The Gift Fallout - Page 4

Originally posted by: ANGELshweta

there is nothing to expect in tomorrow's episode. Nishant ke upar hi dedicate hoga. A lot of tension to be seen in tripathis house. I guess precap thoda interesting ho sakta hai. Adilie ke naam ka ek lollipop milega sabko. lol 😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Coming back to the adi malini yup he goes I to overdoing everything when she shows her slightest displeasure and yeh itni bewakoof hai ke she doesn't even get it ke isko itna demand kar ke karwana padta hai sab like PT teacher.. Isa romance ka faayda hi kya ya iss dance ka jab itna maang ke lena pade... she's quite naive in that sense too ke kya ho gaya agar mere kehne pe kia kia toh sahi but yeh romance nahi hota na malini yrh bas phor actions hi hote hain... pyar ya romance ka izhar toh woh hota hai jo koi khud se kare..

@bold: Exactly.

Also, I think it's worth pointing out that physical intimacy doesn't really translate into understanding and communication and these two are a prime example of that.

Ek taraf dono bolte rehte hain ki "Aap mujhe sabse zyada samajhte hain, sabse achhe se jaante hain".....then in the next instant we get scenes like this V-day where Adi was so confidently boasting that Malini doesn't need flowers from him, but she very much wanted them😆. In 7 years, itna bhi nahin jaana toh kya jaana? Kis basis pe itni confidently boast aate hain phir, Adi babu?

Then the bigger point....Adi also confidently boasted that Malini would have totally understood him giving that gift to Imlie on V-day😆. This goes even beyond the regular obtuseness of a man.....he has already forgotten that he had a HUGE fight with Malini just two days back and she very EXPLICITLY told him that even if he wants to do things for Imlie, he should trust Malini and take her into confidence to do that. STILL this guy hid it from her AGAIN😆. Toh what understanding, bhai? Kis basis pe itna confidently bol raha hai ki Malini samjhegi when she TOLD you that she didn't like you doing things for Imlie by bypassing her? 😆 And this is seperate from the other basic unresolved issue b/w them about class difference....uske baare mein bhi kabhi dhang se baat nahin karni but full on boast maarte rehna hai ki Malini and me are in total sync....sure sure😆

100 close dances, snuggling, cuddling can't hide this basic truth😆. You are being delusional about the woman you've been with for 7 years.

Originally posted by: water_83

Moonji anuji ki itni daulat aur apki sandal itni low quality ki😆anu hoti toh bolti meri beti ke liye main truck bhar ke sandal la sakti hoon 🤣

Moonji secondly aapko sirf apka romance,pati,aur shaq isske alawa saari responsiblity imlie has to do from rupi to nishant you just roam with tag of bahurani

Kaal shayaad adi will understand what imlie meant to say ...hope he sees her as mature adult and not jhalli 😈

ROFL😆....and haan koi Mrs. Chaturvedi ko bataao ki gareeb Tripathis ne uski heere jaisi beti ko low quality ka sandal dene ki himmat ki....aur bomb phootenge😆

Originally posted by: ANGELshweta

Then precap, i think adi looked sad due to seeing nishant like that. but malini madam ko yahan bhi shaki wife play karna hai. She will say i wanted to apologize that i doubted that you gifted imlie that dress because i found the receipt in their bedroom. I hope it click in adi's mind. Imlie was right. She did handled the situation smartly and saved him. Malini can doubt his intentions. One more layer may lower down from their so called relationship. 😛

I hope so too....cuz otherwise toh yeh full dhamaka flop ho hi chuka hai.....so much for Malini "joining the dots"....isko pehle dot ka matlab samajhne mein hi 200 epis lag jaayenge😆.

Imlie ka point yehi tha ki Malini ko bura lagega jis tareeke se is particular day pe Adi ne gift diya to someone other than his wife Malini....woh bhi without telling Malini. So if Adi realizes this after Malini shares the receipt thing with him, toh dekhte hain.

From today's episode imlie has got it straight that adi loves moon ...

