can't do much abt it anyways..

Bounderies should b followed from both the ends..

this show off-screen drama can beat the trps of Naagin 1 Anupama Kumkum Bhagya Jodha Akhbar where trps soar up to 4.5🤣

except for ayesha the whole cast is toxic just forget their whole existence and focus on the fictional characters thats it

I never cared abt their off-screen dynamics dosti, shaadi break up,divorce karo who the F cares but when you are at a place of work behave focus and deliver thats my motto

Unfollowed all the cast except ayesha. I don’t want to see any BTS be it good or bad. I am not gonna waste my time on offscreen, I end up feeling stupid.

Result from the drama for past few days - more publicity and attention. Waste of my time and getting riled up unnecessarily.

like someone pointed out, care more about the drama onscreen. That’s what I am going to do. Watch the show until am bored of it. I hope the lockdown will get me more detached.

coming to think about it, she gave us wise advise, if we don’t like we should block or move on.