All back to the word "hate" - Page 2

Originally posted by: samarp2

yaa..for Sangeet he comes for his Amma, but wont be able to ignore Pallu, as its her family sangeet😆

thats so true, they just cant stay away from each other...so they put this anger relation with each other..

yaa..hate should be limited, not overdo

Kabhi kabhi anna aur pallu overdo kar detha hain..

They r such cuties. They can fight n make up all they want 😆

Originally posted by: christobelle

I always think Hate or Hatred is a very big word.

I know that Raghav was hurt by his family's distrust n misunderstanding towards him. And Pallavi also misunderstood his intentions.

But I feel Raghav is being immature too, he should have let Farhad explain the circumstances in prior to his family too abt ved n all the life threatening stuff. Raghav definitely shouldn't have used short way to make Pallavi win coz he knows that Pallavi isn't the typical girl who wants something from him. He should have known that if he does something like that it would only make her more angry.

So Raghav saying he hates Pallavi looked childish to me. How could he forget that she saved his life n helped him in these days just for one reason he can't go back to like nothing happened. Even Farhad thought he was going overboard with things. Raghav needs to control his temper !

I could get Pallavi's hate a bit. She suspected that Raghav played the typical prank on her so that he would ridicule her as he always does it. She had so much pressures behind her too due to Raghav. And her beloved baba misunderstanding her n etc. She could feel the hate. But she should have known by now that Raghav is simply childish , he has helped u like this before too. As harish too told u , he just comes off wrong.

But all logical thinking of both goes to drain, only their egos remain. But I still think "Hate" is a big word to be used between those two after all those moments

Raghav is a short tempered guy and Pallavi also never tried to explain about her family disapproval about their meetings. She should have made it clear.. may be Anna would have maintained some distance... In between this communication gap neither both of them knows other ones perspective of the situations which are ultimately resulting in chaos... Anna always intrude pallavi in wrong situation so does she... They have to sit for sometime and discuss the situations... But this is TV land.. aisa kuch hone wala nahi hain..

But one thing we should appreciate makers is the situation they created which resulted in sinking the budding relation between both...

But this hate is different from earlier hate 😆

This hate is not actually I hate you wala hate but I do care about you but I hate you wala hate.

So don't hate this hate because this is not actually hate.

Originally posted by: __VIHU

I felt Raghav today... In previous 10 years, I think he must’ve tried to explain himself a lot and is done doing that. For once he want people, who’re so important to him, to try and ask him for once that “Why?”

He just feels that they don’t care enough, because when we do, we actually try to seek answers to our “why” instead of hurling accusations.

With Pallavi, she doesn’t know him that well... Agreed. Then again I think I heard him say “Hadn’t you been caught in that shooting, you’d have fairly won, so I thought...” At that time all he needed was an explanation about where he went wrong.

The explanation didn’t mattered to Pallavi, the intentions were trivial... All mattered was right and wrong... And Raghav was conveniently categorised🥺

Totally agree with you. He just had enough and the loneliness is a heavy weight that is crushing him. The one person he had that banter with is back again on opposite sides of the fence, even though he had tried his best to protect her from Lion. I think his hurt today was almost as deep if not deeper than in that scene where he sobs at home after his mother refuses to let him pay respects to his late father and brother. Sais was brilliant in that scene.

He sent his Amma and sister away to protect them, almost got killed himself while worrying for their safety, but no one seemed to worry for him, or think about his wellbeing. The one who did, seemed to turn against him today. He's just mad at the world in general, and the level of anger he has this time for Pallavi is different from the the initial days, where it was more about his ego and stubbornness. This time he is hurt about being misunderstood by yet another person who he may not consider 'special' just yet, but who he does care about and genuinely wanted to help. Not only that, he felt she was deserving of that award because he had it in her to win. He had no malice or ulterior motive when he decided to help her, yet it backfired on him.

I am really glad he told Pallavi his thought process about the competition and his belief that she had been deserving. Yet when she ticked him off, he threw all that back in her face by negating her abilities and trying to make her feel worthless, hitting her where he knew it hurt most .She will think back to his words later on when she tries to piece together the puzzle that is Raghav Rao. He doesn't understand the challenges she faces but when he will, his entire perspective will change about her nature and her ongoing struggles. How she is imprisoned by the words and emotions of an underserving 'family', how her heart longs to soar and travel the skies, and how her surroundings chain her to the ground. I see her as a little chick trying to learn to fly, who is aware that life is uncertain but that she must try if she is to survive.

He is a smart, considerate man and has seen enough of Pallavi to be unable to dismiss her that easily. She is there on his subconscious and often conscious mind. Farhad saw it and realized what was going on with both of them and squirming through the whole thing. He knew that his Anna was starting to throw away the only good thing that had started to happen in his life but he also knew that the hurt in Raghav, especially after the clash with Keerti, was boiling over. It had to come out, there was no other way. And as they say, we often take our anger out on those with whom we feel we can, and he did.

Raghav's does have a bad temper but I don't think he was always like this. In flashbacks, he appears to have been a sweet young boy. He probably made a mistake out of naivety or the brashness of youth, but never meant for all that those things to happen. The encounter with Keerti drove home the point that while he does miss his mother terribly, he also missed his one and only sister, one he would've doted on and pampered, whose every happiness he had tried to take care of as she was growing up. Gives me Agneepath vibes. Seeing her supposedly 'dating' someone else, potentially someone special and not knowing about it really upset him. It made him feel even more of an outsider that he was not privy to such a major thing in his life, which he took out on Akash of course.

