Originally posted by: Tulip235
If she’s slapped, isn’t she capable of dealing with it herself? Can she not give it back? Is she actually weak and needs her husband to butt in? A protective husband is someone who’s there in the background, should his wife need him. Not butt in needlessly and portray the wife as someone incapable of handling her own situations, thereby undermining her strength and capabilities. Abhinav doesn’t even wait till it gets to a point where she does actually need help, he jumps in straight away.
Abhinav is being over protective and that’s a negative too. A strong independent woman would never appreciate that. If my husband jumped into every disagreement I was having or in every difficult situation I’m in, I would hate it. But I would expect him to be there for me when I’m down, or when I actually need his help.
For instance, even assuming Eijaz was at fault, was she not handling it? There was no need for him to jump in and say don’t touch my wife when she was saying the same thing herself! It’s another matter that I still think Eijaz meant no harm.
This actually isn’t just about Abhinav and Rubina alone. This is how, in my view, a man can be supportive and protective about his wife. But if your view on this is different, that’s fine. You are entitled to your view, just as I am to mine 😊😊