And secondly she too has started moon jaap so more difficult time for adi 🤣

Aur moon ji pata nahi kab zameen pe utrengi from her fantasy land of romance ,pati ,honeymoon ,or palak paneer🤢..so her joining dot is out of question ...too overconfident abt her good-looking and liar 😆hubby ...

Well, a good episode (Have we reached the quota for 3 this week?)😆 with all layers so nicely intertwined with each other. For me, the major theme for me in this episode was Imlie's statement of "You are man, you do not understand woman's heart" and how everything was connected to it.

So we started the episode with a prime example of how clueless the male species of our planet can be. Like seriously, how can someone be so "Bailbuddhi" that even when it was so explicitly explained, he still did not get it and was on a level of his own. I guess it happens when we are expecting something and get nothing (as it so often times happens with us viewers🤣). But in his hurt and disappointment, he just kept jumping from one reason to another and did not even realize, that he has somehow achieved something completely different than what he wanted to i.e. due to his ill thought out words, instead of the smile and appreciation on Imlie's face, there is just hurt and disappointment.

It was such a subtle change on her face, initially the hope when he gave the affirmation that he was hurt that she gave credit to Sundar for his gift and then the hurt when he included her with "Kisi ko bhi" or "anyone in family" thus indicating that she was not special when he got her a gift. In that instant, he just crashed all her sandcastle dreams that she must have subconsciously been building since the moment she received his gift. Thus, her statement "You are man, you do not understand woman's heart" was as much about herself as of Malini. Imlie again got a reality check when she observed his closeness with Malini. It was a splash of cold water which brings us to the best part of the episode. An emotional insight to Imlie' state of mind which we have only got once before. I think Imlie is a person who keeps everything suppressed, till it become so overwhelming that she just burst out with her emotions. Last time too, it was because of Aditya's words during the SR night in PD and this time too, in a way, it were his words and action that forced them out of her. Her statements again gave a perspective of what she must be feeling when she was forced to marry and what her state of mind must be or is whenever she is reminded of it again especially when her right to decide was taken away from her, not only her name, her identify but her choice was stolen away from her, the turmoil that she feels when she sees sindoor and mangalsutra especially as they have deep meaning for her, but despite all that, she is still standing strong, smiling and surviving, not for anyone else but for only for herself 👏as she loves herself enough to find reasons to live and to survive.

If this is not a sign of a strong women, I do not know what is. A strong woman is not defined by education, career, social standing or outward appearance, She is defined by her independent thinking, willingness to adapt to changes, determination to survive in any circumstances and face challenges head-on. Her strength is not only determine when she is forced to face the outward forces but also in fighting her inner demons which IMO can harm one more than anything else. Imlie, though young, has managed to come out of this fighting even though everything was taken away from her, even her basic right to chose her life partner which is given by God himself. It really was an eye-opening conversation and the contrast between her and Rupi Di who is a career-oriented educated women was amazingly done.

It also made me think that though initially she might be ignored, her these qualities will always make her the star of any situation almost similar to what happened during Nishant introduction. Initially she was in the background, away from the family but in the end, she was the star where Nishant himself requested her for her introduction. Way to go…

Lastly, I would just end with this with that where one women was all ready to destroy the good mood of the family based on assumption (from her POV, not ours), the other was trying her best to keep it intact.

Originally posted by: pamk06

For a moment there while questioning Sunder, Malini turned into her mother. While she started off being angry about not being told about it only, by the time she reached him, that suspicion of hers took a different tone. I was reminded of her dialogue during the kaadha session where she told Imlie - I will feed you poison also, in jest. Is she capable of it? Maybe not right now. Will she do it if push comes to shove, probably not. But she has the undercurrents to be able to do it.

Originally posted by: pamk06

Well, a good episode (Have we reached the quota for 3 this week?)😆 with all layers so nicely intertwined with each other. For me, the major theme for me in this episode was Imlie's statement of "You are man, you do not understand woman's heart" and how everything was connected to it.

