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Posted: 5 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: yyyy

Devi is not in her senses so he won't take her words seriously about her husband or marriage. I don't think Devi is treated badly in front of him. She is not chained or locked insider her room. She is free to roam around the house the only time they ask her to go back to her room is when she talks about her husband or gets involved in family matters like commenting about Palkhi or her mom. I don't tho k that can be considered harassment. Only after the truth comes out Virat will know the reality.


Yes, but why did he not suggest going to a different / better doctor or trying some new therapy? - these things have evolved so much in 10 years. If we really care about someone close, it cannot be a passive cating, we will want to actively do things for them even if we think their parents are handling it.


Virat’s feelings for Devi are a bit like the feelings we have for a neighbour’s baby - we will enjoy playing with it, be kind to it, wish it well, but will we bother to check its diaper or go out of our way to mind it while the mum is busy?


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Posted: 5 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

We are all rooting for separation given the fact that the two of them are unwilling to acknowledge their feelings for one another and distance will allow both of them to weigh their emotions... In an ideal situation, a husband and wife would have needed the space to understand their feelings but these two don't have that space here.


Regarding the Devyani track-- Sai going about it alone is a total no-no. She should involve Virat first, even before inviting Pulkit home and bringing out Devyani like that. She's the female protagonist and we love her and we know the back story but the good people in that house don't. They don't know Pulkit and Devyani is their family member. Sai cannot take the liberty to wait for one fine day to tell Virat the story if Pulkit has decided to visit the house. Devyani is Virat's sister and he's assured her that he will do anything to make her get better. Sai knows that he will do whatever it takes to bring justice to someone, so why can't she just take him in to confidence. He might not agree initially but she should have first taken the time to completely convince Virat, let him do the ground work and then reunited Devyani with Pulkit. Her impulsiveness will leave loose ends they others will take advantage of eventually.

She should know by now that he needs time to prepare and process. In Shivani's case, it was a different matter because a third party entered the house but here PD sir will immediately be linked to Sai. She will get all the blame.. she would have vehemently chastised Virat if he were to take any unilateral decision for her Aaba, no one can deny that. So what makes her think that he should be okay with her single handed interference in his cousin's life-- where Bhavani is involved.


Even in case of Amey it was highly idiotic & unwarranted on the part of Sai. She actually prevented Virat from carrying out his duty (which to any sane mind is the obvious course of action), & unilaterally planned & executed a risky AND UNNECESSARY mission.


Rinse & repeat today. Being well-intentioned may justify meddling but does not give one the right to usurp authority & undermine other well-meaning people.


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Posted: 5 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: raji02

i am hoping against hope that sai involves virat before big reveal tomorrow. but in itv fl’s have this bad habit of doing everything on their own and become sacrificial lambs, since our ml is an acp , lets hope they use his position and power to solve this.

I hope she does but in ITv FL is everything. She is more skilled than the ACP when it comes to investigation.
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bana


Yes, but why did he not suggest going to a different / better doctor or trying some new therapy? - these things have evolved so much in 10 years. If we really care about someone close, it cannot be a passive cating, we will want to actively do things for them even if we think their parents are handling it.


Virat’s feelings for Devi are a bit like the feelings we have for a neighbour’s baby - we will enjoy playing with it, be kind to it, wish it well, but will we bother to check its diaper or go out of our way to mind it while the mum is busy?


It's hard to say on the medical treatment because not much light has been shed on it. They might have made up the story that they consulted multiple doctors and it's of no use. In this case, Virat has no reason to suspect his family members. He was not present and probably a teenager when this happened so it's natural to trust the elders. Forget Virat even Aai who takes of Devi hasn't suspected anything so far
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Posted: 5 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: yyyy

It's hard to say on the medical treatment because not much light has been shed on it. They might have made up the story that they consulted multiple doctors and it's of no use. In this case, Virat has no reason to suspect his family members. He was not present and probably a teenager when this happened so it's natural to trust the elders. Forget Virat even Aai who takes of Devi hasn't suspected anything so far

actually one thing i have observed is devi is more free and open with sai than virat. she obviously loves virat because she always speaks highly about him with sai, but why doesn’t she have the same confidence iin him that she has in sai?

ashwini doesn’t have any power in that house. till sai came she never opened her mouth is what i observed. even if she suspected and told virat, would he believe?

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: raji02

actually one thing i have observed is devi is more free and open with sai than virat. she obviously loves virat because she always speaks highly about him with sai, but why doesn’t she have the same confidence iin him that she has in sai?

ashwini doesn’t have any power in that house. till sai came she never opened her mouth is what i observed. even if she suspected and told virat, would he believe?

Devi started trusting Sai with her husband’s secret after Shivani Bua said it was Sai who helped her. After that she bonds with Sai more and also Sai plays with her like a friend while Virat loves Devi but she treats her as a kid rather than a friend.


We don't know whether Virat would trust his Aai immediately but he would have done some investigation from his end. If Ashwini knew she would not have hidden from anyone.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: dipali13

Mujhe daar lagta hai kahi puri sena ko dekh kar devitai darr ke mare ye na bolde ke wo PD ko nahi janti😭 Aur iss baat pe virat ka gussa sai pe nikle🤢😡

But won't Pulkit have some evidence of his and Devi's relationship. I mean they are married and have a daughter. So he must definitely have some proof with him. Otherwsie it would look really stupid. I hope Virat think before doing something this time.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Pakhi didi thi episode mein aaj ?


Haa thodi der ke liye as usual , creativity use kiya gya yeh dikhane ke liye ki woh kitni suljhi aur samjhdar hai🤢

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: raji02

true . i don’t blame virat, we obviously tend to believe our family than outsiders, that is why i said will he believe all this without proofs.

but what surprises me is in 10 or so yrs of devi’s such condition he never actually tried to find the real reason behind devi’s condition nor he has ever objected to inhuman treatment meted to devi by bk. yes, he loves her, treats her with love,respect and kindness, but he has never actually tried to stop bk. i can’t really comprehend how these younger chavans thinks that the behaviour of their elders is normal? virat is an ips officer, samrat an army officer, so they are very intelligent and knowledgeable and knows ways of world, then how can they not object to domestic abuse happening in their own home?

Think about it, in first episode he loves his father as his best friend..which man who knows his father treats his mother like shit..will respect that kind of abusive father...I do not understand???

It is absolutely not possible that Ninad has started treating Ashwini just now, so 28-29 years of marriage of abuse and since childhood he has not witnessed a si gle scene of abuse..


Not possible otherwise Ashwini that day on balcony would not have given him the comparision of his father..

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: janecastle

But won't Pulkit have some evidence of his and Devi's relationship. I mean they are married and have a daughter. So he must definitely have some proof with him. Otherwsie it would look really stupid. I hope Virat think before doing something this time.


He had proof but Virat was not interested in proofa as his BK and gang announced him wrong..

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