Will the tables turn now? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

Yes till now i have only seen Shaurya Making an effort for her. Anokhi is kind of lost in her own baggage. She is not ready to equipped to read his mood or understand his layers as of now. That's why she instantly connected to a non complex Character like ACP. She doesn't find him complex. She doesn't have to question him "Aap aise kyun hein " because he is very expressive in front of her.

Adding to that, her trauma and lack of real world experience has led her to see the world in black and white. Men are either black or white for her. Those who respects woman are white, like Ahir, and those who don't, like Vineet and her papa, are black.

Shaurya is a complex figure for her because he wavers a lot. One minute, he will be concerned and taking her meds for her and the next, he violently throws the tray away, and next, he gets concerned again.

However, she has seen the soft side as well and so she cannot place him on her spectrum. But, I think that's what is going to draw her to him. In fact, I do think that her interference in his life was, on the major part, for Astha. But, I also think that she secretly wants to figure out this the mystery that this man is, because he has shades like no one else. That's why when reminded of boundaries, that Shaurya was not her "challenge" to win, she said more to herself, than to Astha, that she has nothing to do with Shaurya whatsoever.

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Adding to that, her trauma and lack of real world experience has led her to see the world in black and white. Men are either black or white for her. Those who respects woman are white, like Ahir, and those who don't, like Vineet and her papa, are black.

Shaurya is a complex figure for her because he wavers a lot. One minute, he will be concerned and taking her meds for her and the next, he violently throws the tray away, and next, he gets concerned again.

However, she has seen the soft side as well and so she cannot place him on her spectrum. But, I think that's what is going to draw her to him. In fact, I do think that her interference in his life was, on the major part, for Astha. But, I also think that she secretly wants to figure out this the mystery that this man is, because he has shades like no one else. That's why when reminded of boundaries, that Shaurya was not her "challenge" to win, she said more to herself, than to Astha, that she has nothing to do with Shaurya whatsoever.

We don't get that reflection from Anokhi. Like her struggle of dealing with this world alone at such a young age. Her enjoying her new found freedom to study and live the life she wants to. The emotional issue and baggage she has due to being a witness to an abusive parent and being treated like a chattel. Why is she always rebellious or why is she so stubborn. Why is she always so insitant on her opinions being right. Because that's what she has always experienced. That you have to fight to make your words heard. You have to be firm stubborn and fight for the truth and rights of a woman because she has always seen her mother and sister getting insulted, beaten and wronged oppressed. She has only seen Men with extreme views. Either they are selfish wife beating misogynist or knight in shinning armors goody men like Vineet, monty raja and her father. Like She had always placed Shan then Shaurya and now ACP on pedestal and one tiny slip and you are back to her prejudiced view of Men.

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

Copy paste from my other comment

We don't get that reflection from Anokhi. Like her struggle of dealing with this world alone at such a young age. Her enjoying her new found freedom to study and live the life she wants to. The emotional issue and baggage she has due to being a witness to an abusive parent and being treated like a chattel. Why is she always rebellious or why is she so stubborn. Why is she always so insitant on her opinions being right. Because that's what she has always experienced. That you have to fight to make your words heard. You have to be firm stubborn and fight for the truth and rights of a woman because she has always seen her mother and sister getting insulted, beaten and wronged oppressed. She has only seen Men with extreme views. Either they are selfish wife beating misogynist or knight in shinning armors goody men like Vineet, monty raja and her father. Like She had always placed Shan then Shaurya and now ACP on pedestal and one tiny slip and you are back to her prejudiced view of Men.

I could not have said it better.

Hence, even if she its not okay for her to interfere, I do understand where she is coming from

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

Anokhi needs to realize a person has no standard response or behavior to deal with every situation. The same mature person can behave rude hurt or bitter who was acting rational and mature. The world is not black and white. It's gray. She needs to understand she can't idealize Astha too like she can't Shaurya. They are flawed humans and they can make mistakes too. You can love them too even if you don't agree with certain of their behavior traits. That will come with life experiences and maturity. People disappoint us. Can't expect them to behave like God.

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I wonder how will anokhi react to aastha mam's mistake which she acknowledged in front of Shaan. That they were not there for shaurya . Its ok , everyone has their opinions, but someone in anokhis position shouldn't be judging shaurya this quick. Reason behind that is , she saw her father physically abusing her mother , so could she love him like a nornal child loves his/her father ? I M only talking about her belief "how could a son talk to his mother like that ". What if shaurya asks her one day "how could you talk to your father like that " . Anokhi can do better than this.