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Posted: 5 years ago
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Sai is a girl under 20 yrs of age. No mother. Pampered by her dad. Who is given all sorts of freedom in her life.

Her abha understood her intentions behind her every word nd action.

Now...

She just lost her father. Has no one else to look after her.

Married a man becoz of force by others.

Man claims to not to expect anything from him and she is just his responsibility. Gave her choice to leave him nd this relation once she is a doctor.

Enters a family to doesnt like her. Keeps taunting her.

Her husband's ex is infront of her. Interrupting them nd taunting her whenever possible.

Is called by names by whole family fr every small mistake

Amongst all these if u really expect sai to be normal nd behav maturely its really foolishness. No one tries to understand her and her state of mind not even virat. She said clearly she vl react the same way ppl act with her. And its visible she is gud with shivani, ashwini nd devi bt bad vth bhavani pakhi nd co. Even virat knew that bt stil expects her to b sane.

I agree she might hav crossed line with adults in morning. Bt in the night it was him who initiated the arguemnt. She avoided talking to him. Bt he instigated her and when she retorded back he blamed her.

Just like all he also said he did ahsaan on her by marrying her indirectly. Bt what if sayi retorded back saying u are living a life gifted by my father. If my father didnt save u that day he wudnt be there nd she wud hav been with her father studying medicine without all this non sense in her life. Amongst all how can virat forget that?


When he counted all those favours done by him i agree with the way sayi retorted saying u are no where near my abha. She can say that becoz her abha lost his life saving him.

A girl who doesnt know the real world lived under her dad's protection is facing a new world all of sudden. Instead of giving her time the whole family taunts her.

Frustrated with all these how will any girl react. Its same way sai reacting. Or else she has to keep shut and take the shit. Since sai isnt that type of girl shd wud react in the same.

I can totally relate to her anger and shouting. May be with elders it was little over the line bt vth virat i dont agree.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Thank you! That is why I have a hard time to empathize with Virat because no matter what he goes through, Sai goes through even worse! She never begged to get married to him and he knows how his family is possessive about him so he should have spoken to them before marrying Sai!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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And the fact is she never saw her parents . She saw her Aaba alone ,so she don't know that couples fight also. When a man comes home he need water. She never saw her mother who bring water for his father . She never knew she had to wait for someone to have dinner. She only know one relation that is Father Daughter

She know whatever she will do her father will agree and make it fulfill for her. She never knew in such age she has to take responsibility, she thought she will enjoy her normal COLLEGE life. It will be difficult for her .

In GC no one was there to control her,to keep her quiet ,to tell to differentiate between the situations as to when to stay quiet when yo speak up.

Her small world lies with one and only her father and Usha Mausi.

His father was busy with duty and Usha mausi with household. She needs time, she needs love ,she need to be cared. Making her understand by screaming at her and bringing her father again and again.


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Posted: 5 years ago
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I agree. Virat unnecessarily started argument. Poor girl she is tensed up for the test. She did not eat properly I suppose but instead of leaving her to her plight he just went on and on.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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She lost her father and became an orphan.

No one is Chavan Nivas cares about the fact that her father died while saving Virat.

She has no where to go and is fully dependent on Virat. She must be so sad & depressed and now having to deal with all the shit this family puts her thru.


But I think they are building this to a point, where he will know of what all things his family did after she leaves the house and have a major breakdown.


Until then maybe he will not know what his family and bff did to Sai.


Instead of Virat throwing her out in other versions, I want her to leave CN with her self-respect intact. After torturing Sai so much, CVs own this to Sai and the audience.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Come to think of it, in a very neutral way, your point makes total sense. Why are there so many expectations from her and none from the family. She said it today, she is trying to balance like he stated, house work + her studies. She does listen to him, but he is not ready to understand (reason sir is on another tangent).


When I look at the episodes, whenever he is upset he does put the blame on Sai. Even in Vittal's case he blamed her, Pakhi leaving the house he taunted her and vented out. Even today, he vented out it was his anger, hurt whatever you name it. Sometimes it feels like she has become his punching bag. He vents out on her and she retorts.


Today her comment about her Aaba dont think was hurtful, he counted numerous things he has done for her all she had to say you are breathing because of my father and was enough. But she didnt, she didnt go that way. At times I feel Sai is a better written charater (atleast its comes across that way).

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Roch

Come to think of it, in a very neutral way, your point makes total sense. Why are there so many expectations from her and none from the family. She said it today, she is trying to balance like he stated, house work + her studies. She does listen to him, but he is not ready to understand (reason sir is on another tangent).


