Aakhir kya kum hai ya kaun kam hai Sai ke zindagi mein? - Page 2

It looks that she has everything in life but still she dont have wife rights & husband's love which is lacking in her life that's why she could not fill her maang .

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

It looks that she has everything in life but still she dont have wife rights & husband's love which is lacking in her life that's why she could not fill her maang .

Haina,her body language and that frame,she hesitating to fill her maang,Virat being there, but still that slight errr... feeling, so,yes clearly the complete rights here lacking might be the reason.

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Okay,so this is observation and related thoughts which I wanted to clear and know your opinions on.

Well,do you all remember the promo after Sairat marriage, the one with aakhir kya kam hai Sai ki zindagi mein.

Well,in that promo, it showed Sai, that why is Sai still not happy after her maariage. Even though she has a supportive husband, a respected(lets not talk about this one) family and also a dream. Then still why is all this light still equivalent to darkness.

Ek accha pati,

Izzatdaar parivaar,

Aur uska ek sapna bhi hai.

Par phir bhi kuch kam sa hai,aakhir kya kami hai Sai ke zindagi mein.

This last line,it was shown that Virat and Sai are only in that frame,and Sai hesitates to apply the sindhoor. And Virat walks away,and it plays asking what is missing in Sai's life.

What exactly did it signify? That Sai has lost her freedom or I felt that she has that sindoor(Virat) but she cannot claim rights on him as it is shown he walks away. So,does it mean absence of Virat in a partial way is equivalent to darkness in her life. Was is dissatisfaction.

I do want to know your opinions on this. What were your thoughts of this promo.

P.S.:Sorry ,if something similar was already posted❤

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The sense of belonging in a marriage, the haq, the feeling of being with your partner knowing you are together for better and worse in every situation no matter what..

i think that is a basic expectation any spouse has..

for her, the marriage is still a deal and so by saying it out loud she is not only reminding others but herself as well. She is trying her best to detach from virat...

Conservational mindset says: a woman needs a good husband and izzatdar parivar to be happy.

Modern thinking says: a person needs a dream to be happy.

Sai has everything that a person needs to be happy. So can she be unhappy? as it is a fictional character, many people will say yes. But if it was a real girl, people will assume automatically she has everything.

Many people think that a person should have a few things that makes a person happy. A person's reality is never shown on the outside. people can see things, positions, that make it perfect. But a person's heart is a deep cave that is dark. only the person has access to those dark space. People can see the beauty of the engravings on the outside of the cave but no one tries to look deep inside that cave, because that place is often scary. Just assume for a second, a little girl is stuck deep inside the cave and doesn't know how to come out. She is scared and sobbing. the cave will resound with her sobs. The nearer someone gets the more he can hear the sobs and get scared. Instead of hearing the pain that person will get scared and will want to run away.

So instead of going inside and see the truth, people talk about the grandeur and beauty and perfection of the cave. So people judge and describe the caves and totally ignore the dark recesses of a person's heart. they close their eyes and ears.

Another thing is the grandeur they see on the outside reminds them of their own lack. Suppose a girl has everything that Sai does (things given in the promo) except for one thing a dream, Because she doesn't have a dream, her time will spend in envying Sai. it will not occur in the wildest of her dreams that she could be unhappy. It happens almost always.

This is why we see so many people judging everyone based on what they have. She is a film actress, she is rich, she has everything. She cannot have any pain in life etc.

At least this is what I think.

It’s just my opinion I have no clue if I am right or wrong

But somewhere Sai doesn’t like Pakhis interference. In initial episodes when viru wanted sai to take pakhi’s help in guiding or anything she used to refuse that she doesn’t need her help.

The fact that her husband is her but still not her. Yes eventually she is getting everything but still she is not getting the space. Sai and Virat has emotional connection with each other but what more she wants every girl has this thing whether she is happy in a marriage or not that her husband 1st and last love should be for her.

And Pakhi staying in that house and interfering gives her clear indication that she might have the status of the wife but she won’t get that place in the heart

Obviously the dynamics are changing but when u know a person is ur spouse 1st love and u see that person everyday reminds of what she lacks

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So , i once wrote an article about it as well, i will repeat it here..

The sentence has dual meanings

1) Even the families ehich look perfect and izzatdaar can be social criminals, like chavans no pun intended.

2) From Sai pov , she has everything a girl can ask for from others perspective, but grom her perspective everything apart from her dream to become a doctor comes with an expiry date..

Initially when I saw the promo I thought she isn’t happy because it’s a deal marriage not the regular one .yesterday while watching the old episodes I came across the episode where she says something to GC people “You guys are forcing me to marry the man I despise the most“

Now when I think I feel she wasn’t happy because she married a guy she didn’t like .Her refusing to apply sindoor means she is not accepting this marriage .

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Okay,so this is observation and related thoughts which I wanted to clear and know your opinions on.

Well,do you all remember the promo after Sairat marriage, the one with aakhir kya kam hai Sai ki zindagi mein.

Well,in that promo, it showed Sai, that why is Sai still not happy after her maariage. Even though she has a supportive husband, a respected(lets not talk about this one) family and also a dream. Then still why is all this light still equivalent to darkness.

Ek accha pati,

Izzatdaar parivaar,

Aur uska ek sapna bhi hai.

Par phir bhi kuch kam sa hai,aakhir kya kami hai Sai ke zindagi mein.

This last line,it was shown that Virat and Sai are only in that frame,and Sai hesitates to apply the sindhoor. And Virat walks away,and it plays asking what is missing in Sai's life.

What exactly did it signify? That Sai has lost her freedom or I felt that she has that sindoor(Virat) but she cannot claim rights on him as it is shown he walks away. So,does it mean absence of Virat in a partial way is equivalent to darkness in her life. Was is dissatisfaction.

I do want to know your opinions on this. What were your thoughts of this promo.

P.S.:Sorry ,if something similar was already posted❤

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Ek accha pati jiska dil bahut bada hain ki, ek nahin do reh sakte hain . (According to her) Thats the source of her misery