Often when we have issues with our parents, our siblings can be our biggest allies and the bridge between us and the parents. Raghav gets none of that, and Keerti not only doesn't look up to him as her big brother, she doesn't seem to care for him. At least, that's what it appears to him - we know she does care a whole lot and feels worried for him. That momentary concern on her face when she heard his life was in danger, made it quite obvious that she loves him and worries for him. I think when Keerti was growing up and seeing her mother suffer, it built up a lot of anger and resentment in her towards her brother because whether or not she blamed him for losing half her family, she saw her mother's pain all these years. As her mother ages, she must worry what would happen to her when she is all alone in the world. Match this with Raghav's frustration that she needn't feel insecure, that he was there to protect her and look after her, and fulfill his duties as an elder brother would, almost as a father figure in the absence of her father. The other sibling he had is no more and she is all he has after his mother. But all she does is ignore him and tell him to stay out of her life. I have younger siblings and I can imagine how much that hurts.

I think Pallavi is going to get into major trouble and he will be torn between his determination to make her life hell vs. his innate generosity towards people, especially one who has saves his life, like her. It won't be about his ego, rather he will be afraid to trust in case he gets hurt again, because today a part of him felt that Pallavi had betrayed his trust but accusing him of ill intent when he had none. Likewise, Pallavi was upset because she expected he would know better what would hurt her. She brought all her baggage from the Deshmukh circus, I mean taunt, sessions and dropped them like hot coals on him instead of showering him with thank yous.

Raghav may have said it in anger but it's true, Pallavi ka man uske ghar mein nahin lagta, issi liye woh kabhi bhi Raghav ke ghar jaati hai. If only he knew how toxic the atmosphere in her home was that drove her to the house of someone like him... She feels more at home in his home than in her home.

PS I'm seriously thinking about getting a tire and hammer for my room, great to take your anger out, and Sai/Raghav is a sight to behold bashing that tire in anger.

Originally posted by: christobelle

Raghav has the child in him who still needs n craves for affection from his beloved ppl. He wants to do something for him n get their appreciation for him. He wants them to know that he is capable of bringing happiness n protection to them.

But one thing he fails to get is the perspective of others. I really felt sad today when Raghav cried, he just wants someone to tell him that he did well or just wants someone to ask him y he did this !

He also wanted good for Pallavi but came off wrong. Pallavi takes into account everyone , for her everyone's efforts for the competition was lost due to her unfair winning , that hurts her pride. And for Raghav what matters is just his family n even Pallavi as he mentioned.

He cared enough for her to think abt her. I feel this is just the start of war of their views.

I just feel both need fresh air away from family. If Pallavi leaves Hyderabad. She could think abt herself n her own wishes.

That time could serves as a reminder for Raghav that Pallavi has also become an essential part for him.

Both r such flawed characters , that's what I love RaghVi esp Raghav

The background song they used to play for him earlier on, which I really miss (Maa from KGF) was just perfect for him. He craves that affection from his amma and misses being her laadla.

I too loved that they are flaws. Pallavi tries to do good but is not mahaan (yet) and can be quick to judge others. No wonder, Anna's men keep telling her to see his other side. 😉

Raghav's anger clouds his judgement and today he downright insulted her, which brought out the fighting spirit in her. I know he's challenging her and threatening to get her out of Hyderabad by pulling all stops, but she in turn tucks her saree in and challenges him back. I am pretty sure he loves that and subconsciously thrives on it because it gives him an opening to engage with her, even if through fights. Of course, he doesn't realize any of this yet but Harish and Farhad do.

Originally posted by: subbuappu

Raghav is a short tempered guy and Pallavi also never tried to explain about her family disapproval about their meetings. She should have made it clear.. may be Anna would have maintained some distance... In between this communication gap neither both of them knows other ones perspective of the situations which are ultimately resulting in chaos... Anna always intrude pallavi in wrong situation so does she... They have to sit for sometime and discuss the situations... But this is TV land.. aisa kuch hone wala nahi hain..

But one thing we should appreciate makers is the situation they created which resulted in sinking the budding relation between both...

Definitely the communication is missing n we can't except them to have communication too, coz they r practically strangers. They don't have any friendship or sorts to sit n clear up everything.

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

But this hate is different from earlier hate 😆

This hate is not actually I hate you wala hate but I do care about you but I hate you wala hate.

So don't hate this hate because this is not actually hate.

Sab bouncer gaya 🙄

Originally posted by: inlieu

The background song they used to play for him earlier on, which I really miss (Maa from KGF) was just perfect for him. He craves that affection from his amma and misses being her laadla.

I too loved that they are flaws. Pallavi tries to do good but is not mahaan (yet) and can be quick to judge others. No wonder, Anna's men keep telling her to see his other side. 😉

Raghav's anger clouds his judgement and today he downright insulted her, which brought out the fighting spirit in her. I know he's challenging her and threatening to get her out of Hyderabad by pulling all stops, but she in turn tucks her saree in and challenges him back. I am pretty sure he loves that and subconsciously thrives on it because it gives him an opening to engage with her, even if through fights. Of course, he doesn't realize any of this yet but Harish and Farhad do.

I wouldn't say Pallavi to be mahaan . She is just burdened by the thing called ehsaan which she thought is given by her in laws by treating her like their daughter n taking her in. That's y she works her ass off n listen to every bs of them.

Raghav always likes to rile up Pallavi. He finds fun with Pallavi coz she is the only girl who looks up at him without any ulterior motive. So he will play this game, but when she goes away he will miss her like hell!!