Should Virat be a friend of Pakhi?

Want to know if he needs to act as a friend of Pakhi? Is it needed? Is there no one else in the family who can empathise in the family other than Virat? Virat does know that almost all his family members like her.

Why does he want to be her friend? I am really trying to understand. He also knows Samrat came to know about his and Pakhi's relationship and he still thinks it is a good idea to be her friend? How is Samrat going to react to it?

How will Virat react if he was in Samrat's position? These are not accusations against Virat, questions that I seek answers to.

Knowing the intentions of Pakhi didi.

a definite NO

Even otherwise he shouldn’t be a friend he should draw a line. to keep the relationships clear

so she can move on and so can he

he doesn’t need a friend in her . It would be more confusing for them and hard for her since she still retains delusional hopes

But Virat still doesn’t know.

I believe its high time Virat needs to draw a strict line between himself and Patralekha.. I am not talking about the hand on the shoulder scene..however I do have issues with him not questioning her for eaves dropping on the conversation between the husband and wife and pass comments on Sai and also whenever he feels like stepping out of the room with her.. He has such a mercurial personality.. When he has a good stare session with his wife he does not like Patralekha entering or interrupting them..When the two of the are not on the same page..he lets Patralekha comment anything on Sai and his relationship with her.. When is all lovey dovey he want Sai to stand and listen to their conversation and when he has had an argument with Sai or to be specific Sai is in disagreement with him/his view points he walks away with his bhabhi who is also an ex-lover and someone who keeps targeting his wife, leaving that wife alone in the room. And on top of that wants the wife to accept him as her husband, when he more or less never calls her his wife in front of the said friend and family...Lets the friend emotionally and to some extent physically abusive with his wife with just a stare thrown here and there..He does not realize but today he was downright insulting towards Sai.. Devyani ki shaadi karao or niklo is ghar and he can sit and have his emotional and private talks with his best friend.. fir shoulder par hath rakho sar par hath rakho..do whatever you want..

And I am so tired of CVs throwing Patralekha in any and every and scene she is not needed.. I would have preferred Sonali kaku in the scene rather..They are not learning from the mistake.. And how stupid of them to go ahead with the scene..knowing Neil is positive and Aishwarya is supposed to be closest to him..They could have given her an off...atleast till the result came..Now she has also tested positive..I anyway was expecting it being just viewer..Not sure how did the PH not see it coming...

Originally posted by: laksh

Want to know if he needs to act as a friend of Pakhi? Is it needed? Is there no one else in the family who can empathise in the family other than Virat? Virat does know that almost all his family members like her.

Why does he want to be her friend? I am really trying to understand. He also knows Samrat came to know about his and Pakhi's relationship and he still thinks it is a good idea to be her friend? How is Samrat going to react to it?

How will Virat react if he was in Samrat's position? These are not accusations against Virat, questions that I want answers.

I know right....sai has so many times questioned their relationship directly and indirectly.... virat should know that he is a married man now and the his ex is in the same house as his brothers wife....

But to give pakhi the right to enter their room anytime she wants without permission, to tount sai all the time......I really don't like it....sai bol bolke kitna bolegi it's virat's responsibility to put a line between them...sai has more rights on virat then pakhi....

And how is it that after all the things pakhi does virat always believe her and supports her...

I don't like their so called friendship....aese friend se accha friend hi na hoo....

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I believe its high time Virat needs to draw a strict line between himself and Patralekha.. I am not talking about the hand on the shoulder scene..however I do have issues with him not questioning her for eaves dropping on the conversation between the husband and wife and pass comments on Sai and also whenever he feels like stepping out of the room with her.. He has such a mercurial personality.. When he has a good stare session with his wife he does not like Patralekha entering or interrupting them..When the two of the are not on the same page..he lets Patralekha comment anything on Sai and his relationship with her.. When is all lovey dovey he want Sai to stand and listen to their conversation and when he has had an argument with Sai or to be specific Sai is in disagreement with him/his view points he walks away with his bhabhi who is also an ex-lover and someone who keeps targeting his wife, leaving that wife alone in the room. And on top of that wants the wife to accept him as her husband, when he more or less never calls her his wife in front of the said friend and family...Lets the friend emotionally and to some extent physically abusive with his wife with just a stare thrown here and there..He does not realize but today he was downright insulting towards Sai.. Devyani ki shaadi karao or niklo is ghar and he can sit and have his emotional and private talks with his best friend.. fir shoulder par hath rakho sar par hath rakho..do whatever you want..

