Pati Patni ke rishtey ki gullakh - Page 2

From rose eyed to green eyed !!! hahaha

Loved how u talked about Virat's nazuk EGO !

Beautiful Analysis as always❤️

In his jealousy he got so lost that he did not even pick on what all Sai is going through.She shared so many important topics with him today.That along with her studies she is also balancing ghar ka kaam.While doing so she is also gettimg taunted and made fun of at college. She told she is no longer who she used to be and after this marriage she has changed. There were so many things where Virat could have assured her or discussed with her.But no, he was simply stuck in his toxic masculinity and couldnt see anything beyond Aniket.He sidelining Sai's happiness just to feed his ego was a telling.And what is this ranting always 'meri baat nahi manogi". Common man she doesn't has to abide by whatever stupidity you spit on her. No one wants a dictator in their life.

The character sketch which they are giving to Virat is not something I feel connects with what we thought it will be.

Today virat was that typical male chauvinist dominating husband😆 and what surprised me was that I totally loved him🤣

That haq jatana, patni ki responsibilities yaad dilana, patni ko kisi kaam ki permission dena/ na dena...all this ...I know in long run establish him as a product of toxic masculinity but for today I just loved him...he was so in husband mode🤣

On the serious note I wonder whether patriarchy runs so deep in our life that all these things (husband a haq jatana, to hold that authoritative position in wife's life, to grant permissions, to be extra alert about other males in her life, to expect that she will do his biddings) which should actually bother a woman, is liked and even seeked by women.

Men will say that they care for their women and hence behave like this. The protectiveness and responsibility comes natural to them but this is the thing...patriarchy over the generations of existence have assigned men and women certain roles and the society expects them to follow that without questioning.

Anyways scrap the patriarchy debate....I loved this jealous pati virat🤣🤣

Lovely analysis Janki.

I was disappointed with today’s episode. Hoping for a light romantic episode. My mistake.

Sai was so excited. After months of taunts somebody is actually appreciating her for her talents. She has been harassed so much that she doesn’t even consider his room as hers. No wonder she gave him a half hearted invite for her dance apprehensive that he might reject it. He got so offended! Things just went downhill & the worst thing he could, in my opinion, to both ladies was to call out for Pakhi. How humiliating it is for Sai. I am also of the firm belief that no 3rd person should interfere when couple are fighting. Wasn’t this what he wanted when he was arguing with Sai & he asked bua to butt out!

Now Pakhi will feel important & Sai will sink into her self defense mode even more.

I understood some of his jealousy in Amays case as she was flirting with him. Here she even confirmed she didn’t know how he looked but just danced. What was there to get so jealous of? He’s supposed to be a mature adult. Next will he suspect her of having an affair with the prof? Absolutely unhealthy.

With the horror of a precap I really am not looking forward to Monday!

i agree..ithna hi bura lagraha hai tho kyun baar baar poochke sai ke mooh se aniket ka naam sunna aur, aur zyaada jalna?🤣

yep sai was also equally jealous, but uski jealousy taunts ke dwara nikalti hai and virat ki jealousy came out as criticizing aniket and sai's talent, little anger, haq jathana, some advice, and sarcasm 😆

yes dono chahte hai ki saamne waala pehle bole. like sai keep reminding him about this 'deal' and virat gets annoyed and thinks that sai is saying this because she doesn't like him and doesn't like to be in this relationship and its her majboori. and same way whenever virat gives pakhi some importance and shows soft corner sai thinks virat likes pakhi and sai is only his 'zimmedaari'.

in a way i feel that sai more than reminding it to virat about this 'deal waali shaadi' sai says that to remind it to herself that whatever she has now, all these rishte, kamra, parivaar, pati all these are just temporary so don't get yourself much attached to all this as ek din tho usse jaana hi hai. she wants to take care of virat and do patni waale harkatein like bringing food, uske clothes etc ka dyaan rakhna and all, but this 'deal' pricks her and makes her think that she has no right to do all these as virat likes pakhi didi and he likes it when she brings food for him, serves water and takes care of him.

