Pati Patni ke rishtey ki gullakh - Page 10

Originally posted by: Bana

I am thinking about “yeh hamara kamra hai”... I wish Sai had said if it was our room then how come a third person was able to stand here & say mean things about me in my own room & u kept quiet?

That was exactly why she said it's not her room. He just brushed it aside without even giving it a thought and said, "aaj ladai Nahi please"... But actually to me their previous fight is still unresolved. It will come back when they are in a serious fight again. Brushing aside a subject without addressing it can't be called making up... Their actual fight was interrupted by the serpent and the venom that was spilled thereafter has been conveniently ignored as usual 😑

Originally posted by: prs_725

Exactly!! Which is why she feels he doesn’t tell Pakhi to go out bc it’s his room

I am surprised he doesn't understand it. He's just taking it as her usual 'i won't be here for long' and the lack of affection he thinks from her end

Originally posted by: scarlett22

I have often wondered about Sai's attraction towards Virat. She doesn't indicate any interest. But couple of times, in the riverside date, she did blush..when he kept looking at her.

Unlike Pakhi, who immediately registers his physical good looks.

Poor thing, at this point, she thinks he can never like her for anything.

Yesterday the way the camera moved when she danced, it was through his gaze which was moving all over😆

Agree with you. She blushed because she felt his gaze on her and was instantly conscious about his 'haste hue acchi lagti ho...'

But yes, she does think he can't like her because of the constant reminders slithering into her space

Sai’s jealousy and insecurities comes out as a taunt which aggravates the situation further. Usually, taunts are ignored and are not given much importance. Her taunts and “deal marriage “ confuses Virat further and makes him feel unvalued.

Until Amey tracks, I thought Virat doesn't take Sai’s words to his heart but looks like he remembers each and everything she said and associates with their “ deal marriage “. When Sai was comparing the ice incident, he remembered her refusing his care. The Virat in Gc was different he gave her the benefit of the doubt

Well i finally was able to watch the episode and it was quite interesting. Janki your analysis has always been encouraging and continue to do so, its a positive push to watch the episodes,

The jealousy was evident, love ka pata nahi par there is a feeling of insecurity of loosing something. The problem is with Sai, she always has thought he can never have him even if she wants to. And does not understand that one thing as she lands up comparing herself.

One thing stood out when she said to him "Aap meri tariff kar hi nahi sakte". The comment was made in the similar fashion like "Main aapko kabhi cute nahi lag sakti." I did like his attitude and his expressions (must say Neil was Fab) in the entire episode. The irritation was evident on his face for anyone to read. In the heat of the moment i am sure he hasn't realized what has he done (which he never does as always).

Somewhere it comes across that she feels, he would never like someone like me (as according to her his choice is Pakhi). He even wanted her to learn few things (rather take maturity classes) from Pakhi. So she feeling like that is quite possible.

Also she is very vocal in voicing out things, she immediately pointed it out to him about the ice thing, but till then he was so riled up that he didn't register and this is not the first time she has voiced out but he never understands that part (I wonder why).

For her to see him as a man, he has make her feel like a woman. He needs to understand that. Till now he has made her feel like a kid always and treated the same way. Well looks like the things are changing.

Waiting for tomorrows update, which is much needed after the end scene on friday. Hoping for Ashwini Aai to maneuver the entire situation.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

I am surprised he doesn't understand it. He's just taking it as her usual 'i won't be here for long' and the lack of affection he thinks from her end

right bc the virat from before would clarify himself if he feels shes misunderstood him but here he just goes w her word by word. I think they cling to each other's words so much that they dont see the actions and the "kuch baaatein samaj mein aa jati hain"..sai said this when PP was in her room so if she understands those unsamji hui baatein im sure she sees exactly what he is doing and how he is drawn towards her too which is why she taunts him to get him to say what she wants to hear ..

Even when she left her room and came back, she wanted to go back to usha mausi's room until Virat said "i will feel better if you stay" so until he wont say anything to her in terms of his feelings, she won't take a step forward even though she sees the affect she has on him ..

I think Virat is being completely blind when he says "what do you do for me" ..maybe to him its not the equation she shares w household and the things she does for the ghar but more what she does for him.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Agree with you. She blushed because she felt his gaze on her and was instantly conscious about his 'haste hue acchi lagti ho...'

But yes, she does think he can't like her because of the constant reminders slithering into her space

she even told him "aapko mein kabhi cute nahi lag sakti" and he goes "so now you will decide who is cute for me and who isn't?" this miscommunication from both the sides is nishchit going to bubble up when another huge fight happens, probably during devi tai's track or jo b khet's track 😆

I am keen to see how they handle sai going out of the house in the future, does Virat really kick her out? What happened to "i wont be at peace if you arent w me and safe" .. it will be interesting to watch.