When I look at the episodes, whenever he is upset he does put the blame on Sai. Even in Vittal's case he blamed her, Pakhi leaving the house he taunted her and vented out. Even today, he vented out it was his anger, hurt whatever you name it. Sometimes it feels like she has become his punching bag. He vents out on her and she retorts.


Today her comment about her Aaba dont think was hurtful, he counted numerous things he has done for her all she had to say you are breathing because of my father and was enough. But she didnt, she didnt go that way. At times I feel Sai is a better written charater (atleast its comes across that way).


Exactly she cud hav just said that u r breathing becoz my father saved u otherwise i need not put with u or ur crazy family.. bt no she didnt.


Nd his dialogue that u make me realise every min that u dont love me nd never wanted to marry me was another tangent. He was the one who said this relation meant nothing nd she can break it. Nd when she repeated that he is hurt. Bt when his frnd and family says he married her out of sympathy, sacrifice nd all he is ok. Virat is most confused one.


Atleast sai repeats that deal word little less in tamil the heroine openly says that deal infront of whole family everytime. If that happens here i dont how mad virat vl get

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Highly disappointed with virat today..sai is just 18 years old immature girl..virat should understand her age..he give lot of responsibility to her..

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You said it.


Had I gone through half of what she went through, I don't know if I'd be sane


I understand she has her flaws, but the way she is treated man. I get her most of her outbursts tbh

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: rithika2015

Sai is a girl under 20 yrs of age. No mother. Pampered by her dad. Who is given all sorts of freedom in her life.

Her abha understood her intentions behind her every word nd action.

Now...

She just lost her father. Has no one else to look after her.

Married a man becoz of force by others.

Man claims to not to expect anything from him and she is just his responsibility. Gave her choice to leave him nd this relation once she is a doctor.

Enters a family to doesnt like her. Keeps taunting her.

Her husband's ex is infront of her. Interrupting them nd taunting her whenever possible.

Is called by names by whole family fr every small mistake

Amongst all these if u really expect sai to be normal nd behav maturely its really foolishness. No one tries to understand her and her state of mind not even virat. She said clearly she vl react the same way ppl act with her. And its visible she is gud with shivani, ashwini nd devi bt bad vth bhavani pakhi nd co. Even virat knew that bt stil expects her to b sane.

I agree she might hav crossed line with adults in morning. Bt in the night it was him who initiated the arguemnt. She avoided talking to him. Bt he instigated her and when she retorded back he blamed her.

Just like all he also said he did ahsaan on her by marrying her indirectly. Bt what if sayi retorded back saying u are living a life gifted by my father. If my father didnt save u that day he wudnt be there nd she wud hav been with her father studying medicine without all this non sense in her life. Amongst all how can virat forget that?


When he counted all those favours done by him i agree with the way sayi retorted saying u are no where near my abha. She can say that becoz her abha lost his life saving him.

A girl who doesnt know the real world lived under her dad's protection is facing a new world all of sudden. Instead of giving her time the whole family taunts her.

Frustrated with all these how will any girl react. Its same way sai reacting. Or else she has to keep shut and take the shit. Since sai isnt that type of girl shd wud react in the same.

I can totally relate to her anger and shouting. May be with elders it was little over the line bt vth virat i dont agree.


Sai was d one who said I will not marry this person , still went to marry him when she had choice to run away which she had suggested to virat , she should applied this thing on herself , she had seen there was really no one her own in GC.

Infact sai was quite clear she want to focus on her dream why dint she backout .


Starplus is giving other show shaurya & anokhi where anokhi 2 had ran away from her own marriage to fulfill her dream, she 2 is of 19 or 18.


Balika Vadhu Anandi was 18 when she found out her husband jagdish cheated her coz he dint find her fit as she was from village , Anandi made her life her identity without any men help, yes her FIL helped her to study but choices were of Anandi .


Virat is always wrong sai is always bechari . Aaj 2 virat ne keh diya ki jao , what's she waiting for just leave . Chali jaye na scholarship mil jayegi just go away from d guy.


Sai is very well aware her silence will trigger him thats why she choose to stay mum. There is a voice over also.


Kamal sir reference sai isiliye laati hain coz she know virat finds himself guilty , it will break him in minutes .


Today she is breathing coz of him still I know how much she respects him but I know virat will never say this.


Virat already signed VRS of kamal sir before kamal sir went to Mumbai , replacement to kamal sir inspector pawar also joined in still it was kamal sir decision of not taking retirement not virat.


Sai ke sahi hone se virat galat nhi hota . Even virat had beared a lot d day he came back. Just virat don't show his pain , it look he is getting high class treatment . Virat bears 10 time more than sai with pressure from all d sides.



I m damn sure if virat dies also then he will only wrong coz sai 2 bechari hain.

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