Originally posted by: asmi_joya
But then again its wrong, why not giving a thought on the chance that Pulkit is fraud. Seeing from Sai's perspective and not as an audience(who knows Pulkit is a good man), there are more chances of him being a fraud. One cannot be helped to elope by a family member if he/she decides to kill himself/herself, with chances of the suitor being Fake/fraud. Her act would still be not justified.She should inform Virat because
a)he is Devi's brother and
b)he is her husband who has been taking stand for her most of the times.
c)because its Virat only , who has accepted/helped her in going with the marriage..
Like 404_notfound mentioned, keeping Virat in loop when he is with her and ignoring him and discarding all his valid concerns when he is not, is what Sai does most of the time. That is her not giving importance to Virat's existence in her life and also questioning his instincts and devotion for his own job/family members (Amey track and now this.) I want Sai to self inspect her flaws as well..We know Virat will and Virat mostly does, but Sai never apologizes nor does she reprimands herself/self introspect where she went wrong. Considering her decision in this case also would be the correct one ultimately, she would not be the one to regret or access herself or apologize.. I am making these assumptions on what has been shown of her till date and not on what was shown in KD.
I agree but we are yet to see what actually happens for me to comment on this. So I am going to leave the future episodes for now before I can comment on them.
I was writing a post about this wedding, but I couldn't complete. It is a serious one and I need enough time and be able to think right before I can post it. I might post it today or tomorrow. It talks about how it should have been and how even the wrong people are right in some ways and how Virat and Sai are incorrect.
Below is just a synopsis of what the post will look like.
So far I think Pulkit, Sai and Virat all of them are wrong.
It is Pulkit's wedding, he should be ensuring to give information to Virat because he is marrying his sister.
Also given the fact that in the past there were hurdles in their life, what is he doing that the family don't create another set of hurdles in his and Devi's life?
It looks like he has instead transferred responsibilities to Sai and is expecting her to fight his battles.
When he was not even welcome in CN, he sent across gifts to Devi? Did he think they are going to let their daughter accept it?
It is all fiction and that is why it looks so insensible. In real life this is not how a wedding takes place.
Sai knows Pulkit but doesn't know him well enough that she can trust Devi's life with him.
But when Pulkit visited their house, all the family members who are for this marriage vouched that Pulkit used to live with them and they know him and he is a good guy. Didn't Aai tell this? Didn't Virat apologise to him for what his family had done to him in the past?
How is Sai supposed to understand all this as? As an approval? And that he is really a good guy. Even when she shared about Harini to Virat, she told him that Pulkit sir only told me that he got her with many difficulties.
She did say "only" very clearly.
No objection or doubt raised by Virat?
When Virat said let's not dwell into the past, Sai nodded her head and agreed with him. So if Virat had said let me investigate or verify Pulkit and his history, is Sai going to stop him?
Why did he not do it? He said to Pakhi yesterday that Sai ne jaanch padthal ki hogi. If Sai is not supposed to go by face value, what is Virat doing? What jaanch padthal? Did he ask Sai how she had verified? What was the basis on which she says Pulkit is his sister's husband?
The thought that he could be already married never even entered him. Sai misunderstood him to be married and then when it got cleared , she is under an impression that one issue was cleared. Again she is wrong because she is only going by Pulkit's words.
I too had the same doubt before Pakhi pointed out yesterday. Why did none of them think that he could be marrying her to take revenge.
During Amay's incident Virat said chotey chotey kandon par right? Is it not now especially too chota to take up the responsibility of marriage? And that too of his dear sister who is not even keeping well.
Amay's incident was blown up because of Virat's insecurity too and that cannot be ignored. This guy went to college just to check on a student, to check his height, that is how illogical and fictional it is. Why is he not doing it now? Visiting his college or his house?
In the above quoted text, I also do feel that she doesn't apologise for her mistakes which I am very upset with. The remaining part, I will probably address it in the post because she is a complex character and not an easy one to be understood.
Her characterization is such that
- She is a good at heart person
- Trust worthy
- can go to any lengths for someone's happiness (I am yet to get a clarity on it but I feel for anyone, even Virat said that Sai will do it even for Pakhi and not just Devi, that is how I think she is)
- Selfless
- Honest
- Impulsive
- Short tempered
- Arrogant
- full of attitude person yet
- Kind
- Caring
- Affectionate
- Loving
Her relationship with Virat has always been confusing. I would not say she doesn't respect him or value him, she has many times but we are not able to see it all the time. Something is amiss and I am not able figure it out.
Before I enter the below, let me tell you that it is not at all for you, it is just my view in general. You and me have been interacting quite a lot and it is really good to know others point of view. I learn from others and it is interesting to listen to other's views too. There can many things we might have overlooked, so it is always good to come to a conclusion taking everyone's views into consideration.
As much as I like Virat, I cannot ignore that he is also at fault. So just like how I would not like Virat to be blamed for everything, I also cannot agree when Sai is blamed for everything.
All I am saying is blame should be for a mistake committed, not with a prejudiced view.