I think we've overall gotten 3 decent epis this week, so yes I think we've reached the limit😆.....aage mixed bag hi hoga.....lol

It also made me think that though initially she might be ignored, her these qualities will always make her the star of any situation almost similar to what happened during Nishant introduction. Initially she was in the background, away from the family but in the end, she was the star where Nishant himself requested her for her introduction. Way to go…

Yes, it is very apparent that Imlie shines through in most situations no matter how much she is relegated to the background or not given her rights....she is an irrepressible light. I also agree with your point that she has mostly suppressed her emotions given the weird situation that she is in but it was nice to hear her thoughts after many days.....she has never denied that for her the marriage is valid, even if she has never demanded any rights, she knows they were taken away from her. It requires tremendous emotional capacity to balance these things within yourself.....yes, it tests my patience that she doesn't try to forge her path forward on her own terms but at the same time, I marvel at this girl who feels hurt at the injustices dealt out to her but still retains the capacity to be resilient and live for herself even with this confusing reality she is caught in.

Education or a modern outlook doesn't necessarily decide if women are capable of emotional resilience. That is an intrinsic characteristic in many ways.....as we can see with Imlie. She has lived in a remote village most of her life but she has the emotional resilience to not crumble in the face of feeling loneliness. Many women can be successful working women and still crumble in one instant when it comes to loneliness. That is what we are seeing with Rupi.....no matter what she otherwise manages to achieve in life, she cannot get over the loneliness of not having a partner in her life. While Imlie, a girl for her whom life was but barely beginning when she got saddled with a confusing marriage which all but guarantees loneliness as well, this girl is still able to find reasons to love herself and spread love among others rather than sit and cry about whether a man is giving her flowers😆.

Lastly, I would just end with this with that where one women was all ready to destroy the good mood of the family based on assumption (from her POV, not ours), the other was trying her best to keep it intact.

LOL@ one woman.....yes, Malini did seem to be on a mission to question Adi in front of the whole family if she hadn't run into Sundar....lol but since none of it came to pass, I suppose it's all moot. Waise bhi the writers are not consistent with Malini....sometimes she throws a tantrum in front of everyone in anger, sometimes she becomes ideal bahu hiding hers and Adi's fights from his family😆.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

...sometimes she throws a tantrum in front of everyone in anger, sometimes she becomes ideal bahu hiding hers and Adi's fights from his family.

So true, they are not at all consistent with her character. Like yesterday, she found the receipt on the floor and jumped to the conclusion that "Aditya is lying to me"when she has no backup or base for it. Its not as if she has caught him multiple times in compromising situation or she does not know how truthful and honest he is, so, shouldn’t her thinking be like "Why is this receipt in my room” or "Did Aditya buy me one more dress". It was more surprising because she was the a person who kept talking about trust that her husband has lost or kept questioning him about it, but what about hers in him. Ok, I will give it to her that she has come up in an environment where she has, time and again, been a witness to her mother’s "shaki" nature and hence this was a gut reaction or may be she is really her mother's daughter. But then as you said, that statement from other night that she did not want to make their problem, the family problem. She was all set to destroy the family's party with her outburst. I wonder what would happen if she would not have seen Sundar first , if nothing else, Aditya would have realized that Imlie was right and he really does not understand a "women's heart" or "his Malini".

Anyways, I like this shade of hers more than the other because it shows how her upbringing has affected her and how Aditya love is her only anchor and how she would not care about anything or anyone if it’s threatened.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

For a moment there while questioning Sunder, Malini turned into her mother. While she started off being angry about not being told about it only, by the time she reached him, that suspicion of hers took a different tone. I was reminded of her dialogue during the kaadha session where she told Imlie - I will feed you poison also, in jest. Is she capable of it? Maybe not right now. Will she do it if push comes to shove, probably not. But she has the undercurrents to be able to do it.

I do think she has shades of her mother in her and like her, she does have insecurity and possessiveness filled in her. Right now they are suppressed because she is secured about Aditya love but they will come out more and more as she feels threatened about it. We are seeing some of them here and there now with Kada, raincoat, Aditya outburst at her house I.e basically every time she feels, she is not the center of Aditya’s universe. We then see her working to shift his focus to her and her good qualities and how nice she is or how wrong he is.m, basically using ehsaan and guilt to the extreme which is the base of that relationship.