Sai’s walls ( discussion post ) - Page 3

Originally posted by: SathyaT

Earlier around 7am if we come to forum, used to see handful of posts to discuss current day's episode 😆 these days as nothing much to discuss on regular episodes we are recycling older episodes 😆😆 like typical wifey I remember last year October one Thursday you said this thing to me 🤣

Just for fun 😆😆

Mostly the episodes are discussed in the EDT thread , hence less post

Originally posted by: jane_austen

Would love to hear the "heavy and deep"......at your leisure.

Sure 😊, I am not able to give my inputs now. Sorry about that.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

This topic will not lighten the mood. It will pave way for more intense discussion.

Regarding the scene, all I can say is we need to give him some benefit of the doubt. He was going through a lot at that time and he might have said few hurtful things but holding this against him is unfair. Let's not forget that Sai has said so many hurtful things and some are worse than this and Virat has never taken it to his heart. He has been gracious enough to understand and move on. I hope Sai has done the same.

This is just my observation no offence meant. I sometimes feel Sai gets away with a lot of things while every small mistakes of Virat is highlighted, detected and used to justify Sai’s indifference.

Originally posted by: idkwhattoput

No woman with self respect will attach herself to a man already committed to someone else. Not everyone is Pakhi. Sai is an examplery young girl, as of now she still knows Virat is in love with Pakhi and committed to her, so there’s no scope for her here and she will stop herself from feeling anything a wife should feel for a husband because according to her the marriage isn’t real. Virat himself is the one who stressed on this so much in earlier days, now suddenly he’s changed his opinion and wants Sai to read his actions but he was very vocal when he stressed on the deal marriage and repeatedly reminded her (like the scene above and many other scenes) and it’s good that Sai has still stood her ground and not gotten attached.

No man is worth losing your self respect. Unless and until Virat makes it clear to both the women about his changing feelings and the how the promise is no longer applicable, Sai shouldn’t fall in love.

She respects him as her caretaker/guardian and has done things for him many times (few examples being — getting pakhi back and apologising to her, going to DIG office for his job, etc)

Originally posted by: SathyaT

Earlier around 7am if we come to forum, used to see handful of posts to discuss current day's episode 😆 these days as nothing much to discuss on regular episodes we are recycling older episodes 😆😆 like typical wifey I remember last year October one Thursday you said this thing to me 🤣

Just for fun 😆😆

i have quit watching the episodes after letter drama. i will start watching once the separation track starts. cannot tolerate an 18 yr old doing all the work and a bunch of so called mature people trying to stop her.

Originally posted by: notaquitter

Sorry for the clickbait guys 😅

You tricked us with a wrong title 😂😂

It is just that we have come past all this and atleast us as audience know what he feels. Today if I look at it, it was in a way good that they had this scene too because we will be able to tell how Virat felt and when his feelings started to change.

And about Sai's walls, we all know why her wall is up. Also, I have always felt that if Pakhi wasn't in that house, she might have been able to see Virat in a different light. Her jeethi jaathi self in CN and her interference is the main reason for that wall at the moment.

Sai was once reminded of how Virat asked

"Mujhse bhi nahi" when she said "iss ghar mein pyaar karne laayak koi nahi".

She would have been made to think a lot of his good deeds, his words, his support, his flirting, his advances towards her if if Pakhi didi wasn't in that house. There is more to this.

I am feeling too sleepy and don't want to get into such heavy topics now.

Woke up a few hours back in the middle of the night and then decided to check the written update 😂😂. Will try to get some sleep now. Will come back to this thread again tomorrow.

