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Posted: 5 years ago
#11

Neil's words has summarized it all-


Sai virat pakhi sare kirdar jo humne banaye hai ye flawed kirdar hain.


That it, well said👏


We should remember this always, neither of them is right or perfect.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjali0111

Neil's words has summarized it all-


Sai virat pakhi sare kirdar jo humne banaye hai ye flawed kirdar hain.


That it, well said👏


We should remember this always, neither of them is right or perfect.

but sulji hui ladki ka kya?????

Why doesn't she accept it🤣🤣🤣

I really loved neil's words here

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ishradivani

but sulji hui ladki ka kya?????

Why doesn't she accept it🤣🤣🤣

I really loved neil's words here

She will never accept it🤣

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Virat has a point . Tit for tat is not the solution to all the problems . Let’s take GC example , if Virat had responded back in the same tone as Sai when she kept accusing him for one or the another then it things would have escalated very badly .


Another important point he said is life without a partner is not easy . He has been her support system , friend , mentor . Losing that will create a huge void in her life .

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Neil explained it very beautifully.


He also seemed soo tired. That must have been an exhausting scene to shoot.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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@0.07 he was fiddling with the wedding ring...oh god that hurt seeing it.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I do not agree with half the things Neil said as Virat as I guess I do not agree with Virat all the time. First of all, I am tired of characters comparing maturity level between Patralekha and Sai. When has Patraleka shown maturity? The only reason she respects the adults is because she is treated like a goddess in that house. Look at the way she talks back to Ashwini. She is all about lip service, superficialness. Not once did she show support toward Shivani. With Sai, you get what you see. She is as real as she can get. And when required, she shows her maturity in thinking, maybe not always in actions but I do not blame her. If Virat thinks that Sai is immature and Patralekha is mature then either Virat has no skill to judge people or he is still blindly in love with Patraleka. 😡 And when can we expect the elderlys in the house to show maturity. I am still waiting to see that. Elders' scolding is one thing, which is what Virat has faced. But Sai does not get scolding, what she gets is emotional torture via vile name-calling, taunts, no freedom, constant complaints, mountain-like responsibility as bahu, etc. So there is no comparison. And according to Kaku, lying is not a bad thing, but getting caught is. So sure, if this is what maturity means then I am happy to see Sai immature for life.


Sai's tit for tat may be wrong but what is she to do exactly. Be quiet, walk-off when she is emotionally tortured? Hasn't she tried all that? Has it worked? Virat is not always there to see or support Sai. Most of the time she is on her own. Has he tried to talk to Ashwini or Shivani to try to find out what goes on behind his back? Did he add 2+2 and come to 4 when it comes to his family's treatment of Sai, and mostly the different way Sai is treated from Patralekha? It has been weeks since she has come to the house and nonstop she is being tortured verbally. How much is she supposed to take? Neil as Virat in the interview still thinks that gharwalo ka dil acha hain. I guess Virat still thinks like that and it is his fault then to think like that, not Sai's. It was his responsibility to bring Sai to his house. He should have talked to his family before marrying Sai. Sai did not sign up for constant torture.


Lastly, Sai is not grateful to belong to the house and get his support? Like seriously. Does Virat not know Sai at all? And would Sai need Virat if her father was alive? Did the cvs and characters forget about her Aaba's sacrifice. Basically what Virat wants is for Sai to become like Ashwini, keep your mouth shut, listen to the adults, and do as they say. Virat knew Sai before marrying her, was she the type to accept injustice and not do anything about it? If he has that much problem with Sai's behaviour, why not let her stay in a hostel? His family will be happy and so will Sai. Virat, if your house is a constant war zone for Sai, how is she to grow and learn and become "mature" as you keep on saying. She lives in survival mode there, not knowing if she will get breakfast the next morning, and especially not knowing who will walk into her room without knocking. 😡


