Shaurya has no love for himself nor for anokhi

Love can have different meanings...but in all meanings..we can never hurt the person we love with all our heart..however angry..our conscience will prick us...but all this is not valid for a person who has no self love...shaurya has a feeling of being unwanted always...which is covered by pride and pampering by the Sabharwals..

So as of now shaurya is having just a feeling of possession for anokhi which leads to uncontrollable mad jealousy...as it is..possessiveness and jealousy are never measures of love..for now shaurya is stuck here..

He lives a life of indebtedness and ego and chauvinistic nature nurtured and boosted by the Sabharwals...added by toxic prejudice against women...this is what he knows and possess..

When he starts loving himself..he will love others too....

This is just my POV that I’m sharing.

Until and unless a person knows how to love and care about themselves, they cannot love others because that is control and a feeling of ownership over the other person. Love does have jealousy but yeah, no one would stoop so low to berate the other person when there are no mutual feelings involved..

Until and unless Shaurya acknowledges his own hurt and the feeling of being deprived of love and getting over it by accepting that he doesn’t need anyone but himself to love and accept him, he would be the way he is. The moment realisation strikes him and he begins to love himself, things would change for the good. He wouldn’t be blinded by jealousy and anger and throw words just like this at anyone and everyone.
Love needs respect and freedom for one’s own selves as well as their partner and what Shaurya right now is going through or feeling isn’t love but only and only jealousy and a storm of various feelings which he too cannot understand and therefore, he’s not seeing the other side of things because he’s blindfolded. He doesn’t have to be insecure of anything if there’s trust and currently, it’s one sided(if it’s love) so I do agree it’s very hurtful but he’s no right to speak this way to Anokhi..
Also, this is ITV and even if makers are trying to keep things real, it’s still a piece of fiction so I always have lower expectations because at the end of the day, Anokhi still would fall for a man who insulted her left and right.

This is a good point!

You know how we say for women that she needs no man to complete her same applies vice versa.

He needs to understand that he doesn’t anyone to prioritise him or complete him. What he needs is love and care for himself, not the ego wala I am superior to everyone but real self love.

Recognising your flaws, accepting them, but also realising the extremities of the ugly behaviour or toxicity and changing it for better.

He doesn’t anyone else’s love he needs his own love first.

This is the another difference between shaurya and anokhi

Anokhi truly loves her self, she knows she doesn’t need anyone, she is complete all by herself. Their pain is similar it’s just that anokhi has not made that the centre of her universe; she didn’t let it dictate her life.

While shaurya has let his trauma dictate his life even when he is much older than her.

Here, it’s not his fault. Devi made sure that his existence and emotions all include hate for Aastha. I even wrote a comment in another topic that shaurya needs to really go far away from Devi for sake of self love at least.