Until then, have fun 😂❤

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

I think it is very unfair to expect from sai to forget those virat words. Agree sai also says hurtful words in anger but that can't be compared with what virat said & done. Virat many times made sai feel unwanted/third angle between him & pakhi. He is still doing it intentionally or unintentionally. Even in recent epi he insulted sai by inviting pakhi in hubby wife talks. He knows what sai thinks about him & pakhi. He knows sai doesn't like pakhi coming to their room late night. He knows the way pakhi leaves no chance to put sai down. Still he never set boundaries between him & pakhi, he allowed her comment on sai & his marriage whenever she wants, he still want sai to understand his bf & befriend her. So what should sai decipher from all this. Still she should give into his advances? There are many instances where sai tried to remove walls but the next moment virat does something which makes sai go back to her old self. I can say there are many reasons for sai to not love virat. She is the person who gives double love to the one's who love her. Once she knows virat loves only her she will love him more than anyone. Irrespective of deal marriage, umeet mat rakhna all that till now sai never let anyone speak ill about virat. Be it her giving back to college girls,family,pakhi when she called virat dokebaaz. She never tolerated virat insults sadly can't say same for virat.

Sai confuses Virat as much he confuses her . She never let’s go off an opportunity to push him towards Pakhi. Asking him to get rose for Pakhi , asking Pakhi to get him food makes Virat believe that she doesn’t like him and is not interested in him . Let’s not forget she was the one to make statement like I won’t marry even if he the last person on this earth and many times brings up deal marriage . Virat won’t open up about his feelings and show his vulnerable side for a girl with the fear of getting hurt . He hasn’t given up either he keeps throwing hints with the hope that he will get some positive response fro herwhich will make him feel she is ready for this relationship. I don’t see any such efforts from her to understand his changed feelings . Many people like Tai, Pulkit , Shivani and Aai have pointed about Virat’s love for her yet she overlooks all that and is struck at words uttered during the marriage . He has directly said few things which makes it clear that she is important to him . Some efforts is needed from her as well

Originally posted by: notaquitter

Mostly the episodes are discussed in the EDT thread , hence less post

Got it and as well as nothing much there to separate posts too 😜

Originally posted by: raji02

i have quit watching the episodes after letter drama. i will start watching once the separation track starts. cannot tolerate an 18 yr old doing all the work and a bunch of so called mature people trying to stop her.

I am also waiting for separation track, watching recent episodes in FF 🙄 earlier used to watch twice and all...

Sai does not love him yet. But she's definitely grown attached to him and his family though and ever since the marriage, even though its a deal she does get affected by virat- pp relationship. She also craves his support. She doesn't need it but when Virat stands by her she definitely feels stronger. She cares about him too as evidenced by how she reacted when he didnt reach home and she took food to the hospital. She also saved his job even though virat really hurt her with his accusations because she cared for him. She swallowed her pride and brought pp back because she felt that virat was affected by her absence even though she did nothing wrong .Right now shes too preoccupied with devi/pulkit abd makers are not giving us a scene of her missing Virat. So she cares a lot. But she puts on a facade snd her walls are up because she values her self respect too much. She is also not as obviously demonstrative in her love either. That has to do with many factors- her being an only child, having a single parent and growing up in GC with people like jagtap etc harassing her. Toh her personality and demeanor is the opposite of virats.

Sai ke nok jhok aur gusse mein his uska pyaar/concern bhi hai. Even with her dad she often bossed him around. She does value everything Virat has done for her and has said thank yous as well but she will not let her guard down until she knows that Virat has truly moved on from pp. As grateful as she is for Virats support, it must definitely affect her when she is reminded/made to feel either by him or others that she is only a zimmedari, everything he does for her is out of farz, not genuine love that a husband has for wife, she is burdened under the bojh of his ehsaan on her. And that feeling of being "indebted" is not pleasant especially for a girl like Sai who values her swabhimaan a lot. She is doing her best to stand tall despite everything the family says to her and despite being told by her husband that this shaadi is only out of an obligation to her dead father and he is already committed to someone else. It was a big deal for Sai to accept such a marriage. She did it in a situation of desperation/grief and when she was being forced and now she finds herself in this difficult position where she is getting attracted and attached to him and has forged bonds with several of his family members to. To actually realize shes in love will take a while. Even Virat has not realized he loves Sai yet.