Originally posted by: deepikagupta9
If virat wanted sai to become like his mother Ashwani , then why he asked sai to stand for her own self respect on wedding night .
I doubt ninad gave this option to Ashwani .
He did tell her to stand for herself. And now that she is doing exactly that, how is Virat reacting? What is he expecting now? For her to respect the very elders who verbally torture her. When Virat told her to stand up, it was at the beginning, not much had happened then. Now the situation is completely different. It is one thing for Virat to support her studies, as that is the whole reason they are married. But has he ever told Kaku or any other family member to stop calling Sai by names? Everyone else is called by their real name, even Karishma who is disliked. Why is Sai called by names. And also, did Virat think why is Sai having such a hard time getting along with half of his family? Is it because she does not respect elders or, and this is the real truth, the elders of the house are badtameez.
The thing is, Virat is not really mad at her for how she behaves with his family. His real anger is about their relationship and his expectations that have changed since they got married. He wants Sai to understand all that without communicating with her properly. That is the root of his frustration. Sai's nature is just an excuse. But he cannot expect Sai to get more involved with him if his family hates her and if he has made her believe that he has feelings for his "best friend."
233