And I am so tired of CVs throwing Patralekha in any and every and scene she is not needed.. I would have preferred Sonali kaku in the scene rather..They are not learning from the mistake.. And how stupid of them to go ahead with the scene..knowing Neil is positive and Aishwarya is supposed to be closest to him..They could have given her an off...atleast till the result came..Now she has also tested positive..I anyway was expecting it being just viewer..Not sure how did the PH not see it coming...

Virat becomes so angry when Sai even looks or talks about any other male but he is okay ranting his so called friendship with Pakhi again and again in fornt of Sai. I am still not able to understand his character.

I voted yes.😆Virat should be a true friend to Patralekha.

Before anyone throws chappals at me kindly read😆.

I believe friendship is not about making your friend feel good all the time. A friend is someone who can make you look at you and helps you grow as a person. Someone who wants your betterment from the bottom of his/her heart. S/he doesn't need to cater to all your demands. Someone who you can rely on in times of need but who can also show you mirror when you need that. A true friend is not only one who sticks with you through thick and thin but also someone who can go away from your life too if that is needed. Virat should be a true friend to Patralekha and think of her better future. His silence is doing more harm than good to her.

So yeah, Virat should be a friend to her.

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

I voted yes.😆Virat should be a true friend to Patralekha.

Before anyone throws chappals at me kindly read😆.

I believe friendship is not about making your friend feel good all the time. A friend is someone who can make you look at you and helps you grow as a person. Someone who wants your betterment from the bottom of his/her heart. S/he doesn't need to cater to all your demands. Someone who you can rely on in times of need but who can also show you mirror when you need that. A true friend is not only one who sticks with you through thick and thin but also someone who can go away from your life too if that is needed. Virat should be a true friend to Patralekha and think of her better future. His silence is doing more harm than good to her.

So yeah, Virat should be a friend to her.

I have always understood why he wanted to be her friend.

@bold he probably is trying but not much

He is always too lenient towards Pakhi. It is probably to do with the fact that she is also his brother's wife. So he is not able to act as a friend and correct her, she will leave the house otherwise.

But how will Samrat react to it? How will Virat react if Virat was in Samrat's position?

Definitely not. Because she crosses her boundaries too often. And he does not seem to understand or mind it even. What kind of friendship would it be where his wife has to keep adjusting to them.... go out of the room..stay in the room alone. Why doesn't he get it?

Originally posted by: laksh

Want to know if he needs to act as a friend of Pakhi? Is it needed? Is there no one else in the family who can empathise in the family other than Virat? Virat does know that almost all his family members like her.

Why does he want to be her friend? I am really trying to understand. He also knows Samrat came to know about his and Pakhi's relationship and he still thinks it is a good idea to be her friend? How is Samrat going to react to it?

How will Virat react if he was in Samrat's position? These are not accusations against Virat, questions that I want answers.

smart question.. the answer to that is a 'BIG NO' 😆

cuz pakhi didi ki dictionary mein dosti ka kuch alag meaning which is toxic for virat only.

he doesn't 'need' her friendship. cuz he already has sunny with whom he can share everything and sunny gives him genuine advice. and virat feels happy and lite when he talks to sunny. pakhi didi uski tension badti hai bas. it is also a damn idiotic idea to want sai to be friends with pakhi when he knows that sai unki past relationship ke bharemin jaanti hai..matlab kuch bhi..paagal CD fellow😆

he wants to be her friend cuz didi humesha 'main bahut akheli hoon' ka gaana gaati hai and she blames virat for all this mess in her life which makes virat feel guilty and he is goes to 'main hoon na' mode. samaaj seva us see🤪

Samrat's part of the story is totally messed up. neither virat nor pakhididi ever feels guilty about what they did to samrat. woh bas ayise behave karte hai as if koyi family member ghum hogaya hai mele mein 🤪 neither of them ever shown thinking about why samrat took such step all of sudden and nor they think about the fact that yeh sab unki hi faila hua raita hai..

virat would blame samrat and break ties with him and divorce paki if he was in his place.

Originally posted by: laksh

I have always understood why he wanted to be her friend.

@bold he probably is trying but not much

He is always too lenient towards Pakhi. It is probably to do with the fact that she is also his brother's wife. So he is not able to act as a friend and correct her, she will leave the house otherwise.

But how will Samrat react to it? How will Virat react if Virat was in Samrat's position?

I think if Samrat comes back he will be more focused on how Patralekha behaves around Virat and also notice how Virat tries to maintain his distance. Being his brother he will understand this.

He might sympathise with her but the love his brother Virat has developed for Sai will certainly not go unnoticed from his eyes. Seeing this he might want to give his relationship with Patralekha a chance too. I don't know why but I feel he will feel the way Ashwini does because of Ninad and his Vahini.💔

If Virat was in Samrat's position as in Patralekha's husband? And Samrat in Virat's position. He would want to give up this marriage.