Originally posted by: Roch

Well i finally was able to watch the episode and it was quite interesting. Janki your analysis has always been encouraging and continue to do so, its a positive push to watch the episodes,

The jealousy was evident, love ka pata nahi par there is a feeling of insecurity of loosing something. The problem is with Sai, she always has thought he can never have him even if she wants to. And does not understand that one thing as she lands up comparing herself.

One thing stood out when she said to him "Aap meri tariff kar hi nahi sakte". The comment was made in the similar fashion like "Main aapko kabhi cute nahi lag sakti." I did like his attitude and his expressions (must say Neil was Fab) in the entire episode. The irritation was evident on his face for anyone to read. In the heat of the moment i am sure he hasn't realized what has he done (which he never does as always).

Somewhere it comes across that she feels, he would never like someone like me (as according to her his choice is Pakhi). He even wanted her to learn few things (rather take maturity classes) from Pakhi. So she feeling like that is quite possible.

Also she is very vocal in voicing out things, she immediately pointed it out to him about the ice thing, but till then he was so riled up that he didn't register and this is not the first time she has voiced out but he never understands that part (I wonder why).

For her to see him as a man, he has make her feel like a woman. He needs to understand that. Till now he has made her feel like a kid always and treated the same way. Well looks like the things are changing.

Waiting for tomorrows update, which is much needed after the end scene on friday. Hoping for Ashwini Aai to maneuver the entire situation.

So neat and I feel she feels this way bc even he compares her sometimes to pakhi. In their fight, he asked her "tum auro ki tarah sabhya aur shant kyun nahi ho sakti ho?"

She instantly picked up on who he meant by auro and the comparison ...he himself is giving her reasons to understand that he can never like her as he seems to have so many problems w her ..which actually just stems from his own insecurity and madness bc of his emotions running wild.

I am also keen on seeing how they show his persective change from seeing her as a kid to a woman. In this week's episodes, kaku and others again called her a kid to which he stood quiet but he doesnt repeat those "you are still a bacchi" though she does compare him w "aba" sometimes but i think that has also toned down a bit. She mentioned her aba this week but didnt say my husband is like my aba (to her proff). Their car is moving at 5mh 😆

Originally posted by: yyyy

Sai’s jealousy and insecurities comes out as a taunt which aggravates the situation further. Usually, taunts are ignored and are not given much importance. Her taunts and “deal marriage “ confuses Virat further and makes him feel unvalued.

Until Amey tracks, I thought Virat doesn't take Sai’s words to his heart but looks like he remembers each and everything she said and associates with their “ deal marriage “. When Sai was comparing the ice incident, he remembered her refusing his care. The Virat in Gc was different he gave her the benefit of the doubt

We give benefit of doubt to strangers or people who are not close to us.. for him, she's now closest and she won't get benefits of doubt. he will just keep things at the back of his mind and vent it out when he loses it. That's how raw spousal relationships are.

I also agree that he sees her speaking about these things as taunt more than her insecurity. Her jealousy, I think he is aware about that. He knows she is jealous of PP but he is not able to gauge her insecurity because he thinks she doesn't like him or the idea of being married to him so it's only 'taunts' to be ignored and not addressed ...

Originally posted by: Roch

Well i finally was able to watch the episode and it was quite interesting. Janki your analysis has always been encouraging and continue to do so, its a positive push to watch the episodes,

The jealousy was evident, love ka pata nahi par there is a feeling of insecurity of loosing something. The problem is with Sai, she always has thought he can never have him even if she wants to. And does not understand that one thing as she lands up comparing herself.

One thing stood out when she said to him "Aap meri tariff kar hi nahi sakte". The comment was made in the similar fashion like "Main aapko kabhi cute nahi lag sakti." I did like his attitude and his expressions (must say Neil was Fab) in the entire episode. The irritation was evident on his face for anyone to read. In the heat of the moment i am sure he hasn't realized what has he done (which he never does as always).

Somewhere it comes across that she feels, he would never like someone like me (as according to her his choice is Pakhi). He even wanted her to learn few things (rather take maturity classes) from Pakhi. So she feeling like that is quite possible.

Also she is very vocal in voicing out things, she immediately pointed it out to him about the ice thing, but till then he was so riled up that he didn't register and this is not the first time she has voiced out but he never understands that part (I wonder why).

For her to see him as a man, he has make her feel like a woman. He needs to understand that. Till now he has made her feel like a kid always and treated the same way. Well looks like the things are changing.

Waiting for tomorrows update, which is much needed after the end scene on friday. Hoping for Ashwini Aai to maneuver the entire situation.

Very well said Roch!

That's what the crux is -- they both feel the other doesn't find them attractive or worthy enough of being loved. There was so much urge in both of them to hear what they wanted the other person to say.. but they kept giving our the wrong cues.