i think ab isse ke chalte virat will go to pakhi's room. if this continues i don't think things will get better. MUs will increase. Virat ki 'MATURITY' ayise time pe kaha jaati hai? woh bhi sai ki tarah hi bevahe kartha hai ayise maamlon mein. and he says stuff sarcastically cuz he is pissed with 'aniket's singing' 😆 but humari 'seedi baat' hi samjne waali sai thinks he is interested in pakhi only so goes back to 'i don't care' mode. 🤪

aniket is just here to play a cameo i guess, only for 2-3 episodes maybe, but pakhi tho ussi ghar mein rehne waali hai. so i hope instead of creating more MUs this aniket's character bring some positive change in sairat's life. maybe aniket virat ko kahe ki 'aap apni biwi se bahut pyaar karte hai, aapke aankhon mein dikhta hai, isiiye aap ko kisi bhi aur ladke ka uske saat friendship rakhna accha nay lagta hai, i understand' ayisa kuch. tho kuch baath banjaaye, cuz sai tho samjne nay waali jab thak virat pakhi ko bhaw dena bandh nay karta and sai se pyaar se bina 'zimmedaari and farz' shabdh use kare baath nay karta.

Great analysis, Janki! It has become almost a habit to read your daily thoughts on an episode. Thank you for writing and sharing.

Just wanted to say

Virat’s lack of assurance stems more from his belief that Sai does not like him and less from the promise and everything related to that [he is currently living in the present]. So, when she says that the room is not hers, or she won’t stay for long, in his mind, he is probably thinking, “She never wanted this relationship and still does not like me.”

Her talk of leaving fuels his own insecurities. He is yet to realise that his silence and certain actions have consequences.

[Yet to see the complete episode. Just saw bits on Instagram and read the update.]

Originally posted by: Romance_addict

In his jealousy he got so lost that he did not even pick on what all Sai is going through.She shared so many important topics with him today.That along with her studies she is also balancing ghar ka kaam.While doing so she is also gettimg taunted and made fun of at college. She told she is no longer who she used to be and after this marriage she has changed. There were so many things where Virat could have assured her or discussed with her.But no, he was simply stuck in his toxic masculinity and couldnt see anything beyond Aniket.He sidelining Sai's happiness just to feed his ego was a telling.And what is this ranting always 'meri baat nahi manogi". Common man she doesn't has to abide by whatever stupidity you spit on her. No one wants a dictator in their life.

The character sketch which they are giving to Virat is not something I feel connects with what we thought it will be.

I too feel that some serious issues which you mentioned and which could have played an important role in sairat's bonding if cvs would have focused on it, are being compromised for silly kitchen politics and all this makes virat come out as arrogant, jealous, hot headed product of patriarchy which I would like to believe he is not. Its totally cvs mistake.

Great analysis - as always!

It is interesting that as a viewer, I enjoyed watching both Virat and Sai in complete jealousy mode without realizing it.

Virat constantly seeking Sai's attention, needing more information about Aniket without wanting it to be obvious was a fun watch. But I did find him not wanting Sai to dance at the event a little disturbing - it is not what I had expected of him.

Sai, I found to be the more honest one. She is clearly stopping herself from getting too attached to the relationship she shares with Virat, and one cannot blame her when in no terms has Virat said that the relationship is more than what he had initially intended it to be.

Virat needs to be clear with what he feels and he needs to make it clear to Sai, only then will their relationship move forward. Otherwise, I would say be prepared for more frustrating outbursts from the both of them.

I do hope though, that they show Virat paying a little more attention to what Sai had shared with him today. As several others had mentioned, Sai sharing with Virat the instances of her being made fun of at college, finally finding moments of happiness amidst family drama is insightful to what Sai is really feeling about the situation that she is in. While today Virat was blinded by his jealousy, hopefully there is some introspection in the future about this.

Out of curiosity - due to the language barrier, what does gullakh mean or signify?

Gullakh is piggy bank.

Originally posted by: preethik

Gullakh is piggy bank.

Ah, thank you!😊