Originally posted by: neeraja91
I looked through the future plot of KD and watched several episodes and understood enough to see that eventually KD ruins a good show with too much drama and angst.
In KD, as much as imon also made mistakes, rono was plain ridiculous who suffered from god complex.
Imon begged him to share details of what was going on with Shruti (rono's friends wife). He told her to "trust" him and refused to give even a few details. Then she found out about this hotel incident where he called shruti his wife. And she got hurt, "misunderstood" him.
So imon leaves.
More than his actions/words she was mainly pissed that he didnt tell her anything and kept her in the dark.
Eventually things calm down.
But they show Shruti and imon are in hospital at the same time where imon is having their baby and he refused to go there coz there was an "emergency" with shruti at hospital even though his family - his brother offered to swap and take care of shruti matters. He was not with his wife when she was having their baby.
Then when finally they have just about reconciled , shruti comes back "sick" with breast cancer. And rono is behaving like dad to shruti's kid and is shrutis primary caretaker and lets her live in their house. Even though imon is the doctor/medical student, he is the one that is taking care of appointments and her treatment etc.
He leaves his own wedding anniversary celebration to fly out of town to get second opinion for shruti.
So eventually imon leaves him again.
This time she goes away to village and rono-shruti are taunted by family so he moves out with shruti they also end up in the same village as imon.
And shruti dies. But eventually in this village track, rono realizes that he was wrong to not be by imon during the birth of their baby and apologizes. And eventually after some drama about medicolegal case against Imon, finally they reconcile again.
Then badshah dies, roopkotha goes crazy, starts to demand rono's attention and rono thinks because she is depressed he should spend time with her, makes her false promises of love etc, takes care of her as if he is her husband etc etc.
Eventually imon leaves again and this time for good until they fast forward and 5 years later, roopkotha creates some drama , almost makes everyone believe that she is getting married to rono and in the last episode rono-imon reunite
Everytime in all these matters of shruti, roopkotha, Imon despite some mistakes from her end is for the MOST part completely transparent and honest that she doesn't want rono to get so personally invested in his "duty" to these ablanaaris that he takes her for granted and tells him that but he does not pay heed. His whole family rebukes him but he doesn't listen.
Its like he has decided that he is the Savior. He married imon the first time he "saved" a woman thinking its his duty. If polygamy was sllowed he'd probably have married the other 2 as well. 🙄😡
But imon as a wife was always made to feel "taken for granted" by him. We get justifications like he expected imon to understand his sense of duty and his unsaid words and his commitment to her even though he repeatedly would place her as his last priority or rather ignore her hurt. He just does lip service claiming to "love" imon but doesn't ever show that in his actions.
In all this imon isnt completely faultless but her mistakes pale in comparison to Rono because Rono's whole character and behavior is butchered eventually. Its far too much angst and so hard to watch them both separated and struggling.
I sincerely hope ghkpm changes atleast some of these tracks and their approach to the way they handle all these tracks.
Anupamaa
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