Would you want Anokhi to take Shaurya's last name Post Marriage - Page 7

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

Yeah Man even i am a modern girl with some old school concept like this one. Even though we know it's wrong but still...I have a theory...it can be either ego veiled as self respect, pettiness or the most likely explanation is the fear or rejection and getting hurt. It's our defense mechanism 😅

I relate to this on a deeper level🤣

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Are you shy or is that just a belief?😆

haha belief but also shy.

I think overtime, i've just made it my belief. I used to make the first moves but over time, i've just gotten to a point where im like, he should make the first efforts.

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

I relate to this on a deeper level🤣

Originally posted by: prs_725

haha belief but also shy.

I think overtime, i've just made it my belief. I used to make the first moves but over time, i've just gotten to a point where im like, he should make the first efforts.

Originally posted by: prs_725

haha belief but also shy.

I think overtime, i've just made it my belief. I used to make the first moves but over time, i've just gotten to a point where im like, he should make the first efforts.

I stopped making the first move when I gave my deskmate a love letter in primary school, which was actually a poem I copied from Idk where and he accepted it and we never talked about it again🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

I make sure I am extra mean to a guy I like...just to not disappoint myself and the added advantage of pushing that person away....if that person stick around to handle that attitude he is the one 😉

This is the kind of thing I do😆

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

Yeah Man even i am a modern girl with some old school concept like this one. Even though we know it's wrong but still...I have a theory...it can be either ego veiled as self respect, pettiness or the most likely explanation is the fear or rejection and getting hurt. It's our defense mechanism 😅

So unfortunately, I think we still live in a society where a woman's directness comes off her being to "easy". There are many men who aren't like that and appreciate the woman making the first move, but I don't know where these men are ..

However, at the same time, its contradictory. Why would i want a man to make the first move if he has this subconscious thought that bc she asked me out, she's too "easy", i wouldn't. Sorry not sure if this makes sense.

Hence, since i dont know if they do or dont think this way, I sort of just give out hints and leave it up to them. Then overtime i can find out how his mentality is and if it sucks, its always a "see ya never wanna be ya" 🤣

So in all of that, i think it's self respect but also sometimes fear of rejection or of being judged. Mostly just self respect.

Originally posted by: dusk2dawn

Cz you are just married for a short time span no.. 😆

we are married since ages..

That is true maybe as time goes by who knows we might come across someone too😆

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

I stopped making the first move when I gave my deskmate a love letter in primary school, which was actually a poem I copied from Idk where and he accepted it and we never talked about it again🤣🤣🤣

omg!! hahah

that is so sweet though!

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

I stopped making the first move when I gave my deskmate a love letter in primary school, which was actually a poem I copied from Idk where and he accepted it and we never talked about it again🤣🤣🤣