Lol, why am I so angry after watching the interview. It is like I feel Virat just does not understand what Sai is going through in his house.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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But i dont agree that Sai is thankless. She has thanked him repeatedly. Yes tit for tat isnt always correct but bardaasht karne ka nateeja is ashwini and shivani ka state. Sabke taane sun sun ke ashwini has lost herself, her voice, her dreams and aspirations. And shivani also is marginally better. Craving for love and respect. Cant get it in her family and is seeking it elsewhere. And Virat is so conditioned to not show his true emotions that when required he couldn't speak up for what he thought was "his true love" . Sai forces him to take a stand even though she can fight her battles herself. Virat nahi bhi hota toh voh apna admission kaise bhi karke karva leti. She would have risked her life to get money from GC or sold all her gold but she would have done the needful. Its helpful that she doesn't need to go through all that because Virat has decided to support her. Yes Sai had a moment of weakness with that suicide attempt but i hope they never show that again like they did in KD.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anvi2009

I do not agree with half the things Neil said as Virat as I guess I do not agree with Virat all the time. First of all, I am tired of characters comparing maturity level between Patralekha and Sai. When has Patraleka shown maturity? The only reason she respects the adults is because she is treated like a goddess in that house. Look at the way she talks back to Ashwini. She is all about lip service, superficialness. Not once did she show support toward Shivani. With Sai, you get what you see. She is as real as she can get. And when required, she shows her maturity in thinking, maybe not always in actions but I do not blame her. If Virat thinks that Sai is immature and Patralekha is mature then either Virat has no skill to judge people or he is still blindly in love with Patraleka. 😡 And when can we expect the elderlys in the house to show maturity. I am still waiting to see that. Elders' scolding is one thing, which is what Virat has faced. But Sai does not get scolding, what she gets is emotional torture via vile name-calling, taunts, no freedom, constant complaints, mountain-like responsibility as bahu, etc. So there is no comparison. And according to Kaku, lying is not a bad thing, but getting caught is. So sure, if this is what maturity means then I am happy to see Sai immature for life.


Sai's tit for tat may be wrong but what is she to do exactly. Be quiet, walk-off when she is emotionally tortured? Hasn't she tried all that? Has it worked? Virat is not always there to see or support Sai. Most of the time she is on her own. Has he tried to talk to Ashwini or Shivani to try to find out what goes on behind his back? Did he add 2+2 and come to 4 when it comes to his family's treatment of Sai, and mostly the different way Sai is treated from Patralekha? It has been weeks since she has come to the house and nonstop she is being tortured verbally. How much is she supposed to take? Neil as Virat in the interview still thinks that gharwalo ka dil acha hain. I guess Virat still thinks like that and it is his fault then to think like that, not Sai's. It was his responsibility to bring Sai to his house. He should have talked to his family before marrying Sai. Sai did not sign up for constant torture.


Lastly, Sai is not grateful to belong to the house and get his support? Like seriously. Does Virat not know Sai at all? And would Sai need Virat if her father was alive? Did the cvs and characters forget about her Aaba's sacrifice. Basically what Virat wants is for Sai to become like Ashwini, keep your mouth shut, listen to the adults, and do as they say. Virat knew Sai before marrying her, was she the type to accept injustice and not do anything about it? If he has that much problem with Sai's behaviour, why not let her stay in a hostel? His family will be happy and so will Sai. Virat, if your house is a constant war zone for Sai, how is she to grow and learn and become "mature" as you keep on saying. She lives in survival mode there, not knowing if she will get breakfast the next morning, and especially not knowing who will walk into her room without knocking. 😡


Lol, why am I so angry after watching the interview. It is like I feel Virat just does not understand what Sai is going through in his house.


If virat wanted sai to become like his mother Ashwani , then why he asked sai to stand for her own self respect on wedding night .


I doubt ninad gave this option to Ashwani .


Sai ko hostel jane ke liye virat ki permission leni hain kyu ? I doubt she had signed any contract with virat where she can't leave without his permission. Infact sai should reach first college , arrange things for herself like room & other stuff , she will get her scholarship then later she can inform virat dude I will not be returning now as I don't want to live in that house . If virat create some problem contact DIG.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Ohh he was playing with his wedding band at some point😲


I don't get it though, Sai has thanked him so many times for the things he does for her - for standing up for her in front of Pakhi and his family, for taking days off for her, heck even in that shadow scene, she thanked him

Sai should really listen to Virat's suggestion, leave- she'll have difficulties, but so does every other student who moves to a city. This piece of suggestion should hit him in the face and soon😳

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