Virat playing the victim card and gaslighting the women?

It has become really unnerving to watch Virat burn the candle at both ends. On the one hand he pandered to Pakhi's desire to go to Ladakh, making it seem like it was just them going and then asked Sai to come stating that "he would feel good" if she came. I don't know what lala land Virat lives in, but has he just been blind to all the tension between Pakhi and Sai over such a long period of time? How did he think this was a good idea? Then when it all blew up in his face, he made it seem like both Sai and Pakhi were overreacting.

And again in the most recent episode, under the guise of having true intentions to apologize to Sai, he brings up some Meena Kumari level tears when she serves the harsh cold truth in his face. Whatever Sai said was spot on. The family does use Virat as a toy to placate Pakhi, the family does repeatedly find fault and insult Sai, the family really had no issues with Virat and Pakhi going together on the trip alone, Virat has been/still is in love with Pakhi, Virat did tell Sai to have no expectations of him as a husband prior to their wedding...All of it was the truth/factual, so can someone explain to me why Virat was highlighting his "tum mujhe samajhti nahi ho" syndrome with tears in his eyes? What a way to gaslight a woman into questioning the reality that is so blatantly obvious.

Does Virat have any insight into how his behaviour is making him seem like a player of sorts? He acts like he has everyone's best interests at heart, but how is swaying like a pendulum to cater to your ex lover and then to your current wife make any sense? On top of that he then wants to please Sai by getting her a cup of tea and later on (as per precap) he will question her about her leaving the house to go see her Professor for lunch. Then maybe in the next episode, we will again see him pacifying Pakhi for some random issue she brings up.

For someone who harps on about Sai's immaturity, disrespect and what not, Virat really should look into a mirror to assess his own hypocrisy and double standards

Today Sai showed mirror to him but he is turning away his face. In Sanskrit there is a word aksharasatya every letter true. Sai’s words are so Today.

Well she showed him the mirror and as you said this time the male lead played the victim card by crying river.

I have been saying this from the start V is the root cause of all the issues between the gals and then when they get upset and react he acts like he is the bechara victim and they are acting irrational despite being mature/immature lol he has his gaslighting technique down pat lol

Originally posted by: DeepShadow

It has become really unnerving to watch Virat burn the candle at both ends. On the one hand he pandered to Pakhi's desire to go to Ladakh, making it seem like it was just them going and then asked Sai to come stating that "he would feel good" if she came. I don't know what lala land Virat lives in, but has he just been blind to all the tension between Pakhi and Sai over such a long period of time? How did he think this was a good idea? Then when it all blew up in his face, he made it seem like both Sai and Pakhi were overreacting.

And again in the most recent episode, under the guise of having true intentions to apologize to Sai, he brings up some Meena Kumari level tears when she serves the harsh cold truth in his face. Whatever Sai said was spot on. The family does use Virat as a toy to placate Pakhi, the family does repeatedly find fault and insult Sai, the family really had no issues with Virat and Pakhi going together on the trip alone, Virat has been/still is in love with Pakhi, Virat did tell Sai to have no expectations of him as a husband prior to their wedding...All of it was the truth/factual, so can someone explain to me why Virat was highlighting his "tum mujhe samajhti nahi ho" syndrome with tears in his eyes? What a way to gaslight a woman into questioning the reality that is so blatantly obvious.

Does Virat have any insight into how his behaviour is making him seem like a player of sorts? He acts like he has everyone's best interests at heart, but how is swaying like a pendulum to cater to your ex lover and then to your current wife make any sense? On top of that he then wants to please Sai by getting her a cup of tea and later on (as per precap) he will question her about her leaving the house to go see her Professor for lunch. Then maybe in the next episode, we will again see him pacifying Pakhi for some random issue she brings up.

For someone who harps on about Sai's immaturity, disrespect and what not, Virat really should look into a mirror to assess his own hypocrisy and double standards

exactly!! it is very illogical for him to think ki pakhi is going to be ok with it and ghar wale are gonna say 'have a good trip' after he reveals that sai is also gonna join them 🤣 did he really think ki phool bharsaayenge sab taanon ki jagah?😆 even tho his intention was good his plan was idiotic, i wonder if he handles professional cases also like this 😆

other than the intention of dragging the TV show for a long time i don't see any other reason to make virat look so dumb and ignorant towards pakhi and chavan's doings. he gets jealous of any other man sai talks to, he craves for her attention and care but he himself is unaware of it and never thinks about 'why?'😆 which is very unrealistic.

all the questions sai asked are on point but will ke ever think about those? i dont think so, not so easily as serial needs to be dragged for months and months 🤣

Virat came across as a manipulator, people pleaser, ostrich & gaslighter. He is not confused, he wants it all but without getting his own hands in the mess.

How dare he, with his life experience, play the victim card against a 19 year old? How dare he, with his brother’s trust, retain emotional intimacy with his bhabhi while claiming to be just a good friend?

Originally posted by: DeepShadow

It has become really unnerving to watch Virat burn the candle at both ends. On the one hand he pandered to Pakhi's desire to go to Ladakh, making it seem like it was just them going and then asked Sai to come stating that "he would feel good" if she came. I don't know what lala land Virat lives in, but has he just been blind to all the tension between Pakhi and Sai over such a long period of time? How did he think this was a good idea? Then when it all blew up in his face, he made it seem like both Sai and Pakhi were overreacting.

And again in the most recent episode, under the guise of having true intentions to apologize to Sai, he brings up some Meena Kumari level tears when she serves the harsh cold truth in his face. Whatever Sai said was spot on. The family does use Virat as a toy to placate Pakhi, the family does repeatedly find fault and insult Sai, the family really had no issues with Virat and Pakhi going together on the trip alone, Virat has been/still is in love with Pakhi, Virat did tell Sai to have no expectations of him as a husband prior to their wedding...All of it was the truth/factual, so can someone explain to me why Virat was highlighting his "tum mujhe samajhti nahi ho" syndrome with tears in his eyes? What a way to gaslight a woman into questioning the reality that is so blatantly obvious.

Does Virat have any insight into how his behaviour is making him seem like a player of sorts? He acts like he has everyone's best interests at heart, but how is swaying like a pendulum to cater to your ex lover and then to your current wife make any sense? On top of that he then wants to please Sai by getting her a cup of tea and later on (as per precap) he will question her about her leaving the house to go see her Professor for lunch. Then maybe in the next episode, we will again see him pacifying Pakhi for some random issue she brings up.

For someone who harps on about Sai's immaturity, disrespect and what not, Virat really should look into a mirror to assess his own hypocrisy and double standards

@bold Virat is no longer in love with Pakhi. He has long since moved on - he is on the verge of falling in love with Sai. His "tum mujhe samajhti nahi ho" was a response to Sai mistaking that he loves Pakhi. Obviously anybody in Sai's position will think the same thing - but he expects Sai to be able read his mind /judge his emotions based on his gestures towards Sai.

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

Well she showed him the mirror and as you said this time the male lead played the victim card by crying river.

Its simple visible that Vaada wants both in his life. He will apologize to didi too after few episodes we could not go to trip. I did mistake marrying Sai.🤣

Virat is the ever so confused personality of the show.... Like sai said he is trying to hide behind the facade of friendship... I wont say he loves pakhi but he still has a soft corner for her.